I need your advice seriously!!

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Originally Posted by qcutta

Well, I have to agree with Jay for the most part...when you are a pornstar/escort and every vid/pic ppl see you in you're engaged in some kinda wild sex act, well, that's how ppl are gonna perceive you...its not always right, but hey, most guys/girls come to these sites to fill their own sexual urges. I guess that's the downside of doing porn/being an escort/stripper etc. It's not always right but you can't really get upset if they come at you like that.

It no different than being a gangsta rapper...most of these guys talk about killing ppl, being big time 'Drug Lords' and shooting Rap vids with a bunch of money, girls and cars that usually don't even beling to them. But the average Rap fan don't know that, so they just buy into the illusions and think 'X' rapper is really balling like that.

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what most guys fail to realize is THIS IS A FANTASY.what we do on this website and when/if we escort is to fulfill a fantasy for you guys and in return we are compensated.the things we do in the sex industry isnt indicative of our actual lives.i can promise you that on my spare time im not running around sucking as many dicks as possible lol.i have a boyfriend,family,friends,hobbies,goals,and etc...basically a life.its is never appropriate for a guy to approach me outside of this world (like on the street or at a store) and say something like "i really liked your last video" or "i heard you suck good dick".i would never approach a client like that.you guys want some kind of discretion and respect for your personal life right? how about showing us the same measure of respect...

While I get all the other stuff and what you're saying. You really wouldn't want a guy to praise your work on a casual basis?

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

While I get all the other stuff and what you're saying. You really wouldn't want a guy to praise your work on a casual basis?

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no,i dont appreciate guys approaching on the street in regards to porn or escorting

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But I seriously need you guys opinion. Personally I enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" I mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

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............................................All I do is chase.

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Originally Posted by Indy24

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Sometimes I feel like you might be taking the right course of action...

LOL @ "i heard you suck good dick"

Many-a-girl has heard that one whether she does porn or not.

If you dont already maybe yoy should get a seperate buisness/personal phone and email.
And dont feel bad all pornstars go through this weather u ts or gg. I remember pinky talking about this before. Imagine beyonce gave out her number, same thing would happen. u just gotta seperate buisness and personal. Honestly it seems to me more ts performers (not u specifically) than gg treat fans like friends instead of keeping it buisness.

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

what most guys fail to realize is THIS IS A FANTASY.what we do on this website and when/if we escort is to fulfill a fantasy for you guys and in return we are compensated.the things we do in the sex industry isnt indicative of our actual lives.i can promise you that on my spare time im not running around sucking as many dicks as possible lol.i have a boyfriend,family,friends,hobbies,goals,and etc...basically a life.its is never appropriate for a guy to approach me outside of this world (like on the street or at a store) and say something like "i really liked your last video" or "i heard you suck good dick".i would never approach a client like that.you guys want some kind of discretion and respect for your personal life right? how about showing us the same measure of respect...

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Like I've said before, that's just the downside of working in the sex biz...I outta know b/c I used to date a few Strippers (GG) when I was Djing a lot..and believe me, there's nothing worse than having random guys running up to the chick you're seeing talking about how they got down with them at the club the other night or talking about planning to see them later on or planning private parties with them...

But I couldn't do anything about it for the most part...why? Because that's how they make their $$$$$$$!!! And its probably should be the same for you b/c that guy who walked up to you in the streetz will probably spend $$$ on you or your website later on...if you're rude and ignorant to your so called clients and fans, then they won't go to your site/see you anymore.

I believe that was Sasha's primary concern. Trying to find a way to deal with these types of people without losing customers.

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Like I've said before, that's just the downside of working in the sex biz...I outta know b/c I used to date a few Strippers (GG) when I was Djing a lot..and believe me, there's nothing worse than having random guys running up to the chick you're seeing talking about how they got down with them at the club the other night or talking about planning to see them later on or planning private parties with them...

But I couldn't do anything about it for the most part...why? Because that's how they make their $$$$$$$!!! And its probably should be the same for you b/c that guy who walked up to you in the streetz will probably spend $$$ on you or your website later on...if you're rude and ignorant to your so called clients and fans, then they won't go to your site/see you anymore.

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the few people who know me off this forum knows that im never rude or ignorant.the type of (regular) clients i have understand and respect my need for privacy because i respect theirs.
the more i grow in this industry (and as a person) the more professional i try to conduct myself.im still the cool ass girl from around the way whos always down to have a few drinks and chill (for those who know me as that) but at the same time im not the same girl who use to hang out all night on the stroll lol.my life no longer just consists of escorting and dick.i guess what im trying to say is all this is just a means to an end for me,not a life style.im working on establishing a life and identity outside of the "industry".its hard to do that if i always have guys encroaching on that life.