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Thank you? >.>

I tried but too many are caught up in "the life" and dont wanna give it up. I have no issues with a girls past but def have a problem if the same continues when were together. I used to hang with a girl that wasnt even in the porn biz...she used to do hair at shows but eventuallly ended up doing porn and it ruined that relationship. Her mentality completely changed when the escorting started.

Fact is most of these girls want real love, but they arent willing to give up what they should to attain it. And in all honesty, most guys that accept an escorting girl, are with you just to say theyre with you. No real man wants to share his girl with anyone. If she's the one then she's the one....not the one plus 15. When I get home or meet my girl, I wanna kiss her. I dont wanna have to worry about if im kissing dick lips everyday. I could only imagine sitting at the bar overhearing how some guy fucked my girl last night #PISSED!!!

I SPEAK TRUTH!!!! =D

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Originally Posted by vidman

I've noticed that a lot of transsexuals have delusions of grandeur, Cos. They like to feel larger than what they really are. They don't want you paying the same attention to another girl if you're giving her that attention regardless if you two are only friends or more than friends. The insecurities are deeply rooted, so attention makes them feel as if they have separated themselves from the rest, hence the feeling of security. Once they see you begin to show someone else the same attention it makes them feel par again. You know, like the rest.....nothing special.

Disclosure: This is only MY opinion! Nothing factual stated here. Only based on my experience with some transsexuals and the patterns are similar. One can only deduce that there may be some validity to my presumption.

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I see quite a bit of validity in your opinion. Your opinion also holds true with most "genetic girls" as well. Most people (male & female) love attention. Everyone wants to be the center of someone else's universe, but it seems as if many of us are harder on Tgirls than on everyone else. Why do we see 90 to 99% of Tgirls as escorts or sex industry starlets? I admit the majority of Tgirls I have come across are in the industry either as a model on a porn site or an escort, but that's mainly because of the easy access to them on various porn sites and escort sites. There are 10 times more straight porn sites out there and the "regular escort" sites are also 10 to 20 times larger than Tgirl sites yet I'm sure when you see a nice looking genetic girl on the street you do not automatically think she's an escort or a porn star. Or do you?

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Originally Posted by Kazharlem

I see quite a bit of validity in your opinion. Your opinion also holds true with most "genetic girls" as well. Most people (male & female) love attention. Everyone wants to be the center of someone else's universe, but it seems as if many of us are harder on Tgirls than on everyone else. Why do we see 90 to 99% of Tgirls as escorts or sex industry starlets? I admit the majority of Tgirls I have come across are in the industry either as a model on a porn site or an escort, but that's mainly because of the easy access to them on various porn sites and escort sites. There are 10 times more straight porn sites out there and the "regular escort" sites are also 10 to 20 times larger than Tgirl sites yet I'm sure when you see a nice looking genetic girl on the street you do not automatically think she's an escort or a porn star. Or do you?

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I see your point Kaz but I'm afraid you're comparing apples to oranges here. You cant really compare it like that because there are more genetic women than transsexual women. For example, 5000 biological women who escort out of 100,000 total biological women doesn't look as bad as 5000 transsexuals who escort out of 5500 total transsexuals. Do you see my point? An overwhelming majority of transsexuals work in the industry. Not the case with biological women. Another example....we all know that our prison system consists of whites and blacks, about 49% to 47% respectively. That doesn't look so bad. But when you look at the fact that blacks only make up 13% of the total US population and we are taking up almost 50% of the occupancy when white people outnumber blacks in this country 7 to 1.......now it looks bad. These are the same examples that apply to the transsexual world.

I find it very interesting that you guys can make generalities about girls in the industry (and ts woman as a whole) but when ever a girl make generalities about men y'all call foul....#hypocrites

From reading these replies, it sounds like y'all boys are dealing with a lot of unnecessary drama that could potentially stress you out. But I thank you for all for sharing your opinions because y'all have basically strengthened the point I made earlier.

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Originally Posted by Financier

From reading these replies, it sounds like y'all boys are dealing with a lot of unnecessary drama that could potentially stress you out. But I thank you for all for sharing your opinions because y'all have basically strengthened the point I made earlier.

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Drama tends to come with the territory but that doesn't mean you have to leave with it...


On another note. I've accepted that chaser role to a some degree and basically ran with it... So in this day and age if ho's don't like being called "ho's" then perhaps they should be "escorting" something other than bodily fluids...

Just saying is all.

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Originally Posted by Indy24

Drama tends to come with the territory but that doesn't mean you have to leave with it...


On another note. I've accepted that chaser role to a some degree and basically ran with it... So in this day and age if ho's don't like being called "ho's" then perhaps they should be "escorting" something other than bodily fluids...

Just saying is all.

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interesting that you can call us hoes but if we call you a faggot for taking dick y'all wanna cry about it....y'all niggas is a trip.
I'm just saying how bout y'all show us the same amount of respect that you would want us to show you.

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

interesting that you can call us hoes but if we call you a faggot for taking dick y'all wanna cry about it....y'all niggas is a trip.
I'm just saying how bout y'all show us the same amount of respect that you would want us to show you.

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I mean....y'all calling guys faggots is a contradiction, really. So I don't understand why y'all even call guys faggots for doing the same thing you're doing...being a male engaging in sex with another male. The dress up thing is cool and whatnot, but don't forget who you really are, especially to the point where you start condemning guys for doing what you're doing.