ESCORTS::i knowu guys probably talked about it but whats the deal

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

You say so but you're puttin' a lot of emphasis on what guys won't do. Some people are weak to group mentality and can't always break from the pack the way people like us have. It's important to consider all angles instead of just saying what they should do without knowing their situation. After all there are people would rather disown their children than have them date someone of the same gender and not everyone can just separate themselves from their family.

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What make a man any different from a ts when family plays in. ALOT OF TRANSSEXUALS who come out as gay get disowned. But its okay for a guy to say oh i wanna be with a transsexual so ur my lil secret. not happening in the world of Brooklyn Mattel. Im no-ones dirty lil secret. IF anyone tried i will hang your laundry outside to dry so everyone can see. Maybe i am a evil bitch. But it comes from a place or tolerance. ( not an attack on anyone esp u cosmic) Alot of men feel that its okay for them to hide people in the closet along with them. I already came out the closet luvmuffin. I understand it may be difficult for some people but in order to be happy YOU need to stop worrying about what people think bc they do their dirt & dont give too flying shits what people have to say bc they are happy.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I admit that was miswording on my part. But I feel like you guys aren't really looking at the situation from all angles. I'm not saying it's cool for guys to date a TS when they don't want to be seen with them, but they may have their reasons for not wanting to be so open. However as I said in the other thread they shouldn't bring people into their hang ups.

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and im saying i understand that.im not calling them bad people per se.im just stating those people have no place in my personal life.why are you taking offence to that?
this isnt a conversation i meant to have on here.i feel like i already alienated a few people already and dont want to make it worse.pm if you want to talk about this more.

I really didn't mean to come off as if I was offended. I was just trying to point things out. Honestly I don't take offense to this because none of it applies to me. I've introduced my mom to my TS girlfriend as well as my friends. ( Well... when we were together. ) But the difference between a man and a TS when it comes to family? I can't answer that. I don't know much about being a TS and I'm not too big on family. No answer here... But as I said, I don't think it's okay for a guy to try dating a TS when they aren't ready to be open about it. It's just as bad as dating a fat gg only in your house because you're worried about what people will say. Just not fair to the other person.

I see so many contradictions on here its laughable. Don't claim the 'friends' that like you when your clothes are off, your ass is out, or your sucking cock. How many of these 'admirers' would still admire you if you only made post based on intellect and charm like ms peggy gee? She's been posting for years quality stuff yet dudes don't give her any love, much like remy (before the transition), but let a chick whip a dick or tit out and now suddenly she's a fucking celeb on here with 1000 friends.

To me a friend is someone who calls or text u during the day just to say hey or what's up, without the offer or lure of sex being anywhere on the table. Starting this kind of friendship with a ts is damn near impossible because most ts are so fucking guarded or jaded thinking that every man is out to get them.

its like y'all hate being judged but are the first to judge dudes like me without giving me the benefit of the doubt of actually showing u I'm a good dude (and other dudes like me). Y'all really need to take some time and look at what you typed and ask yourself, really?

Rah

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Originally Posted by raheme

I see so many contradictions on here its laughable. Don't claim the 'friends' that like you when your clothes are off, your ass is out, or your sucking cock. How many of these 'admirers' would still admire you if you only made post based on intellect and charm like ms peggy gee? She's been posting for years quality stuff yet dudes don't give her any love, much like remy (before the transition), but let a chick whip a dick or tit out and now suddenly she's a fucking celeb on here with 1000 friends.

To me a friend is someone who calls or text u during the day just to say hey or what's up, without the offer or lure of sex being anywhere on the table. Starting this kind of friendship with a ts is damn near impossible because most ts are so fucking guarded or jaded thinking that every man is out to get them.

its like y'all hate being judged but are the first to judge dudes like me without giving me the benefit of the doubt of actually showing u I'm a good dude (and other dudes like me). Y'all really need to take some time and look at what you typed and ask yourself, really?

Rah

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do you honestly think that at 24 i dont know what constitutes a real friend?!? lol
do you think i go about my daily life acting like some type of shemale slut with everyone i come in contact with?
im a person first,woman second and transsexual last.i have a whole array of hobbies,interests and goals that have nothing to do with this world (talked about them with a few people from this board).i have a whole life filled with people who have nothing to with porn or escorting.
this is kinda what im talking about.some people can see you for who you are while other see you based on how they perceive you to be

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Originally Posted by raheme

I see so many contradictions on here its laughable. Don't claim the 'friends' that like you when your clothes are off, your ass is out, or your sucking cock. How many of these 'admirers' would still admire you if you only made post based on intellect and charm like ms peggy gee? She's been posting for years quality stuff yet dudes don't give her any love, much like remy (before the transition), but let a chick whip a dick or tit out and now suddenly she's a fucking celeb on here with 1000 friends.

To me a friend is someone who calls or text u during the day just to say hey or what's up, without the offer or lure of sex being anywhere on the table. Starting this kind of friendship with a ts is damn near impossible because most ts are so fucking guarded or jaded thinking that every man is out to get them.

its like y'all hate being judged but are the first to judge dudes like me without giving me the benefit of the doubt of actually showing u I'm a good dude (and other dudes like me). Y'all really need to take some time and look at what you typed and ask yourself, really?

Rah

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I have said what i said with good reason. i make good friends out of having conversations like this and those people can attest that i have valid reason for my questioning. i stated what honestly goes on. not saying that good guys dont exist. but alot of men do play so many games and dont realize that they are. Not all ts women are crazy psycho bitches who wanna fuck and get u out of there hair/ or whores/ or whatever. & not all men or chauvinistic/ whoremonger/dicks. i do agree. im making general of what is said not personalizing it on any specific person.

I do believe in becoming friends but its hard bc ts women have our guard up so that we dont get hurt 24/7. & men are careful not to get into a situation that will cost them their livelyhood on someone who is a snake. i get that

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

do you honestly think that at 24 i dont know what constitutes a real friend?!? lol
do you think i go about my daily life acting like some type of shemale slut with everyone i come in contact with?
im a person first,woman second and transsexual last.i have a whole array of hobbies,interests and goals that have nothing to do with this world (talked about them with a few people from this board).i have a whole life filled with people who have nothing to with porn or escorting.
this is kinda what im talking about.some people can see you for who you are while other see you based on how they perceive you to be

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Indeed, despite having seen Amber's ass any number of times, I can talk to her like any normal girl regardless of that fact. Especially since we have common interests. And I continue talking to her, knowing full well... I'm not getting any. >_> But I'm a special case.

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

do you honestly think that at 24 i dont know what constitutes a real friend?!? lol
do you think i go about my daily life acting like some type of shemale slut with everyone i come in contact with?
im a person first,woman second and transsexual last.i have a whole array of hobbies,interests and goals that have nothing to do with this world (talked about them with a few people from this board).i have a whole life filled with people who have nothing to with porn or escorting.
this is kinda what im talking about.some people can see you for who you are while other see you based on how they perceive you to be

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I only know the face YOU choose to show me. (Not you personally, but any ts)
My post are a reflection of the real raheme. The guy who can go to the hood and do hood shit, the guy who can put on a suit and do biz shit, the guy who can kick it with cosmic and chat about comics, the guy who can holla at sasha about playing some spades, the guy thats interested in travelling the world and seeing different shit. Point is, I'm not afraid of being who I am. If you fuck wit me (in a good way), I fuck wit u (in a good way).
If all I see of you is "hey guys I will be in your city next month come $pend time with super slutty shemale x" then don't get upset at me if that's how I percieve u...that's who you've shown yourslef to be (not u, just in general). If you want people to know who u really are, show them...

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Originally Posted by raheme

I only know the face YOU choose to show me. (Not you personally, but any ts)
My post are a reflection of the real raheme. The guy who can go to the hood and do hood shit, the guy who can put on a suit and do biz shit, the guy who can kick it with cosmic and chat about comics, the guy who can holla at sasha about playing some spades, the guy thats interested in travelling the world and seeing different shit. Point is, I'm not afraid of being who I am. If you fuck wit me (in a good way), I fuck wit u (in a good way).
If all I see of you is "hey guys I will be in your city next month come time with super slutty shemale x" then don't get upset at me if that's how I percieve u...that's who you've shown yourslef to be (not u, just in general). If you want people to know who u really are, show them...

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--Just saying--

I appreciate you for being so open.

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Originally Posted by TsBrooklynMattel

--Just saying--

I appreciate you for being so open.

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No doubt, and I thank u for being a breath of fresh air on these boards.