And i know allot of guys feel that way which is why some girls get discouraged and say fuck it, I'm charging all of y'all.Quote:
Originally Posted by werwt22
Who wants to keep getting hurt by guys who can't be honest and open with you
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And i know allot of guys feel that way which is why some girls get discouraged and say fuck it, I'm charging all of y'all.Quote:
Originally Posted by werwt22
Who wants to keep getting hurt by guys who can't be honest and open with you
man we watchin the game, and I forgot to delete my internet history on on the phone I had it on shemaleboom.com and he was like "wtf" and bust out laughing man all my dudes were CLOWNING me. my life is over SMDH. don't none them niggaz f/with me anymore. they on facebook CLOWNING ME. I'll get through it but damn damn damn. i was slipping. i usually remember to delete my history, turn off my computer w/ppl come over but all it takes is that ONE FUCKIN TIMEQuote:
Originally Posted by kasseen
Damn I had to delurk on this one... Hopefully it blows over on your end!
This may be popular opinion, but it's a far cry from representing how all men think. If I get to the point where I feel strongly enough about someone trans or otherwise to entertain a serious relationship, I'm gonna take on everything that entails. I never understood the DL mentality. Of course, I've never placed a ton of emphasis on social acceptance either. Guess that's why I have a small circle of friends. If all I want is fun with no strings attached, I'll stick with p2p. I don't see it as paying a chick to fuck. I see it as paying her to leave :pQuote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Finally a decent dude in this thread lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by joxynn
I understand not going all out for some random chick but if one claims to love or care about a person you simply wouldn't be ashamed of them.
Even before i was trans i was into doing my own thing and thinking for myself.popular societal opinion doesn't faze me.
HAHAHA Awww, I'm not decent because I told my honest opinion? LOL. First off, back when I met Christy AKA Sheeba, back when she just turned 19, she was the first TS I ever had feelings for. I fealt so strongly that I told my father, "YES MY FATHER", the person that a son holds their opinion to the highest regard, about how I fealt. So no, ashamed isnt the word for me babe. Oh and no a gg doesnt get to enter my house just because she's a gg. I dont bring just anyone around my family. Im just curious why you wanna fight so hard just to be judged? Its the main reason most people leave their home town. And realistically, not to knock joxyn, but most of the guys that speak that way, are social outcast, or just saying that bullshit to get booty, just like niggaz that say I love you just to smash. Tell a chick what she wanna hear til you get the ass is the oldest, and I put extra emphasis on "OLDEST", trick in the book to get some.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
And btw, Im not saying your banned from coming home with me LOL. Your just taking it that way.
HAHAHAHA cmon bruh. Better say your "gay" cousin had your phone LOLOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by tyrone70
Isnt me telling you exactly what im telling you being honest and open with you? =DQuote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Sweetie I'm paying the man a compliment, don't get butt hurt by it lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by werwt22
You can say what you want but I've had more than a few guys introduce me to the homies including my last ex who took me home to meet the folks for Christmas (no drama in any of those scenarios).none of them where social outcast, that's just you projecting your insecurity.
When i first started to transition i was hurt and had my self esteem crushed a number of times dealing with dudes who treated me less than the woman i am.i speak from first hand existence about how painful it is to realize the person you love cares more about what people will think or say about him than you.however those days are long behind me, no one has time for that bull anymore
I don't know if you all have read my input on the transsexual strip club in Atlanta, but this same situation is the reason I said that it would be difficult for the club to thrive in Atlanta. Brothas are still on the DL in Atlanta, even though Atlanta is supposed to be "black gay is okay" capital of the world. I went to the club last night and there were 5 white guys in there and ME, the only black dude. One white guy was in there with his UPS suit on. Imagine that.....a man so comfortable with himself that he came to the trans-strip club with his work clothes on. In other words, "I am who I am and I don't care who knows it" is what he was saying. However, there were 9 transsexual dancers, 8 of which were black and 1 hispanic.
The ignorance in the black community is astounding. Why one can't choose to be himself and feel comfortable around his peers disturbs me. I have said this time and time again that white people can be gay and comfortable (safe) in their communities.....in most cases. Being gay in the Black community, on the other hand, is almost a worse crime than committing murder. In order for the black community to really be pillars amongst society, we must change our mindset. Not only about homosexuality, but period!!! Not saying that we don't have any pillars now, but just think about what would happen if my community became just a bit more tolerable, understanding and perhaps more educated on a worldly view. WOW!!!
I peek at craigslist and backpage and read some of the ads the girls post and I'm starting to see more and more "white guys only" ads. Not only from non-Black transsexuals, but now from Black transsexuals too. It's to the point now to where Black transsexuals don't even want to deal with Black guys anymore, which is just a microcosm of the Black community in large. We fight one another. We kill one another. We don't even deal with each other on a sensible basis. Why are we so hateful and unforgiving towards our own?
Anyway......just how I feel. No biggie.:confused: