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To trick or not to trick....Quote:
Originally Posted by vidman
Surrendering your power doesn't win attractive women over.
Especially when "grey goose and patron all night" is all it takes to make a persons stance on casual sex sound contradictory by "anti-hook up" principal.
Lovely she may be but even Chasers should have standards. And I personally find women who smoke or drink all the time to be a bit of a turn off...
I do agree that there are many girls, even the escorts that claim to "only be about business", that still have 2-4 different pieces of 'trade' that can come through and get their nut off. lol :eek: Most often, it's the guys that never approached them sideways or through their escort business, are cool to hang with, attractive, and like to have fun though. Some girls are really messy and will just want to have you because you have been with another girl that's popular or whatever. lol Tgirls can be chasers too :p The point of the thread isn't to stick up for the womanizers (do you), it's to explain why some trans don't like Tranny chasers.
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at the end of the day i can only be amber lol.i like horror movies,rock music,books,tattoos,piercings and DRINKING.take it or leave.im not going to pretend to be something im not (sorry if it ruins anyones fantasy of me).
i also said that im not the hookup type BUT IF I WAS yes i expect you to at least take me out for some drinks first.i dont hookup so i guess no one has to worry about it.it was a joke anyway.i wasnt offering my ass to anyone on the sly smh lol.
i have no problem "going dutch" on the second date HOWEVER i do expect the guy to take care of things on the first date.thats MY PERSONAL way to filter out the guys who are about something from the ones who arent.if he cant handle the bill i will politely pay mines and excuse myself (dont expect to hear back from me).its not like i have champagne taste or anything.im the type of girl you can take to ihop on a first date lol.one thing i can say is every guy knows what im about when they first approach me.so far ive had no problems.ive meet alot of cool guys and avoided dudes who i later found out were up to nothing.it also doesnt hurt that by the second date im usually naked ;) lmaooo
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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor
#1) I'm definitely no chump.
#2) I have a wet bar in my crib and whatever liquor is not in there, we can always make the adjustments.
#3) For you, I will work till my fingers bleed to have an opportunity at you.
Next time you're in the ATL, let me know. I would like for you to just hang out with me. No sex or nothing like that. Just plain and simple getting to know me and you'll see just how cool I am and you'll know why girls love hanging out with me. I have a sexual relationship with some girls and some girls I'm just really good friends with, no sex at all. I think it depends on how the man approaches the woman. I think a woman knows exactly what a man wants based on his approach.
naked by the second date?? Why is that the only part of your comment I see? lol. Nah, just kidding ma. I feel you though. I kinda agree with Seanchai's philosophy and how the European culture does the dating thing. I think that's nice to go dutch on the first date. That way, you can get to know the person you're with and find out if there's any chemistry. If there's no chemistry then you pay for yours and I pay for mine and we go our separate ways. However, if there is chemistry, then on the next date the man should pay because there is potential there.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor
By the way, I like scary movies and a little drinking too. Unlike Indy, I don't have a problem at all with a young lady having a drink or two. Well Amber, seems like we have similar points of view and a few things in common now that we've cleared the air. Like i said, when you're in the A, let me know. We can hang out and have some fun.
Meh.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
If a guy expects for me to go dutch, our dates are gonna be really crappy. we'll be eating off the dollar menu. lol
There's something about a guy who just pays for me that, in an odd way, turns me on. And it has nothing to do with money. It's more like....a courtesy thing. lol. Maybe i am total hetero woman brainwashed but any guy who wants me to pay for anything especially when we're first dating is just gonna get a sideways glance. lol
It's not about wanting, it's about showing that you have self-respect and awareness. Otherwise, any woman who expects that is no different to any whore.Quote:
Originally Posted by kittymatthews
If that's you're attitude and what you expect, then don't complain when the only men interested in you are "tranny chasers".
"I think it depends on how the man approaches the woman. I think a woman knows exactly what a man wants based on his approach."Quote:
Originally Posted by vidman
i agree and the fact that you mentioned a bar in your home lets me no exactly what type of hanging out you have in mind for us ;) lol.
i expect what i expect because i have self respect and awareness.at one point i had no respect for myself and accept anything from a man because i thought since i was transgendered i wasnt worth much more than a sexual encounter or exploration.my most recent ex however showed me different.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
there are alot of guys out there that take advantage of ts women (esp in ny) because they know how independent and how hard we have to work.i know from personal experience how a man will try to game me and be on some "i cant afford to treat you like you deserve" type shit so im either paying for my side of things EVERYTIME we go out or worst paying for it all.funny thing is tho ill see the same dude throwing the world at a gg.
i do things things they way i do them for a reason.like i said its my way of filtering.i guess im a whores whore then lol.i have no problem dating.ive meet more genuine guys and less chasers this way.im going to stick to what works for me.
I agree. I think guys who tend to spit game all the time tend to this with all women transgendered or not. In my opinion the typical player will not discriminate in anyway with a transwoman he will just game everyone with the same gusto and so I always expect transwomen to react in the same way they will take the dude with a pinch of salt.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor
As far as a chaser.. again as most people have suggested these dudes tend to be obsessed with one thing and one thing only - a girl with a dick. All they do is fetishise transwomen i suppose they turn these women in to objects much like some men do with ggs. I mean come on objectify any woman and she will have no respect for you so there is no suprise the feeling of hate is in the air.
On a side note... lol Sean living in the UK i am yet to go on a date where a girl has gone dutch on the first date! :P I'll admit it has happened on the second a lot but never the first. i always get the feeling that 99% of women prefer the first date to be treated with a more old fashioned approach and I think most guys approach it in this way too.