Why Are Men Allowed To Be So Disrespectful?

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10-27-2009, 03:37 AM
ty-clone

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

It's a forum, some people love to big up and "pay" the girls and some dudes just call it how they see it. I don't think it's a thing of disrespect or being "allowed to say whatever". I don't think it's a thing of being hateful or disrespectful, I do think it's a thing of truth. Some people like it, some people don't. It is what it is.

There's a topic labeled "why are black men so bad at...", should I be offended as a black man?
There's a topic labeled "the guys on this forum are dead...", should I be offended as a guy?
I could go on and on...
I'm not offended because those things don't apply to me.
If someone called me a ni&&er, should I feel hurt? Why? I don't choose to take ownership of that word...
If someone calls you a hoe, it will only hurt if you take ownership of that word. If you've been in a committed relationship with your guy for 4 years, more power to you, he's down with what you do and you guys are making it work.

preach on, i hear girls of both sort GG & TG diss men all the time, I don’t sweat it. Its just their point of view on how they see things as we men have our own points of views
10-27-2009, 03:38 AM
ty-clone

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Originally Posted by vidman

I see your point, but I think what Logan is saying is that a difference of opinion or preference doesn't have to be manifested into disrespectful. It's quite alright to not agree with the premise of a transsexual, or with the premise of a transsexual sex industry worker. But that is still no excuse for being disrespectful. Difference of opinion is fine, but what comes out of one's mouth can either build or destroy. Let's not be destructive.

The TS spraying the lil boy with mase on the subway was a perfect example. Those words from that little boy's mouth were very destructive. The family could have very well disagreed with the premise of being a transsexual, but did they have to be disrespectful and begin to destroy this person with harsh words? No.

again, maybe its me. but i haven’t read anything on this site that remotely comparable to the boy getting mase on the subway. If im wrong, please post an example
10-27-2009, 09:59 AM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

So what was your point. lol.

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.
10-27-2009, 10:49 AM
k.logan

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Originally Posted by roninva

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.

Im 20 Something now lol and when i turn 28 i plan to be out of the buisness. At the point im getting my srs and that would be sacred between and the lucky guy. I think thats a good plan escpecially if im still with the same guy and we both agreed on it.
10-27-2009, 12:43 PM
werwt22

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Originally Posted by vidman

Homeboy, get over yourself. I was only speaking of how you grapically you described someone's woman having "cum down her throat......"
As I said before, I don't mind the business. Personally speaking, I am totally okay with my woman engaging in that type of work if that's what was paying her bills before she met me and if that's what continues to pay the bills. Like Logan said, "everybody's not meant to be doctors and lawyers." We all have to do what we can to survive. Being that transsexuals are HEAVILY discriminated against, it's not that easy for them to go out and get a good job. Hell, it's not easy for them to go out and get a rinky-dink job like a floor sweeper or dish-washer. But since they are people too, just like me and you, they have to do what they can to survive. And since there is an industry/market for them, which happens to be men, they exploit that situation to make money for yourself. It's quite simple to me.

If I recall walmart hires at least one of everything. :)
10-27-2009, 12:51 PM
werwt22

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Originally Posted by roninva

why wouldn't they say it

it has nothing to do with her looks, it has to do with what she does, dating a person who works in the adult biz can have it's negative points, and if your not willing to deal with it, it's best not to even go there with it, and most guys can't and won't.

not many guys are cool with their girl getting fucked by the next highest bidder a couple of times a day, and shooting vids, you have to be very open to the fact that you may be in a room and half the guys in there have busted nuts down her throat and you know it's a fact that they have. most guys don't want to picture their girl getting gangbanger with nut juice running down her face if it isn't his own, and they don't want to know if their girl was a jumpoff in her past, and they damn sure don't want to know that she is in the present and will be in the future.
if you think you can handle it, go for it if not don't

LMAO this one was hilarious. Some good points though. I can personally say, I wouldnt have wanted to deal with a lot of these situations. And guys do get clowned for that shit. I actually met one of the top tgirls back around 03 in the subway thinking she was a gg. She told me she was a "message therapist". Embarrassed to put the entertainer escort portion out there thinking it would run me away maybe?
10-27-2009, 03:50 PM
MrKnockOut

[QUOTE=ty-clone;10098]preach on, i hear girls of both sort GG & TG diss men all the time, I don
10-27-2009, 09:00 PM
vidman

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Originally Posted by roninva

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.

