Originally Posted by
Ms Remy M
The problem lies in the type of trans women you actually surround yourself with. Like another member here believes that trans women only work in the sex industry and aren't capable of having jobs. If you only socialize with escorts than your views will be skewed into thinking that's all that exist, but I've met over a hundred girls over the years that are in college and work jobs and don't escort. Why, because I'm totally open to hanging with trans women just for the sake of having and meeting cool people with no intentions of trying to 'bust a nut' discreetly. Many trans women say they are Tops because they encounter so many clients that want that and they also don't want to have their ass worn out by random strangers that mean nothing to them when they can save it for their significant other. Which is why you see so many girls that bottom in the personal life but not professionally.
The difference between a trans woman using her penis and guys who are only into trans women for their penis is huge. We don't have a choice in our genitalia, it's there, it feels good, it's going to be used, if we could take a magical stem cell pill and genetically change to a woman we all would and you guys would be stuck having to suck on strap on dildos lol. Guys do have a choice in actively choosing to be with a woman who has a penis to use on them, just like guys choose to not bring trans women around family and friends but will bring genetic women around. It's a vicious cycle of women being at whits end and frustrated with men who don't give a damn about them unless it's discreetly, if you are going to treat a human being that way they might as well get something out of it. So no most trans women aren't hustlers, it's just that most trans women you meet are in the hustle business of being an escort. Hell, I'm in the hustle business of being a photog, and at one point a taxi driver, both are businesses where the money isn't certain like a 9-5 job. I worry (much like an escort) every week whether I'm going to find models to film so that I can pay the bills. That doesn't mean that the sole purpose of our transition was to be a hustler lol
Though again, I do recognize that there are some 'cross dressers' that are in it strictly to make a dime off of dick hungry guys, but they aren't transsexuals, they are cross dressers. It's guys own fault though, there would be far fewer instances of cross dresser trying to fool guys looking for a quick nut, if guys were more open to being with trans women. The very nature of your "quick discreet encounters" leave you susceptible to people faking the funk, whereas if you were open with yourself and took the time to get to know a girl, go out on dates, sleep over a time or two, hang out during the day, stuff people do all the time that aren't in a P4P scenario, you would have ample time to suss out whether she was a real trans woman or just a cross dresser.
