Originally Posted by
MrKnockOut
DS I would have to disagree on this end...because I don't believe that it is a universal truth that what you do, is who you are. You can hoe, without being a hoe...some married women (I.e. Pretty women that marry very rich ugly/old guys) do it all the time...its just that far too often, and especially with ts, they aren't educated or knowledgeable enough to differentiate the two. Its ultimately up to the individual to decide if what they do has to be who they are. When I was a teen trying to make ends meet, I sold dope, stole and all kinds of stuff. I was conscious of what I did, I knew it was wrong, but I still had to survive. So while I sold dope as a boy, I wasn't a dope boy...I didn't run around bragging about how much dope I sold or how much stuff I stole, I was just trying to survive, trying to make something out of nothing. Which I suspect is what most black ts are trying to do when they initially enter into the whole hoe game. Unfortunately as money, fame, dick, and game increases, the line between hoeing and being a hoe gets blurred.