Dude, you're scattered. You're reaching all over the place. First, your argument was about men not being able to handle being in a relationship with a girl in the sex industry. Then you conveniently changed it to "dating" instead of "being in a relationship." Let's try to keep the topic a bit more streamlined shall we?

Secondly, my age wouldn't tell you anything about my situation. You throw stats out there like you're some type of statitician or something. "99% of guys that want to be....." Dude, unless you can show me some hardcore facts or data, I refuse to believe that you know what feelings rest in the hearts of 99% of the men in this world.

There's no reason for me to cover up anything. Don't be upset because I am a bit more secure about myself than you are about yourself. The reason my relationship didn't work is because the distance was a strain. Don't tell me I'm lying and don't try to steer my words in the direction you want them to go.

Again, you're misconstruing my words. I never said that "her activities kept me in plane tickets." You said that! I said that her line of work HELPED us see each other. We both chipped in. It's a relationship and that's part of the dynamics of a true relationship. I assume that you wouldn't know that.

I gather that you lack confidence, self esteem, intuitiveness and a few other intangibles and maybe some tangibles too, the reason you can't keep a woman. Or maybe something has happened to you during your experiences with ladies in the industry. Just because you've had a rough time, doesn't mean I've had or will have a rough time. Misery loves company and it seems that you want people in the "Miser Group" with you.

In summary, my opinion is expressed as previously stated. I have not one problem with dating a transsexual woman who makes her living in the sex industry. I'm not talking about just dating. I'm talking about a relationship. I would engage in a relationship with a transsexual who's in the porn/escort industry. Hey, maybe you wouldn't. That's definitely your call. As for me, I've no problems. I could care less what you, or others who agree with your opinion, think or say about me. I live my life for my satisfaction and for the person I'm satisfying. For all others who are on the outside looking in, pay attention to your own state of affairs and try to find someone who will love you. Negative attitudes bring about negative outcomes. You sir, are a big ball of negativity which explains your relationship failures (or should I say negative outcomes in your relationships).
10-28-2009, 04:37 PM
H-townBTGHunter

This Is a Tranny website so if u dont love or respect these beutiful women. Get yo a$$ the Hell off of here. If u on here then u must b attracted to the ladies. If A beautiful girl like Logan wanted to go out with me she wouldnt have to ask twice. Its the best of both worlds!!! All in All respect the girls and stop hating. H-Town Out!!!
10-29-2009, 12:09 AM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

Dude, you're scattered. You're reaching all over the place. First, your argument was about men not being able to handle being in a relationship with a girl in the sex industry. Then you conveniently changed it to "dating" instead of "being in a relationship." Let's try to keep the topic a bit more streamlined shall we?

Secondly, my age wouldn't tell you anything about my situation. You throw stats out there like you're some type of statitician or something. "99% of guys that want to be....." Dude, unless you can show me some hardcore facts or data, I refuse to believe that you know what feelings rest in the hearts of 99% of the men in this world.

There's no reason for me to cover up anything. Don't be upset because I am a bit more secure about myself than you are about yourself. The reason my relationship didn't work is because the distance was a strain. Don't tell me I'm lying and don't try to steer my words in the direction you want them to go.

Again, you're misconstruing my words. I never said that "her activities kept me in plane tickets." You said that! I said that her line of work HELPED us see each other. We both chipped in. It's a relationship and that's part of the dynamics of a true relationship. I assume that you wouldn't know that.

I gather that you lack confidence, self esteem, intuitiveness and a few other intangibles and maybe some tangibles too, the reason you can't keep a woman. Or maybe something has happened to you during your experiences with ladies in the industry. Just because you've had a rough time, doesn't mean I've had or will have a rough time. Misery loves company and it seems that you want people in the "Miser Group" with you.

In summary, my opinion is expressed as previously stated. I have not one problem with dating a transsexual woman who makes her living in the sex industry. I'm not talking about just dating. I'm talking about a relationship. I would engage in a relationship with a transsexual who's in the porn/escort industry. Hey, maybe you wouldn't. That's definitely your call. As for me, I've no problems. I could care less what you, or others who agree with your opinion, think or say about me. I live my life for my satisfaction and for the person I'm satisfying. For all others who are on the outside looking in, pay attention to your own state of affairs and try to find someone who will love you. Negative attitudes bring about negative outcomes. You sir, are a big ball of negativity which explains your relationship failures (or should I say negative outcomes in your relationships).

