Originally Posted by
MrF
One thing is for sure, the dynamics between TG and men is very different, on average, than the dynamic between GG and men (GG = genetic women). GG have their problems with men, but the TG problems are in a whole different league: not being taken seriously, being treated as a sex object, being a secret fetish, you name it.
I think a major difference is the lack of ability to have children. Now, a lot of guys aren't thinking about "reproduction", they're just thinking of getting their dick wet. But even the most mindless horndog is driven by his instincts, much like the behavior of a simple insect is driven by instinct.
Women use more energy for reproduction (gestation, child-rearing), so they are more circumspect; for men a tiny investment in energy may suffice -- hit and run -- but the women tend to demand as part of the deal that men invest far more energy (marriage, long-term support, respect). Typically this dynamic does not exist between men and TG, and it distorts things. Combine that with the disapproval of society and you have a tough situation. Not sure what to do about it ...