Why Are Men Allowed To Be So Disrespectful?

there have been quite a few crazy comments made on this forum (usually from the same people) that I view as opposing what this forum is about. I surely see how a lot of the women on here could be offended. I love the fact that girls that I have lusted after like Kennedy or Jess when I was in the carolinas are on this forum speaking their minds. But on that same token Jess is one of the most outspoken (and honest) people on this forum, I dont think anyone should be silenced, if anything it rallies everyone together for a cause.

as for the statement someone made about an escort putting the wall up, keep in mind its a job. I dont care to meet people in a casual manner at my work. What builds up that relationship is time, return visits and more opportunities to learn about one another. dont blame for not wanting something other that what they are doing which is more than likely a job.

Kennedy your man is a Boss I couldnt imagine dating any porn star or escort im that jealous type he really must be a very forward thinking man. Keep up that website its doing the damn thing for sure.

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Originally Posted by 4mystuffin

there have been quite a few crazy comments made on this forum (usually from the same people) that I view as opposing what this forum is about. I surely see how a lot of the women on here could be offended. I love the fact that girls that I have lusted after like Kennedy or Jess when I was in the carolinas are on this forum speaking their minds. But on that same token Jess is one of the most outspoken (and honest) people on this forum, I dont think anyone should be silenced, if anything it rallies everyone together for a cause.

as for the statement someone made about an escort putting the wall up, keep in mind its a job. I dont care to meet people in a casual manner at my work. What builds up that relationship is time, return visits and more opportunities to learn about one another. dont blame for not wanting something other that what they are doing which is more than likely a job.

Kennedy your man is a Boss I couldnt imagine dating any porn star or escort im that jealous type he really must be a very forward thinking man. Keep up that website its doing the damn thing for sure.

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Return visits? HAHA It's not the lottery LMAO. Free ass for life after five visits....right.
Almost any girl will tell you they separate business from pleasure, and if your paying, you will most likely never have any form of relationship with them other than what you pay for, no matter how many "return visits". I'm not trying to discourage anyone from paying for an escort, some guys just wanna get down to business sometimes, if that's your thing then hey, be my guest, but let's just be real here. It dont work that way. :cool:

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Originally Posted by werwt22

Return visits? HAHA It's not the lottery LMAO. Free ass for life after five visits....right.
Almost any girl will tell you they separate business from pleasure, and if your paying, you will most likely never have any form of relationship with them other than what you pay for, no matter how many "return visits". I'm not trying to discourage anyone from paying for an escort, some guys just wanna get down to business sometimes, if that's your thing then hey, be my guest, but let's just be real here. It dont work that way. :cool:

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basically what i was gonna say

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Originally Posted by werwt22

Return visits? HAHA It's not the lottery LMAO. Free ass for life after five visits....right.
Almost any girl will tell you they separate business from pleasure, and if your paying, you will most likely never have any form of relationship with them other than what you pay for, no matter how many "return visits". I'm not trying to discourage anyone from paying for an escort, some guys just wanna get down to business sometimes, if that's your thing then hey, be my guest, but let's just be real here. It dont work that way. :cool:

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I agree Im not trying to hook up that was a response to another persons comment in this thread and in a lot of other threads. I pay for sex but its so I dont have to deal with the bullshit of relationships and what not, not in the hopes of starting one. nice " " though that was some hot shit the way you threw them up there. keep up the good work slick.

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Originally Posted by werwt22

HAHA I already gave you that one. I told you I agree as far as hating on someone, and yes I understand you have feelings. That's not the point I was making. Hope you didnt think I was referring to the comments people make to belittle you as valid points. I'm just saying people disagree and you shouldn't be banned, deleted, or blocked because someone doesn't jump on the bandwagon.

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I see your point, but I think what Logan is saying is that a difference of opinion or preference doesn't have to be manifested into disrespectful. It's quite alright to not agree with the premise of a transsexual, or with the premise of a transsexual sex industry worker. But that is still no excuse for being disrespectful. Difference of opinion is fine, but what comes out of one's mouth can either build or destroy. Let's not be destructive.

The TS spraying the lil boy with mase on the subway was a perfect example. Those words from that little boy's mouth were very destructive. The family could have very well disagreed with the premise of being a transsexual, but did they have to be disrespectful and begin to destroy this person with harsh words? No.

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Originally Posted by vidman

I see your point, but I think what Logan is saying is that a difference of opinion or preference doesn't have to be manifested into disrespectful. It's quite alright to not agree with the premise of a transsexual, or with the premise of a transsexual sex industry worker. But that is still no excuse for being disrespectful. Difference of opinion is fine, but what comes out of one's mouth can either build or destroy. Let's not be destructive.

The TS spraying the lil boy with mase on the subway was a perfect example. Those words from that little boy's mouth were very destructive. The family could have very well disagreed with the premise of being a transsexual, but did they have to be disrespectful and begin to destroy this person with harsh words? No.

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Exactly My Point! Thast was so uncalled For!