wow you got all that cause I won't fall in love with a girl actively working in the biz, maybe you fall in love cause you know in the end the distance, or whatever thing will ultimately come up and give you a out.
at least you can't say you didn't try..right

Can't keep a woman,.....I don't try to wifey a adult entertainer, I keep it in perspective that's all, I really don't want to see my girl having some dude pull his dick out her ass and busting a nut in her teeth, hey if's it's ok with you I'm not knocking it, but I bet the vast majority of the guys here feel the same as I do, I guess we all lack of self confidence, self esteem, because we aren't into it or maybe the fact that you don't mind may give a peek at your inability to have any respect for yourself. maybe it's what gets you off, hey good for you.

Whatever turns you on.
10-29-2009, 12:53 PM
werwt22

I guess the guys that can deal with it, want a girl that other men want. Everyone wants a girl they can brag on. The"Trophy wife". But as usual you have to deal with all the men pursuing her and trying to get with her every corner she turns. My only issue comes in at they CAN get her every corner she turns for the right price. IDK, it kinda defeats the purpose to me. No point in having a beautiful woman everyone wants if they can have her also.
11-01-2009, 05:42 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by roninva

wow you got all that cause I won't fall in love with a girl actively working in the biz, maybe you fall in love cause you know in the end the distance, or whatever thing will ultimately come up and give you a out.
at least you can't say you didn't try..right

Can't keep a woman,.....I don't try to wifey a adult entertainer, I keep it in perspective that's all, I really don't want to see my girl having some dude pull his dick out her ass and busting a nut in her teeth, hey if's it's ok with you I'm not knocking it, but I bet the vast majority of the guys here feel the same as I do, I guess we all lack of self confidence, self esteem, because we aren't into it or maybe the fact that you don't mind may give a peek at your inability to have any respect for yourself. maybe it's what gets you off, hey good for you.

Whatever turns you on.

...or maybe it's your perception of transsexual women. You always refer to the transgirls in some sexually demoralizing way such ass, "a guy pulling his dick out of her ass and nuttin in her teeth..." Sorry fella, but when
I think of a woman like Katie, Logan, Natalia or Victoria Porshe, I don't see that automatic image in my head.

It seems to me that the self esteem/confidence issue is definitley your drama and you should deal with that the best way you can. If trying to get men to join your "let's bash a nasty, trampy, dick-sucking, cum-swallowing tranny," crusade is your answer then sorry buddy, I'm not interested.

As they say, "misery loves company"
11-01-2009, 10:17 PM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

...or maybe it's your perception of transsexual women. You always refer to the transgirls in some sexually demoralizing way such ass, "a guy pulling his dick out of her ass and nuttin in her teeth..." Sorry fella, but when
I think of a woman like Katie, Logan, Natalia or Victoria Porshe, I don't see that automatic image in my head.

It seems to me that the self esteem/confidence issue is definitley your drama and you should deal with that the best way you can. If trying to get men to join your "let's bash a nasty, trampy, dick-sucking, cum-swallowing tranny," crusade is your answer then sorry buddy, I'm not interested.

As they say, "misery loves company"

I'm talking about any woman any gender that does porn, you do watch the hardcore porn here and elsewhere correct, in the end there is always the pop shot the money shot, and in the mouth or face is usually where it is deposited, if you do a anal scene you usually still end up with a facial, that's part of the job if they are being paid to do that type of scene.
You need to open your eyes to the fact that if your dating a porn chick she most likely will end of doing one or both of those scene, that's if she really wants to make it as a porn chick and get work.

So it's not any type of self esteem issue it's a reality issue that you have to deal with, like I said I don't care if a porn girl who is my friend does that, but I am not interest in MY girl doing that, if it's in her past fine, but not interested in seeing her on a video flimed this week on some site as a weekly update showing the same scene as I described and dick sucking and cum swallowing, and a guy pulling his dick out her ass and dropping a load down her throat is part of it if she agreed and has been paid to do the scene. just another porn day
As I said if your cool with it and can stand to be at a shoot where your girl is required to do this, more power to you.
got nothing to do with bashing anyone, just a fact of porn life.
And no I don't think any lady that does porn is nasty or trampy at all, i'm totally cool with it, I just don't want MY GIRL to be doing it,
11-02-2009, 12:10 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by roninva

I'm talking about any woman any gender that does porn, you do watch the hardcore porn here and elsewhere correct, in the end there is always the pop shot the money shot, and in the mouth or face is usually where it is deposited, if you do a anal scene you usually still end up with a facial, that's part of the job if they are being paid to do that type of scene.
You need to open your eyes to the fact that if your dating a porn chick she most likely will end of doing one or both of those scene, that's if she really wants to make it as a porn chick and get work.

