Kim Carta Fan

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Originally Posted by Handandsom

Explain all day, you will be explaining this all Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders*(DSM)iagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders*(DSM)our time on this board. But the problem and the reason you may find yourself having to explain your current state is because the terms are not truly defined like what's "transphobic". I mean I can understand all day because of the current culture, but given I knew nothing about the current tranny era forget it I would be confused too.:confused:

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Transsexual- truly its a "sexually" changed('trans'itioned) boy or girl to the opposite gender (anything elsle is not it).

Transgender- really??? same as the above definition

Trans (which happens to be a prefix but yall know that already)

Gender -(we know this already)

Transgender a combining the two terms, compound word which is = to......

Like wise and back to transphobic - fear of change, what?????

I'm just saying it is what it is and we are free to do as we please but lets also tell it like it is based on what it is and not some feeling, change of the wind direction, etc, etc. Cause all that said in the end you are still banging and I love that avatar:cool:

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accept them or not but I gave you the definitions as defined by the dsm (diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders) which is published by the american psychiatric association. so definitely not a bunch of random terms I put together.
also not just "feelings" in the shallow way you were trying to imply like "happy" or "sad".being a woman (transsexual) was something I knew and struggled with since childhood like most trans woman I know.
we live in the information age so theres no excuse for one to be ignorant on any subject if one cared enough to simply use google.the truth is most of yall dont care beyond catching a nut or half formed observations from the sex industry to understand transsexualism

That's all it really is , niggas just want a quick nutt. If i seen you as a dude, rather you look feminine now or not IT'S GONNA FUCK UP EVERYTHING, especially if your still going around as a man every now and then. I just can't do it. I use to like Kim Carta but after i saw the shit in them links , i just can't beat my dick to that shit anymore, IT WONT GET HARD ANYMORE TO HER/HIS vids. Now i might run into a tranny that does the same shit one day since it's normal for trannys nowadays , but i just pray it never happens. Just imagine fucking a tranny, then see the nigga all macho and shit on the block. I'll feel like a prison bitch, just violateddd, just usedd. But the things a MAN CAN DO nowadays is AMAZING ,you can have a straight up masculine thug lookin nigga LOOK LIKE A STRAIGHT UP SEXY BITCH.Don't need no hormones or nothing. Shit is scary

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

accept them or not but I gave you the definitions as defined by the dsm (diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders) which is published by the american psychiatric association. so definitely not a bunch of random terms I put together.
also not just "feelings" in the shallow way you were trying to imply like "happy" or "sad".being a woman (transsexual) was something I knew and struggled with since childhood like most trans woman I know.
we live in the information age so theres no excuse for one to be ignorant on any subject if one cared enough to simply use google.the truth is most of yall dont care beyond catching a nut or half formed observations from the sex industry to understand transsexualism

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Well if you got it from there than its a bigger problem than I thought, but all that aside. To add a lil depth to it "feelings" mainly influenced by your hormones. So I could have said "hormonal struggle" of some sort, i'm not trying to minimize the struggle, yours or anyone elses but I've talked to a few TS women and in saying that we all have struggles. My issue is when we all say truth well who's truth are we talking. So we sometimes need that conversation to get to that persons truth, the base/foundation to truly understand that person. Goggle is not my truth you got me on that its a "source" that just launches tons of information at you good bad ignorant all alike. I think I'd take you as a source before I google. Sorta like we can take Kim Carta as a source she goes back and forth with it as ChubbyC mentions so what do you call that. Only Kim can say but for those left to figure it out..... you gonna hear it all. Not all of us jus look for the nut its priority numero uno but its not everything...... some of need 2 nuts LMAO thats everything! jus kiddin. I appreciate your input it does help make a difference ;)

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

ummm excuse me.. fuck no
that's a very transphobic statement. check that

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Hmm, I replied to this on my iPhone, but it didn't pop up (I hate Apple), so let's try this on my desktop PC... (Because this was worth getting up out of bed for).

Amber, I mean no disrespect, but what exactly am I checking? My statement that all shemales are basically just men who look good as women? Without getting in to the mental aspects of it, I still stand by that statement. I don't see that as being transphobic at all, nor do I see myself as being transphobic. That's so far from the truth with me it's almost laughable.

