Stop right there Hakeem!!
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Originally Posted by
Remy757Photog
Really? I think the guy would probably see you as his personal 'hero' and want you to school him on your tgirl knowledge. After all nobody is coming across tgirl porn that aren't looking for it, so the guy obviously like tgirls himself. What purpose do you think "outing" you would serve? Would you "out" someone you knew when you saw them appear in a video? Seriously, question your choice in friends if they would hate on you so badly. Why befriend a bigot and/or homo-phobe? Would you befriend a racist? Befriend those who can accept you for you. All others can simply be associates whose personal opinions of you are irrelevant.
That sounds like something that might possibly happen in a small "Fargo" kind of town, where everyone knows each other and grew up together. We producers, (with a couple exceptions) are in major Metro areas and it's viturally impossible for someone to tell every single female that you were in a tgirl porn video. This is like worrying about the sun exploding or a car jumping the curb and killing you Final Destination style. Yeah, techincally it can happen, but it's not a problem to sit and hide wringing your hands over. Live your life and be happy. Take off the mask you wear for society and be your true self.
You are seriously mistaken if you believe every female would shun you for liking tgirls. There are a great many females that are into tgirls themselves, and even more that are into gay/bi men. Nearly every single female I've been in a relationship with was aware of my lifestyle, and being a bit androgynous, many of them were bi themselves.
I fail to see why so many guys look for the approval of society, complete strangers, and half assed friends when, in reality they care "fuck all" about you.
Do the mindless minions of society congratulate you on your hard day at work when you come home?
Do they whisper sweet nothings to you when you lay down at night?
Do they offer solace when you stub your toe at night, or are late on a bill?
Do you fear no one will show up at your funeral if it's known you liked tgirls, is it even possible to care once you're decaying flesh in the ground? :)
Micheal Jackson fondled little boys and everyone still went ape-shit for him. So if you are some kind of celebrity or big wig CEO on the otherside of the pc, know that at the end of the day all the bs you worry "might" happen means nothing. Everything turns into yesterdays news rather quickly, even for those who are always in the "public eye", meaning celebrities.
Lil Wayne likes to kiss Baby on the mouth, look how long that was 'news'.
R Kelly likes to piss on underage girls, look how long that was 'news'.
Chingy looks and acts like a butch queen, how long was that news.
There's been a few actors that have been caught with tgirl escorts, how long was that relevant news?
Everybody has their own 99 problems to deal with. Quit fabricating potential problems to excuse your own insecruities and man the fuck up.
If your going to quote someone to prove a point at least use the entire quote! But before I get to that! Tevin campbell, Caught with a tranny, When is the last time you heard of him! Eddie Murphy, caught with a tranny, and didn't do anything outside of Schreck for a minute. He did that from the comfort of his home. Hugh Grant caught wit a hooker, What was the last movie you saw with him? And he was the next thing!
Oh, and "personal Hero"? are you kidding me? wow!
Now back to the other thing. If you feel the need to manipulate the facts just to be right than more power to ya! For those who actaully read my post they must be scratching their head at how you tried to portray it. And then to omit my point so you can claim it for your own! Priceless! I wont go into detail because i think it would be more enjoyable and educational for the forum to read my origional post, and then see what you attempted to pass as informative opinion. Come on guy, your better than that sophmoric hack job, arent you?
For those too lazy to scroll back
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Originally Posted by
nycguy
I have to admit, I dont understand a word of this! lol... But! my scenario is this. You(meaning the reader) decides to do a scene with your local BTG photographer with your top rated girl on this site. Unknown to you, someone that your aqauinted with watches the shoot. Now this isn't a friend, more like a friend of a friend. He sees it and tells someone some story about how he came across your scene. He gets questioned a little, but you are forever known as a gay porn dude. And trust, anyone who may know you will find out about it eventually. Since you do not consider yourself gay, and still mess with GG's, all that is over in your area. no girl would share dick with a guy who fucks guys in any fashion, real talk. Most of the people you was cool with are now avoiding you to avoid suspicion themselves. you may have some cats that are cool with you regardless, but even that relationship is forever changed. It's all about your comfort area. In a place like this one (NYC) spreading around the city is pretty unlikely, It's just too dam big and crowded here. And its done all the time by those who never had a comfort area growing up. It's also why most gay and ts here are from somewhere else! Even a move from bronx to brooklyn is a totally different world/city to most. But for those who value their comfort areas, being blown up is not an option.
As far as the robin mask, Cant see that working. Neccesity is the mother of invention. If the only way you can get quality talent is using a mask, work it into the shoot like other folks do, with very good results I might add!
Oh the tricks of the media! Keeping it real since 1971!