So it's not any type of self esteem issue it's a reality issue that you have to deal with, like I said I don't care if a porn girl who is my friend does that, but I am not interest in MY girl doing that, if it's in her past fine, but not interested in seeing her on a video flimed this week on some site as a weekly update showing the same scene as I described and dick sucking and cum swallowing, and a guy pulling his dick out her ass and dropping a load down her throat is part of it if she agreed and has been paid to do the scene. just another porn day
As I said if your cool with it and can stand to be at a shoot where your girl is required to do this, more power to you.
got nothing to do with bashing anyone, just a fact of porn life.
And no I don't think any lady that does porn is nasty or trampy at all, i'm totally cool with it, I just don't want MY GIRL to be doing it,

Well, I guess we will have to agree to disagree on this one. You have your views and I have mine. It's called individuality. I guess that's what makes all of us individually unique now isn't it.
11-02-2009, 10:14 AM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

Well, I guess we will have to agree to disagree on this one. You have your views and I have mine. It's called individuality. I guess that's what makes all of us individually unique now isn't it.

The only thing is that you're disagreeing with reality of being with a porn girl. to each his reach.
11-06-2009, 07:02 PM
TsVanessa69

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Originally Posted by k.logan

Well I Must say he is a good dude but he also realizes that life is real and everybody isnt meant to be a doctor or nurse. Im professeional i dont involve my work life with my personal life instead of him worrying of what i do his concern is my saftey and we Ride Or Die togther! I think another thing that helps is that he does not even press power on a pc he's not a computer guy at all thank god!

Can I tell you how lucky and blessed you are.
Truly shows that girls in the industry are worth being loved and cared for after the shoots are done, the computer shut off and you go home or go to bed.
Lucky you are!
11-06-2009, 10:18 PM
k.logan

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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69

Can I tell you how lucky and blessed you are.
Truly shows that girls in the industry are worth being loved and cared for after the shoots are done, the computer shut off and you go home or go to bed.
Lucky you are!

Thank You and that's exactly how its suppose to be Vanessa its all cyber not reality. Thats what makes it possible will power, and me and him have the normal problems that every relationship have but i can admit my work is never one of them.
11-07-2009, 12:40 AM
anonymoussonny

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

It's a forum, some people love to big up and "pay" the girls and some dudes just call it how they see it. I don't think it's a thing of disrespect or being "allowed to say whatever". I don't think it's a thing of being hateful or disrespectful, I do think it's a thing of truth. Some people like it, some people don't. It is what it is.

There's a topic labeled "why are black men so bad at...", should I be offended as a black man?
There's a topic labeled "the guys on this forum are dead...", should I be offended as a guy?
I could go on and on...
I'm not offended because those things don't apply to me.
If someone called me a ni&&er, should I feel hurt? Why? I don't choose to take ownership of that word...
If someone calls you a hoe, it will only hurt if you take ownership of that word. If you've been in a committed relationship with your guy for 4 years, more power to you, he's down with what you do and you guys are making it work.

Amen from the choir stand!
11-07-2009, 02:10 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by roninva

The only thing is that you're disagreeing with reality of being with a porn girl. to each his reach.

Man, don't try to tell me how I feel or what I disagree with. Just because I don't agree with you philosophy doesn't make me good, bad, stupid or crazy. Now, don't be a pompus ass. Just accept the fact that I have my feelings about the situation and you have yours. I can't stand people who try to tell me how I'm feeling or what I believe. You don't know me! If I say that I don't have a problem dating a girl in the industry, then damnit, that's what it is!
11-07-2009, 04:02 PM
H-townBTGHunter

I have no problem dating someone in the industry. hell if I was comfortable in front of a camera I would be in the industry. With todays economy u gotta be a go getter and who am I to knock someones hustle. Enjoy your job and get that money. I could watch my girl on set bcuz I know she only wants me and at the end of the day we going home together. Logan your man is very lucky to have a beautiful smart person like u by his side and its great he is so understanding. I just hope I can find the same since u off the market:(. So ladies if u are looking for an attractive intelligent understanding guy. Holla at me:D
11-07-2009, 06:00 PM
ROC

all I Have To Say Is I Love You Logan And Congrads On Ya 4 Yr. Anniversary Ma....... Some Mofo's Can't Even Last 4 Weeks, Lol........
11-07-2009, 10:05 PM
k.logan

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Originally Posted by ROC

all I Have To Say Is I Love You Logan And Congrads On Ya 4 Yr. Anniversary Ma....... Some Mofo's Can't Even Last 4 Weeks, Lol........