No matter how the femininity is obtained, whether through hormones, surgery, or both, the fact remains at one point you were clearly identifiable as a male physically. My point is, I'm fully aware of this and I don't care. Knowing that prior you existed doesn't ruin "the magic trick" for me. I still refer to t-girls as women. Even seeing Big Dick Bitch Madison as a male in a cheap ass K-Mart suit with a fucked up hair cut didn't bother me. That's an example of a male transforming into an astoundingly beautiful woman.

I'm not saying all of y'all are cross dressers, if that's what you thought. No, just saying the facts that you started as a guy and ended up a hot girl. Nothing wrong with that and definitely no need to get upset about it.

Opinions vary and, mine differs tremendously. Possibly it is due to dating girls that stem from all parts of the world from a wide variety of races/ethnicities.

For example,

If one's experience dating outside their race/ethnicity is minimum to non existent, then you will have difficulty seeing beyond the persons race/ethnicity. If you have a lot of experience dating outside your race/ethnicity, you will look at the person as an individual and not as a group in which society tries to project.

If a boy takes it upon himself to undergo hormonal treatment in order to become a girl, I am going to acknowledge the boy as a girl. There is no ifs, ands or buts about it. She will be treated just like a girl in every aspect. I generally make myself very clear if I stumble upon a boy that transitioned (or transitioning) to girl that I find attractive within our first engagement. For if she is not up for that, it does not make logical sense to get to know each other better.

I can only guess those that choose to cross dress for years without making some type of permanent hormonal transition, wants the best of both worlds. Possibly they are uncertain on where all this cross dressing will lead to in the long run. It appears some guys don't care where, others do. So it is up to the guy to talk to the person on where they stand beforehand.

I would not class girls who fall in the category of a tsamberskyi, in the same group a those who follows a Kim Carta's concept. Both are individuals in their own right. Both will have their own thoughts on the matter and, should not be labeled as one.

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Originally Posted by chubbychaser

Whats the difference??? And i thought transsexual was a sexual term. And also B scott just started saying he was a transgender if im not mistaken. Cause before the incident with b.e.t i though he just identified with being a gay male. See how this shit works though THIS IS WHY IM SAYINGS ITS A HUSTLE.Not for all but mosttttt

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Transgender is the state of one's gender identity (self-identification as woman, man, neither or both) not matching one's assigned sex (identification by others as male, female or intersex based on physical/genetic sex). Transgender does not imply any specific form of sexual orientation; transgender people may identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, or asexual; some may consider conventional sexual orientation labels inadequate or inapplicable to them. The precise definition for transgender remains in flux, but includes:

1- "Of, relating to, or designating a person whose identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender roles, but combines or moves between these."
2- "People who were assigned a sex, usually at birth and based on their genitals, but who feel that this is a false or incomplete description of themselves."
3- "Non-identification with, or non-presentation as, the sex (and assumed gender) one was assigned at birth."

A transgender individual may have characteristics that are normally associated with a particular gender, identify elsewhere on the traditional gender continuum, or exist outside of it as other, agender, genderqueer, or third gender. Transgender people may also identify as bigender, or along several places on either the traditional transgender continuum, or the more encompassing continuums which have been developed in response to the significantly more detailed studies done in recent years.[5] Furthermore, many transgender people go through a period of identity development, marked by increases in understanding of one's self-image, self-reflection, and self-expression. More specifically, the degree to which individuals feel genuine, authentic, and comfortable within their external appearance and accept their genuine identity is referred to as transgender congruence

So in short, a person can be male/female, gay/straight and still be transgender as they don't fit into the social construct of what is their cisgender.

