thats you guys problem.you think we all are the same and you miss out on the few that are about something cause of this attitude.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
ps.its not maybe im different, i am.why you think you got nowhere?
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thats you guys problem.you think we all are the same and you miss out on the few that are about something cause of this attitude.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
ps.its not maybe im different, i am.why you think you got nowhere?
Wanna go to the movies sometime?Quote:
Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor
yes,lets keep it real.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
im not expecting to meet anyones friends or family because your not going to meet mine right away.however if its never going to be an option period than why waste each others time dating if its not going to go anywhere.
i have no problem leaving this life behind and building something real with a guy.ive done it before and ill do it again.unfortunately the guy wasnt worth the effort last time.so now i wait until things get serious and the guy has proven himself before i change my life like that.
but lets be honest it has less to do with the girl working and i can tell that by your use of words.talking about rainbow floats,blowing your life up and shit.you niggas act like openly dating a girl like me is a negative.
i would never date a guy who thinks his whole world would stop.i want to be an assit to his life,not something that causes chaos and lost.
ive been talking to this one guy for awhile now and things just got serious because he showed me that he was ready for that.his mother and sister picked me up from the train station yesterday like it was nothing.this was no awkwardness,weird moments or questions about my gender.its only an issue if you let it be one.he wants me to be apart of his life which includes his family and friends.its not like he's picking me over them.
Interesting arguments on both sides. Good ish
I agree this is a great thread/post.Quote:
Originally Posted by Themegahomo
i don't think all are. i even said as much. the problem is that those ts who do far outnumber those ts who don't. the question should be, what the hell is wrong in the young ts culture (won't include race in this) that this way of thinking is acceptable and encouraged?Quote:
Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor
:cool: ps. if your apt to judge someone based on no actual face to face or phone convo than, perhaps, it was best "i got nowhere". can't and don't want to win them all, as previously stated, i'd want more than sex from you.
yes,lets keep it real. im not expecting to meet anyones friends or family because your not going to meet mine right away.however if its never going to be an option period than why waste each others time dating if its not going to go anywhere.
but when is the "this isn't going anywhere determination" made and who makes that determination? is it 1 month, 1 year, what? is it a mutual decision or is it something you have set in your mind? how soon should WE be willing to become a real UNION? how soon should we be willing to put our love before our own selfish self interest? let's be 100% real here Amber (and any other woman who wants to join in)
i have no problem leaving this life behind and building something real with a guy.ive done it before and ill do it again.unfortunately the guy wasnt worth the effort last time.so now i wait until things get serious and the guy has proven himself before i change my life like that.
but let's be honest here. the way you framed that is no better than the way you said i framed or commented (below) about the gay/transsexual lifestyle. you are basically saying that what it boils down to you is a choice between being in a committed relationship and continuing with your current occupation/lifestyle. how is that any different from me saying that what it boils down to for most straight dudes is a choice between being in a committed relationship or continuing with his current occupation/lifestyle? it's a shame that you don't see the hypocrisy in that.
but lets be honest it has less to do with the girl working and i can tell that by your use of words.talking about rainbow floats,blowing your life up and shit.you niggas act like openly dating a girl like me is a negative.
see above. also, you are blurring the lines again. you being transsexual wouldn't be the major issue. you being a working girl would. that's what yall don't really want to understand. do you think i'd be cool with wify'ing a bio chick that prostituted? i'm not going to go into a rant/debate morality, at the end of the day your choice is your choice. i'm just saying when it comes to being in a committed relationship with a ts, why do MOST of yall automatically assume that the major hang up with the guy is you being transsexual when it really could be you just being a working/jumpoff girl.
i would never date a guy who thinks his whole world would stop.i want to be an assit to his life,not something that causes chaos and lost.
ive been talking to this one guy for awhile now and things just got serious because he showed me that he was ready for that.his mother and sister picked me up from the train station yesterday like it was nothing.this was no awkwardness,weird moments or questions about my gender.its only an issue if you let it be one.he wants me to be apart of his life which includes his family and friends.its not like he's picking me over them.
i wish you and dude success and love. trust, had i known that, i wouldn't have bothered with the one on one convo. you can't judge a man solely off text and email, that'd be like me judging you based on your occupation. that's all i'm saying. fair is fair.
LMAO ME PERSONALLY I DONT HAVE TIME TO PLAY WIFEY AND HUSBAND!! I have goals that need to be acheived in my transition. I need to set a career im starting my life over in a whole new lifestyle so its a rebirth in my eyes im still a young girl..and what do moms and dads say to there young daughters" you should not be worried about a boy.. worry about your future.. I may meet men along my journey but at the enf of it i only need one if it bothers him what i choose to do to make my goals happen on him..I wont judge him dont judge me. if he decides to stay around for the long run than i would consider a husband material "BUT HE DOES NOT HAVE TOO" neither do i need to meet his family and friends.not lke i wanna hang with his friends anyway and im just not gonna let anyone meyetmy folks cause if he is a douche than she would believe those are the only type of men ts woman can have.. I dunno maybe i still have the avg dude mental thought about this lifestyle wtf i dont care just wanna make money and have a future..if love comes so be it. IF NOT FUCK IT!
Prefer the puss. Whats funny though is TS porn is 90% of what I watch. It isnt exactly an even playing field though. Maybe its because i can randomly find a woman anywhere and only see ts once every blue moon.
sasha, let me ask you this ma. real shit. how do you filter out the thousands of dudes for that 1 in your line of work? don't take this as being judgmental or anything of that nature, i'm seriously asking how do you know that guy is or will be the one if you average a client a day? i'd fucking hate french fries if i had to peel potatoes 7 days a week. more importantly, how would he know that he holds a special place in your heart? how would he knows he different than a client who gets the Sasha GFE?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sasha
maybe if you dropped some knowledge or insight for the few of us unenlightened and uninformed dudes on here we'd begin to at least be able to see things from a young ts perspective.
no man or woman is an island. humans aint meant to be alone and without true partnership. i don't care how much of a pimp, player, hustler you (not you specifically) are, we just aint built for life long solidarity.