Thanx Boo!!!:)
11-07-2009, 11:22 PM
MrKnockOut

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Originally Posted by k.logan

Thanx Boo!!!:)

Fuck that, im a jealous hater lol...let dude slip up, id wife u up n a minute
11-08-2009, 07:47 AM
k.logan

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

Fuck that, im a jealous hater lol...let dude slip up, id wife u up n a minute

:):):):) Ok I got you
11-09-2009, 11:03 PM
DirtySouth

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Originally Posted by k.logan

I Know This is a Forum and its a place where people should be able to speak your mind and blah blah blah.... This is also a Transexual Porn website where most of the girls are escorts and if im not mistaken all were born men. I visit the forum quite often and some men on here are supportive and the other half seems to be angry. In my opinion at the notice of disrepect they should be automatically deleted.If were doing something (models) that you dont like here dont come. This is one of the places that we are suppose to have respect and lately thats not it! Also if you dont wanna date a tranny thats a pornstar its SIMPLE DONT DO IT! If you also dont wanna turn a hoe into a house wife DONT TRY IT! Its as simple as that. I must say i have alot of support on the forum bu that doenst excuse the fact that i see the men disrespect my sisters. Remeber this is a transexual porn forum, If you want a christian forum GO JOIN ONE!
This thread ws inspired by the latest active threads.
Also Congrats to me and my Boyfriends 4 year anniversary! So Dont say it dont Work Im Living Proof! R.E.S.P.E.C.T Find out what it means!

Awww come on....are you serious?

This is an open forum. Everyone has the right to offend and defend as long as it doesn't get into personal information thrown about recklessly. The TS girls get on here weekly and talk about how bad guys are in the same light, so should we start booting yall off for that too? This is one of the only forums that men who enjoy TS can come and openly discuss their lifestyle & sexuality - the good and the bad.

If we decide we want to talk about how much TS piss us off - we have the right to.

If we decide we want to come on here and glorify a girl because she's pretty and can skeet a good cum shot on her video - we have the right to.

If we want to come here and talk about who we would wife up - we have the right to.

This is what a forum is for. Everyone isnt going to agree and some crowds are going to feel disrespected. I say develop some thick skin and learn to respect other's opinions even if they aren't suitable to you.
11-09-2009, 11:09 PM
DirtySouth

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Originally Posted by vidman

...or maybe it's your perception of transsexual women. You always refer to the transgirls in some sexually demoralizing way such ass, "a guy pulling his dick out of her ass and nuttin in her teeth..." Sorry fella, but when
I think of a woman like Katie, Logan, Natalia or Victoria Porshe, I don't see that automatic image in my head.

It seems to me that the self esteem/confidence issue is definitley your drama and you should deal with that the best way you can. If trying to get men to join your "let's bash a nasty, trampy, dick-sucking, cum-swallowing tranny," crusade is your answer then sorry buddy, I'm not interested.

As they say, "misery loves company"

WTF are you talking about? Hell those are all my girls that I shot and I luv each and everyone of their asses - but what you're saying doesn't make sense.

Let's keep it in perspective. You never saw these girls until you saw them shooting a load on this site. All that is on here is nasty, dick-sucking, cum busting scenes so if a guy relates to that, why does he have self esteem issues? He's talking about the very reason why he's here. The very reason for the product that we push.

Like I said in a previous post, you are entitled to your opinion and to express it but this is PORN people. This is not URNOTALONE or Hung Angels. A guy shouldnt get bashed if he thinks nasty thoughts about tgirls on a PORN SITE.
11-09-2009, 11:16 PM
k.logan

Thanks for the suggestions but no thanks! My Skin is thick a shit Im a transexual skin dont get no thicker than that.
11-09-2009, 11:29 PM
DirtySouth

Well since you edited yours, mine is too. Me and you will talk later Miss! ;-)
11-09-2009, 11:34 PM
TVSURFER

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

Awww come on....are you serious?

