I see were the ladies are coming from on this. But neither one of them have to pull a bait and switch.
But never worry about the loud ones. Its the quiet ones you have to worry about...lol
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I see were the ladies are coming from on this. But neither one of them have to pull a bait and switch.
But never worry about the loud ones. Its the quiet ones you have to worry about...lol
She did not. This was last year...girl swapped pictures on me. When I got into the gated area the gate closed by then. When I got out of my car and saw her I was like woah "im not gonna be able to do it" totally not my type! some drunk in a wig.
I walked back to my car while she cursed me out. I just sat in the car and waited because I knew eventually somebody would leave.
Best thing to do if you get in a bait and switch situation is to remain calm, focus on the inaccurate picture and leave asap. Dont F'n stay around for convo!
Amen. In some b&sw situations I've heard you would not even be allowed to leave without "dropping some compensation" as she has just "refused several other bookings" just to see you.
What happened to me was not the classic b&sw but this nice enough looking mami took my money then fumbled around looking for condoms. Couldn't find them so would I settle for a wank. Hell no, I came to dip in some warm moist hole, and I cudda done the same with my own calloused hands? "And no refunds ya know", said with some confidence because we could both hear some rustling in the next room.
I pulled my stunt and it seems whatever gorilla in the other room got wiser and settled down. I got my coins back ponto.
Not for everyone I know.
Damn man. After reading several responses y'all validated why I don't get down with the whole escort thing. Not on some moral high and mighty shit, I just know the kind of dude I am. I don't go for the sucka shit. I'm a nice guy but I do have a short fuse. Don't try to play me like that. And since I know most of the chicks that do the whole b&sw move are borderline dudes, I know id probably have to fuck somebody up for trying to take my bread or con me.
Aw dude, stop livin in fear. Most girls aint scammin.
Not sure where you see these ads where such a high percentage is bait and switch, in all my years of screwing around my pecentage of shenanigans is well below 20% and most of them are avoided by the advice you were given: if door opens and it looks wrong turn on your heels without explanation and walk.
The other simple piece of advice to avoid BS: don't go into private apartments or houses in ghetto neighborhoods. They think they got you on their turf.
A girl at a reputable hotel, especially if she's from out of town, has more to lose then you. So you stand at the door size her up if you don't like it, if your spidey sense kicks in just walk.
A lot of good responses here. But I'll add this. If the trannie pulling the bait and switch is a crackhead, you might have to fight your way out. They wont let you just walk away without giving them something and if you refuse, be ready to throw blows. I dealt with that once before and have heard several stories like that from others. I was basically assulted so I had to defend myself. After that, I started making them come to me. On my turf. My rules. If they show up and its not who I thought I spoke to, I aint gotta let them in. But since I've been doing it that way, every girl thats come to my place was legit. I really dont think they try the b&s on outcalls. If thats what they were really up to, they wouldnt bother showing up. They would wait until they get someone to come see them.
the morale of the story is bring protection....... cus you never know