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Originally Posted by 4mystuffin

there have been quite a few crazy comments made on this forum (usually from the same people) that I view as opposing what this forum is about. I surely see how a lot of the women on here could be offended. I love the fact that girls that I have lusted after like Kennedy or Jess when I was in the carolinas are on this forum speaking their minds. But on that same token Jess is one of the most outspoken (and honest) people on this forum, I dont think anyone should be silenced, if anything it rallies everyone together for a cause.

as for the statement someone made about an escort putting the wall up, keep in mind its a job. I dont care to meet people in a casual manner at my work. What builds up that relationship is time, return visits and more opportunities to learn about one another. dont blame for not wanting something other that what they are doing which is more than likely a job.

Kennedy your man is a Boss I couldnt imagine dating any porn star or escort im that jealous type he really must be a very forward thinking man. Keep up that website its doing the damn thing for sure.

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Well I Must say he is a good dude but he also realizes that life is real and everybody isnt meant to be a doctor or nurse. Im professeional i dont involve my work life with my personal life instead of him worrying of what i do his concern is my saftey and we Ride Or Die togther! I think another thing that helps is that he does not even press power on a pc he's not a computer guy at all thank god!

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Originally Posted by k.logan

Its a Difference between making a Valid Point thats why its refered to as valid! If You havent noticed ive taken what i do and turned into something positive. Once again if you dont like trannys because they are "hoes" and "men" then why come to a "Porn site" or forum full of hoes that are actually men and then state it in a thread? How many of these men with valid points deal with a tranny day by day to notice that they are human, they have feelings, they love , they hurt they are human they should be treated as such! :confused:

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at the blah blah blah point :) :
I like em all (trans....hoes, men, porn site, even the all american trans... Joe "THE AMERICAN HERO" :confused: political chatter) yet beyond the bare min... which is w/ respect (until proven otherwise) each category is treated differently some you treat with kids gloves others you have to use bear claws :rolleyes: Then again I understand a person's frustration and therefore venting sessions because there is and ugly side to this game.....(business, relationships, attitudes, "you name it", etc) I applaud anyones hustle if the intent is not to harm anyone and yet to do positive things

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Originally Posted by vidman

Kennedy, I totally agree with you. If you don't like the music being played on 103.3, turn the dial to 107.9! lol. Seriously, the real, but sad issue is that in 2009, people still have a problem with diversity. At what point will people realize that we all differ, from the smallest similarities to the greatest of divides. We are so caught up in our own world of self-awareness that we forget to realize that people are all different. The question was raised in a forum last week about "dating a transsexual escort/porn star." My answer was "HECK YEAH I WOULD" because if two people are attracted to each other in a way that creates a genuine reciprocation of love and affection, why try to stop it with some nonsense reason. People are praying to find the love of their lives and some people have love hit them smack dab in the face and let it pass them by because of stupid pride and prejudice. Once we, especially black men, stop being so judgmental and frowning upon people who do things that we wouldn't quite do, then the disrespect will stop because the understanding factor will kick in. No man on here will boldly say that they wouldn't date Natalia Coxx, Fia, Ebony, Katie Cokkks, Kennedy, Victoria Porshe, Chyna, Infinity or Taylor, etc, etc. My point in listing so many names is to get the guys to just think about what they are ultimately saying when they claim that they would never date a porn star/escort. These are just a few of the beautiful girls that I mentioned. Sorry fellas, but I wouldn't pass up one chance to date one of these girls regardless of how many guys they've tricked or how many porn films they've shot loads in. AND...I would treat them with the respect they deserve just for being normal people trying to get their bills paid.

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I should'a started right here: cause yes i fit the guy description and i would date the above list almost in that order strike Katie off and move Kennedy up a few. But again it would be in the traditional sense of dating. It has to be an agreed upon version of the traditional sense. And maybe we can start a thread simply on this which is how can you pose a traditional solution to a non-traditional issue it can't work. If you look at the reality of the situation you will find we can't even get the traditional solution right when its applied to the traditional problem. :cool: I tend to think whether or not people hide shy away from transexuals its not from the people themselves i believe it is more from the attitudes and personalities of the people.:cool:

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Originally Posted by vidman

No man on here will boldly say that they wouldn't date Natalia Coxx, Fia, Ebony, Katie Cokkks, Kennedy, Victoria Porshe, Chyna, Infinity or Taylor, etc, etc. My point in listing so many names is to get the guys to just think about what they are ultimately saying when they claim that they would never date a porn star/escort.

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why wouldn't they say it

it has nothing to do with her looks, it has to do with what she does, dating a person who works in the adult biz can have it's negative points, and if your not willing to deal with it, it's best not to even go there with it, and most guys can't and won't.

not many guys are cool with their girl getting fucked by the next highest bidder a couple of times a day, and shooting vids, you have to be very open to the fact that you may be in a room and half the guys in there have busted nuts down her throat and you know it's a fact that they have. most guys don't want to picture their girl getting gangbanger with nut juice running down her face if it isn't his own, and they don't want to know if their girl was a jumpoff in her past, and they damn sure don't want to know that she is in the present and will be in the future.
if you think you can handle it, go for it if not don't