This is an open forum. Everyone has the right to offend and defend as long as it doesn't get into personal information thrown about recklessly. The TS girls get on here weekly and talk about how bad guys are in the same light, so should we start booting yall off for that too? This is one of the only forums that men who enjoy TS can come and openly discuss their lifestyle & sexuality - the good and the bad.

If we decide we want to talk about how much TS piss us off - we have the right to.

If we decide we want to come on here and glorify a girl because she's pretty and can skeet a good cum shot on her video - we have the right to.

If we want to come here and talk about who we would wife up - we have the right to.

This is what a forum is for. Everyone isnt going to agree and some crowds are going to feel disrespected. I say develop some thick skin and learn to respect other's opinions even if they aren't suitable to you.

Bravo Dirty, bravo!
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11-09-2009, 11:36 PM
TVSURFER

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

WTF are you talking about? Hell those are all my girls that I shot and I luv each and everyone of their asses - but what you're saying doesn't make sense.

Let's keep it in perspective. You never saw these girls until you saw them shooting a load on this site. All that is on here is nasty, dick-sucking, cum busting scenes so if a guy relates to that, why does he have self esteem issues? He's talking about the very reason why he's here. The very reason for the product that we push.

Like I said in a previous post, you are entitled to your opinion and to express it but this is PORN people. This is not URNOTALONE or Hung Angels. A guy shouldnt get bashed if he thinks nasty thoughts about tgirls on a PORN SITE.

Damn Dirty, I'm running out of accolades; Bravo, bravo and bravo!!!
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11-10-2009, 04:13 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

WTF are you talking about? Hell those are all my girls that I shot and I luv each and everyone of their asses - but what you're saying doesn't make sense.

Let's keep it in perspective. You never saw these girls until you saw them shooting a load on this site. All that is on here is nasty, dick-sucking, cum busting scenes so if a guy relates to that, why does he have self esteem issues? He's talking about the very reason why he's here. The very reason for the product that we push.

Like I said in a previous post, you are entitled to your opinion and to express it but this is PORN people. This is not URNOTALONE or Hung Angels. A guy shouldnt get bashed if he thinks nasty thoughts about tgirls on a PORN SITE.

No, what the ef are you talking about! Apparently, Mr. Dirty South, you didn't read the entire content of my dialogue with the other guy. Since you decided to interject half cocked, let me hip you to the entire conversation.

Our conversation was about guys who could or couldn't fall in love with transsexual women in the porn industry. My argument was that I could definitely be with an industry girl. He insisted on trying to call me stupid (in so many words) for feeling the way I felt. His point was that once I saw a film session in person, that my feelings would change. Once I saw a transsexual get cum shot in her mouth and down her throat, I wouldn't feel that way about her anymore.

I totally disagree. That wouldn't change my opinion of that particular girl, not at all. If I was attracted to her and if we had astounding chemistry and if we both truly loved each other, I could deal with it. This is truly the way I feel. I don't care if he, you or anyone else believes it or not. I know how I feel and that's all that matters to me. Now, in looking at the general concensus, most guys on here agree with me. There are a lot of other comments on here of guys who would still date a girl in the industry.

Oh yeah, I hate to burst your bubble Dirty, but most of these girls were shot before you were even introduced to the BTG team. I've been an admirer of transsexual women since about 1999. Did you even know any transsexuals then (sarcastically)? If I can recall, Steve shot most of these girls before you did. You do know Steve right? Yeah, he was shooting the southern girls prior to your arrival.

So, to clear up your misunderstanding....the discussion I had with the other gentleman was not about "if guys should say negative comments on this site about the girls in the industry." Our conversation had diverted to whether "a guy could fall in love with an industry transsexual." He says no a guy can't fall in love. I say yes he can.

I have no problem with what he says about any girl on this site, that's totally his opinion. Afterall, this is a porn site. Opinions, negative or positive, are formed here daily. But I have my views about the girls as well and as far as I'm concerned, they are all beautiful regardless of how much escorting, strolling, prostituting, body massages, etc, etc they do. If I'm in love with her, shit I'm in love.
11-11-2009, 01:39 PM
Ms Remy M

eh, I hear what your saying Vidman. I read your argument when initially posted, and chose not to comment because yeah you can be in a relationship with a porn actress or escort. However; by your own argument, it being successful hinges on the fact that the two of you truly love each other. Real love takes time to develop, and if she's already in the adult industry and ya'll just hooking up, then you are having to deal with all that in your face sexual situations between her and her co-stars/clients without said benefit of having that "true love" developed yet. so I kind of have to agree, it's not as easy as it looks. Congrats, on feeling like you have the mental stability to deal with that kind of situation, but it's one thing to talk the talk, actually take that first step and gain some real world experince, there was too many "IF's" in your situation for me.

