Originally Posted by
Ms Remy M
Ah ok, my bad I see what you are saying now. :) In most cases it is not that trans women dont like guys that are into them, in and of itself. It is that most trans women want to be treated as women, not women with dicks for men to suck on and get fucked by. A lot of trans women are turned off by the thought of guys viewing us as the "best of both worlds". No, we are women, and if we had the choice that is what we would have been born as, not this horrific in between stage that get fetishized by men who want dick in their life but can't come to terms with the realities of what liking dick actually means. While thankfully this isn't the case for all men, far too many men unconsciously use trans women as a sort of stepping stone to fully exploring their sexuality. It's easier to get into dick 'on a woman' than going fully gusto for dick 'on a man'. Basically it's like crawling before walking. lol Not saying that this applies to anyone in particular mind you, but there are a ton of guys out there that do fit that paradigm and don't realize it yet. They tend to show signs by making remarks that they don't see trans women as equals to genetic women, that trans women are men, settling for a obvious cross dresser just because at the moment nothing else was there, etc. all signs that deep down they really want a man but their mind puts up mental blocks cause they would have a hemorrhage if they admitted the truth to themselves. I have no problems with anyone liking what they like, it's the hiding behind it that rubs people the wrong way, just come as you are and be true to yourself and others.