The term 'transsexual' is not a sexual term, Transsexualism describes the condition in which an individual identifies with a gender inconsistent or not culturally associated with their assigned sex, i.e. in which a person's assigned sex at birth conflicts with their psychological gender. A medical diagnosis can be made if a person experiences discomfort as a result of a desire to be a member of the opposite gender, or if a person experiences impaired functioning or distress as a result of that gender identification

There is no specified timespan for when a person must declare themselves transgender and/or transsexual. So, why B. Scott may have just made the announcement to the 'media' officially labeling himself transgender, everyone who has ever known B. Scott already knew that he fit into the transgender umbrella. His sexual orientation (a gay male) does not have any concern with his gender identity as a transgender male. So, there is no 'hustle' B. Scott is the same he always has been, he didn't just now start wearing female clothes at the B.E.T. awards, it has always been apart of who he is, he just informed the fools who didn't know the obvious all along by announcing it officially that he is transgender.

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Originally Posted by MrF

I remember a lot of debate on here about Kim, whether she's a CD or a TG. I can see the point of being CD since no breasts and she can revert to a man, but I agree more with the idea that she is who she thinks she is. Being T is a state of mind, if I've learned anything about it (from my admittedly corrupt POV).

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Being that I know her personally, I refer to her as transsexual based on said conversations we've shared. Again, having breast or not does not make a person CD or TS, that is not a determining factor.

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Originally Posted by MrF

As for the Hustle angle, there is that. I think there are generally a lot more TG escorts than male escorts. Not sure if that's because being feminine lures in customers better, or if gay males find it so easy to find a promiscuous partner that there's no point in hiring an escort. It's gotta be some of both, I think.

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I conceit that there are some that simple dress as female for the financial gain, it sucks for real transsexuals as it apparently causes confusion with those men not smart enough to recognize the difference. It is a product of the DL culture, so long as there are men hiding and strictly looking for a sexual encounter there will be gay men that will take advantage of that ignorance and get them for their money.

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Originally Posted by chubbychaser

See what i mean man most of us don't even have the same definition of what a tranny is!!!

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That is due to your mutual ignorance on the matter. It's amazing what people refuse to educate themselves on with the internet at their finger tips. You'll spend copious time on porn sites and World Star Hip Hop though (owned by a gay man btw).

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Originally Posted by chubbychaser

Because lets be real i know most of these trannys were men at one point gay men for the most part, but i thought that shit STOPPED at one point.

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Please, feel free to point out any statistical facts stating that transsexuals were once gay men? Oh that's right you don't have any. Many of you outsiders seem to be confused due to the fact that certain parts of the trans community socialize heavily with certain parts of the gay community, (i.e. going to balls, functions, pageants, using same lingo etc.)

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Originally Posted by Handandsom

Explain all day, you will be explaining this all your time on this board. But the problem and the reason you may find yourself having to explain your current state is because the terms are not truly defined like what's "transphobic". I mean I can understand all day because of the current culture, but given I knew nothing about the current tranny era forget it I would be confused too.:confused:

Define:

Transsexual- truly its a "sexually" changed('trans'itioned) boy or girl to the opposite gender (anything elsle is not it).

Transgender- really??? same as the above definition

Trans (which happens to be a prefix but yall know that already)

Gender -(we know this already)

Transgender a combining the two terms, compound word which is = to......

Like wise and back to transphobic - fear of change, what?????

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Utter foolishness, do you always make your own definitions for all the words in the English language, or do you act like an intelligent person and look up the definition of a word you don't know. The do have dictionary's online for free nowadays.

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Originally Posted by chubbychaser

That's all it really is , niggas just want a quick nutt. If i seen you as a dude, rather you look feminine now or not IT'S GONNA FUCK UP EVERYTHING, especially if your still going around as a man every now and then. I just can't do it. I use to like Kim Carta but after i saw the shit in them links , i just can't beat my dick to that shit anymore, IT WONT GET HARD ANYMORE TO HER/HIS vids. Now i might run into a tranny that does the same shit one day since it's normal for trannys nowadays , but i just pray it never happens. Just imagine fucking a tranny, then see the nigga all macho and shit on the block. I'll feel like a prison bitch, just violateddd, just usedd. But the things a MAN CAN DO nowadays is AMAZING ,you can have a straight up masculine thug lookin nigga LOOK LIKE A STRAIGHT UP SEXY BITCH.Don't need no hormones or nothing. Shit is scary

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At the end of the day you are entitled to like what you like, that's each and every persons pejorative.