I do want to say that, some find a 'out of sight, out of mind' philosphy better. Just because she's a porn actress doesn't mean you have to be at her shoots, (I personally, almost always forbid BF from coming to a shoot, though I've allowed so once or twice). You might simply find comfort in trusting that she's remaining professional and taking care of business, but again, trust is earned, not handed out like paper cups.

Say what you want about the previous ATL photog and all the great finds he brought to the site. DS brings a much better product and level of style to the table. Just imagine how many more top notch shoots would be on this site, if it had been DS running the ATL all along instead of the 'other guy'.
11-12-2009, 01:37 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

eh, I hear what your saying Vidman. I read your argument when initially posted, and chose not to comment because yeah you can be in a relationship with a porn actress or escort. However; by your own argument, it being successful hinges on the fact that the two of you truly love each other. Real love takes time to develop, and if she's already in the adult industry and ya'll just hooking up, then you are having to deal with all that in your face sexual situations between her and her co-stars/clients without said benefit of having that "true love" developed yet. so I kind of have to agree, it's not as easy as it looks. Congrats, on feeling like you have the mental stability to deal with that kind of situation, but it's one thing to talk the talk, actually take that first step and gain some real world experince, there was too many "IF's" in your situation for me.

I do want to say that, some find a 'out of sight, out of mind' philosphy better. Just because she's a porn actress doesn't mean you have to be at her shoots, (I personally, almost always forbid BF from coming to a shoot, though I've allowed so once or twice). You might simply find comfort in trusting that she's remaining professional and taking care of business, but again, trust is earned, not handed out like paper cups.

Say what you want about the previous ATL photog and all the great finds he brought to the site. DS brings a much better product and level of style to the table. Just imagine how many more top notch shoots would be on this site, if it had been DS running the ATL all along instead of the 'other guy'.

Remy, I feel what you're saying. The only catch to my story is that I've been in a relationship with a girl in the industry before and I didn't have a problem with it. The only thing that got in our way was the 900 miles that lay between us. Other than that, I was okay with it. I knew that she was "working" to make money but her feelings resided with me. That was all the comfort I needed to carry on. I know it sounds funny to someone listening to my dilemma and thinking that "if he can put up with the girl being in the industry, then he should have been very well capable of swinging a long distance relationship." Distance didn't bring about trust issues. The distance brought about frustrations because we couldn't see each other when we wanted to. I stand 100% convicted in my beliefs. I can absolutely date a TS girl in the porn industry. Yes, I most certainly could. If we have vowed and demonstrated a true love for each other, I'm totally secure.

DirtySouth does EXCELLENT work! No doubt about it!! I give him the ultimate credit. I was only chastising him because he came in on the tail end of the conversation without knowing exactly who said what and what the entire debate was about.

Yeah, I keep in touch with tons of TS girls and quite a few of them told me the horror stories about "the other guy." I'm glad to have DS on the BTG Team. I'm actually quite jealous of him. What better profession to have!! Taking pictures of beautiful transsexuals all day, seeing them get naked and freaky and getting paid to do it!!! I'm green with envy. lol.
11-13-2009, 12:23 PM
DirtySouth

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Originally Posted by vidman

I totally disagree. That wouldn't change my opinion of that particular girl, not at all. If I was attracted to her and if we had astounding chemistry and if we both truly loved each other, I could deal with it. This is truly the way I feel. I don't care if he, you or anyone else believes it or not. I know how I feel and that's all that matters to me. Now, in looking at the general concensus, most guys on here agree with me. There are a lot of other comments on here of guys who would still date a girl in the industry.

Well hey, if you're into sharing your girl with everyone with the cash to buy her time, I cant hate you for that.

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Originally Posted by vidman

Oh yeah, I hate to burst your bubble Dirty, but most of these girls were shot before you were even introduced to the BTG team. I've been an admirer of transsexual women since about 1999. Did you even know any transsexuals then (sarcastically)? If I can recall, Steve shot most of these girls before you did. You do know Steve right? Yeah, he was shooting the southern girls prior to your arrival.

