Why Are Men Allowed To Be So Disrespectful?

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10-27-2009, 03:37 AM
ty-clone

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

It's a forum, some people love to big up and "pay" the girls and some dudes just call it how they see it. I don't think it's a thing of disrespect or being "allowed to say whatever". I don't think it's a thing of being hateful or disrespectful, I do think it's a thing of truth. Some people like it, some people don't. It is what it is.

There's a topic labeled "why are black men so bad at...", should I be offended as a black man?
There's a topic labeled "the guys on this forum are dead...", should I be offended as a guy?
I could go on and on...
I'm not offended because those things don't apply to me.
If someone called me a ni&&er, should I feel hurt? Why? I don't choose to take ownership of that word...
If someone calls you a hoe, it will only hurt if you take ownership of that word. If you've been in a committed relationship with your guy for 4 years, more power to you, he's down with what you do and you guys are making it work.

preach on, i hear girls of both sort GG & TG diss men all the time, I don’t sweat it. Its just their point of view on how they see things as we men have our own points of views
10-27-2009, 03:38 AM
ty-clone

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Originally Posted by vidman

I see your point, but I think what Logan is saying is that a difference of opinion or preference doesn't have to be manifested into disrespectful. It's quite alright to not agree with the premise of a transsexual, or with the premise of a transsexual sex industry worker. But that is still no excuse for being disrespectful. Difference of opinion is fine, but what comes out of one's mouth can either build or destroy. Let's not be destructive.

The TS spraying the lil boy with mase on the subway was a perfect example. Those words from that little boy's mouth were very destructive. The family could have very well disagreed with the premise of being a transsexual, but did they have to be disrespectful and begin to destroy this person with harsh words? No.

again, maybe its me. but i haven’t read anything on this site that remotely comparable to the boy getting mase on the subway. If im wrong, please post an example
10-27-2009, 09:59 AM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

So what was your point. lol.

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.
10-27-2009, 10:49 AM
k.logan

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Originally Posted by roninva

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.

Im 20 Something now lol and when i turn 28 i plan to be out of the buisness. At the point im getting my srs and that would be sacred between and the lucky guy. I think thats a good plan escpecially if im still with the same guy and we both agreed on it.
10-27-2009, 12:43 PM
werwt22

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Originally Posted by vidman

Homeboy, get over yourself. I was only speaking of how you grapically you described someone's woman having "cum down her throat......"
As I said before, I don't mind the business. Personally speaking, I am totally okay with my woman engaging in that type of work if that's what was paying her bills before she met me and if that's what continues to pay the bills. Like Logan said, "everybody's not meant to be doctors and lawyers." We all have to do what we can to survive. Being that transsexuals are HEAVILY discriminated against, it's not that easy for them to go out and get a good job. Hell, it's not easy for them to go out and get a rinky-dink job like a floor sweeper or dish-washer. But since they are people too, just like me and you, they have to do what they can to survive. And since there is an industry/market for them, which happens to be men, they exploit that situation to make money for yourself. It's quite simple to me.

If I recall walmart hires at least one of everything. :)
10-27-2009, 12:51 PM
werwt22

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Originally Posted by roninva

why wouldn't they say it

it has nothing to do with her looks, it has to do with what she does, dating a person who works in the adult biz can have it's negative points, and if your not willing to deal with it, it's best not to even go there with it, and most guys can't and won't.

not many guys are cool with their girl getting fucked by the next highest bidder a couple of times a day, and shooting vids, you have to be very open to the fact that you may be in a room and half the guys in there have busted nuts down her throat and you know it's a fact that they have. most guys don't want to picture their girl getting gangbanger with nut juice running down her face if it isn't his own, and they don't want to know if their girl was a jumpoff in her past, and they damn sure don't want to know that she is in the present and will be in the future.
if you think you can handle it, go for it if not don't

LMAO this one was hilarious. Some good points though. I can personally say, I wouldnt have wanted to deal with a lot of these situations. And guys do get clowned for that shit. I actually met one of the top tgirls back around 03 in the subway thinking she was a gg. She told me she was a "message therapist". Embarrassed to put the entertainer escort portion out there thinking it would run me away maybe?
10-27-2009, 03:50 PM
MrKnockOut

[QUOTE=ty-clone;10098]preach on, i hear girls of both sort GG & TG diss men all the time, I don
10-27-2009, 09:00 PM
vidman

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Originally Posted by roninva

the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.

Dude, you're scattered. You're reaching all over the place. First, your argument was about men not being able to handle being in a relationship with a girl in the sex industry. Then you conveniently changed it to "dating" instead of "being in a relationship." Let's try to keep the topic a bit more streamlined shall we?

Secondly, my age wouldn't tell you anything about my situation. You throw stats out there like you're some type of statitician or something. "99% of guys that want to be....." Dude, unless you can show me some hardcore facts or data, I refuse to believe that you know what feelings rest in the hearts of 99% of the men in this world.

There's no reason for me to cover up anything. Don't be upset because I am a bit more secure about myself than you are about yourself. The reason my relationship didn't work is because the distance was a strain. Don't tell me I'm lying and don't try to steer my words in the direction you want them to go.

Again, you're misconstruing my words. I never said that "her activities kept me in plane tickets." You said that! I said that her line of work HELPED us see each other. We both chipped in. It's a relationship and that's part of the dynamics of a true relationship. I assume that you wouldn't know that.

I gather that you lack confidence, self esteem, intuitiveness and a few other intangibles and maybe some tangibles too, the reason you can't keep a woman. Or maybe something has happened to you during your experiences with ladies in the industry. Just because you've had a rough time, doesn't mean I've had or will have a rough time. Misery loves company and it seems that you want people in the "Miser Group" with you.

In summary, my opinion is expressed as previously stated. I have not one problem with dating a transsexual woman who makes her living in the sex industry. I'm not talking about just dating. I'm talking about a relationship. I would engage in a relationship with a transsexual who's in the porn/escort industry. Hey, maybe you wouldn't. That's definitely your call. As for me, I've no problems. I could care less what you, or others who agree with your opinion, think or say about me. I live my life for my satisfaction and for the person I'm satisfying. For all others who are on the outside looking in, pay attention to your own state of affairs and try to find someone who will love you. Negative attitudes bring about negative outcomes. You sir, are a big ball of negativity which explains your relationship failures (or should I say negative outcomes in your relationships).
10-28-2009, 04:37 PM
H-townBTGHunter

This Is a Tranny website so if u dont love or respect these beutiful women. Get yo a$$ the Hell off of here. If u on here then u must b attracted to the ladies. If A beautiful girl like Logan wanted to go out with me she wouldnt have to ask twice. Its the best of both worlds!!! All in All respect the girls and stop hating. H-Town Out!!!
10-29-2009, 12:09 AM
roninva

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Originally Posted by vidman

Dude, you're scattered. You're reaching all over the place. First, your argument was about men not being able to handle being in a relationship with a girl in the sex industry. Then you conveniently changed it to "dating" instead of "being in a relationship." Let's try to keep the topic a bit more streamlined shall we?

Secondly, my age wouldn't tell you anything about my situation. You throw stats out there like you're some type of statitician or something. "99% of guys that want to be....." Dude, unless you can show me some hardcore facts or data, I refuse to believe that you know what feelings rest in the hearts of 99% of the men in this world.

There's no reason for me to cover up anything. Don't be upset because I am a bit more secure about myself than you are about yourself. The reason my relationship didn't work is because the distance was a strain. Don't tell me I'm lying and don't try to steer my words in the direction you want them to go.

Again, you're misconstruing my words. I never said that "her activities kept me in plane tickets." You said that! I said that her line of work HELPED us see each other. We both chipped in. It's a relationship and that's part of the dynamics of a true relationship. I assume that you wouldn't know that.

I gather that you lack confidence, self esteem, intuitiveness and a few other intangibles and maybe some tangibles too, the reason you can't keep a woman. Or maybe something has happened to you during your experiences with ladies in the industry. Just because you've had a rough time, doesn't mean I've had or will have a rough time. Misery loves company and it seems that you want people in the "Miser Group" with you.

In summary, my opinion is expressed as previously stated. I have not one problem with dating a transsexual woman who makes her living in the sex industry. I'm not talking about just dating. I'm talking about a relationship. I would engage in a relationship with a transsexual who's in the porn/escort industry. Hey, maybe you wouldn't. That's definitely your call. As for me, I've no problems. I could care less what you, or others who agree with your opinion, think or say about me. I live my life for my satisfaction and for the person I'm satisfying. For all others who are on the outside looking in, pay attention to your own state of affairs and try to find someone who will love you. Negative attitudes bring about negative outcomes. You sir, are a big ball of negativity which explains your relationship failures (or should I say negative outcomes in your relationships).

wow you got all that cause I won't fall in love with a girl actively working in the biz, maybe you fall in love cause you know in the end the distance, or whatever thing will ultimately come up and give you a out.
at least you can't say you didn't try..right

Can't keep a woman,.....I don't try to wifey a adult entertainer, I keep it in perspective that's all, I really don't want to see my girl having some dude pull his dick out her ass and busting a nut in her teeth, hey if's it's ok with you I'm not knocking it, but I bet the vast majority of the guys here feel the same as I do, I guess we all lack of self confidence, self esteem, because we aren't into it or maybe the fact that you don't mind may give a peek at your inability to have any respect for yourself. maybe it's what gets you off, hey good for you.

Whatever turns you on.

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