I hate to burst YOUR bubble since you didnt do your homework homey. I've been at it since 1998. So the question is when I was at it, did YOU know any transsexual women? Yeah I know someone was shooting the girls prior to my arrival but did you stop to ask yourself why I'm here and he's not? How is that even a valid point? George Gervin was playing ball way before Kobe Bryant, who do people remember more?

It's just a forum bro. No one is attacking your personally. If thats your thing, thats your thing. We all been there.
11-14-2009, 05:48 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

Well hey, if you're into sharing your girl with everyone with the cash to buy her time, I cant hate you for that.

I hate to burst YOUR bubble since you didnt do your homework homey. I've been at it since 1998. So the question is when I was at it, did YOU know any transsexual women? Yeah I know someone was shooting the girls prior to my arrival but did you stop to ask yourself why I'm here and he's not? How is that even a valid point? George Gervin was playing ball way before Kobe Bryant, who do people remember more?

It's just a forum bro. No one is attacking your personally. If thats your thing, thats your thing. We all been there.

George who? LOL. Just kidding Dirty. You cool with me dude. I admire your work man. You do an excellent job. I'm not questioning your professional prowess one iota. All I can say is I wish I was your co-worker. Help me out Dirty. I know tons of girls from all over. I've seen guys request lots of girls that I know personally. I would love to be a photog. I saw the ad that Seanchai sent out requesting photographers. The reason I didn't respond is because he referenced the Canada area. I don't know any girls up that way, but I know them from coast to coast, within the U.S. Put a word in for me.
11-14-2009, 01:44 PM
DirtySouth

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Originally Posted by vidman

George who? LOL. Just kidding Dirty. You cool with me dude. I admire your work man. You do an excellent job. I'm not questioning your professional prowess one iota. All I can say is I wish I was your co-worker. Help me out Dirty. I know tons of girls from all over. I've seen guys request lots of girls that I know personally. I would love to be a photog. I saw the ad that Seanchai sent out requesting photographers. The reason I didn't respond is because he referenced the Canada area. I don't know any girls up that way, but I know them from coast to coast, within the U.S. Put a word in for me.

Where do you reside now?
11-16-2009, 08:58 AM
TsVanessa69

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

eh, I hear what your saying Vidman. I read your argument when initially posted, and chose not to comment because yeah you can be in a relationship with a porn actress or escort. However; by your own argument, it being successful hinges on the fact that the two of you truly love each other. Real love takes time to develop, and if she's already in the adult industry and ya'll just hooking up, then you are having to deal with all that in your face sexual situations between her and her co-stars/clients without said benefit of having that "true love" developed yet. so I kind of have to agree, it's not as easy as it looks. Congrats, on feeling like you have the mental stability to deal with that kind of situation, but it's one thing to talk the talk, actually take that first step and gain some real world experince, there was too many "IF's" in your situation for me.

I do want to say that, some find a 'out of sight, out of mind' philosphy better. Just because she's a porn actress doesn't mean you have to be at her shoots, (I personally, almost always forbid BF from coming to a shoot, though I've allowed so once or twice). You might simply find comfort in trusting that she's remaining professional and taking care of business, but again, trust is earned, not handed out like paper cups.

Say what you want about the previous ATL photog and all the great finds he brought to the site. DS brings a much better product and level of style to the table. Just imagine how many more top notch shoots would be on this site, if it had been DS running the ATL all along instead of the 'other guy'.

May I say back off my baby DS!
I LOVED working with him and I love my photo's.
His work speaks for it self, and I most definatly am not embarrassed to show off this shoot.
Clearly a step above others, and his personality won me over after the first 5 minutes.
Clearly my best shoot to date!
11-16-2009, 12:18 PM
DirtySouth

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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69

May I say back off my baby DS!
I LOVED working with him and I love my photo's.
His work speaks for it self, and I most definatly am not embarrassed to show off this shoot.
Clearly a step above others, and his personality won me over after the first 5 minutes.
Clearly my best shoot to date!

Thanks V ;-) You're certainly one of my favorite models - great personality.
11-17-2009, 05:40 AM
vidman

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

Where do you reside now?

Dirty, I currently reside in Atlanta. I know that you are handling this area, but I would definitely be willing to travel to other places just for the opportunity to shoot for BTG. Or maybe, since there is such an abundance of girls here in the Georgia, Florida, Carolina area, I could help you cover the territory. I'm willing to get in where I fit in.

Hey, thanks for responding man. Much appreciated.

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