Why do trannys hate tranny chasers?

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Originally Posted by thepiedpiper

I agree. I think guys who tend to spit game all the time tend to this with all women transgendered or not. In my opinion the typical player will not discriminate in anyway with a transwoman he will just game everyone with the same gusto and so I always expect transwomen to react in the same way they will take the dude with a pinch of salt.

As far as a chaser.. again as most people have suggested these dudes tend to be obsessed with one thing and one thing only - a girl with a dick. All they do is fetishise transwomen i suppose they turn these women in to objects much like some men do with ggs. I mean come on objectify any woman and she will have no respect for you so there is no suprise the feeling of hate is in the air.

On a side note... lol Sean living in the UK i am yet to go on a date where a girl has gone dutch on the first date! :P I'll admit it has happened on the second a lot but never the first. i always get the feeling that 99% of women prefer the first date to be treated with a more old fashioned approach and I think most guys approach it in this way too.

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lol.i dont hate tranny chasers.they fund my transition.i just dont deal with them on a social level.
how many threads does like "will you date a shemale" or "how do i get rid of my tranny addiction" before you guys admit the existence of such men.i personally dont think that every man that has and sex with or dated a few ts women are chasers.its alittle bit deeper than that.
its just amazing to me though how bent out of shape you guys get over this word but you dont see us girls going up in arms everytime the word shemale or tranny is used on here.

I agree so much

that tranny addiction thread pissed me off. You wanna know why we dont like chasers? I think a huge part of it is that at the very core, they feel disgusted by what they like. and no one likes to feel like they are disgusting. Specially when the person that's trying to fuck them feelts that way/

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Originally Posted by seanchai

It's not about wanting, it's about showing that you have self-respect and awareness. Otherwise, any woman who expects that is no different to any whore.

If that's you're attitude and what you expect, then don't complain when the only men interested in you are "tranny chasers".

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Your mentality is flawed.

I've been dating the same guy for a month and a half and before that i had another guy i was dating. Both of them never had issues paying for dinner or our dates. tranny chasers will always be interested in me, but i do nt have to return that interest. lol.

Believe it or not SOME men are pretty traditional and feel like if they dont have the money, they can't take a girl on a date. Sorry, if a guy ever asks me to pay for dinner on a date, i'm definitely not going to see him again

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Originally Posted by kittymatthews

Your mentality is flawed.

I've been dating the same guy for a month and a half and before that i had another guy i was dating. Both of them never had issues paying for dinner or our dates. tranny chasers will always be interested in me, but i do nt have to return that interest. lol.

Believe it or not SOME men are pretty traditional and feel like if they dont have the money, they can't take a girl on a date. Sorry, if a guy ever asks me to pay for dinner on a date, i'm definitely not going to see him again

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I fail to see what the point would be then.

I guess I'm blessed with an eye for tgirls and genetic women who have their own money and just want "me" for "me".

For the record though, why would anybody envy two guys who basically wasted their time and money on a chick who didn't "return that interest"????

I dont get with guys for money.

I've dated men who are on EBT and take buses. I dont care about money, but I do care about a guy who's got his shit together. i'm 20 and i'm just starting my life out. If you expect me to have money and be independent at this phase in my life, you're not going to get very far. But men are still interested in me so alas a man has to be able to comfortable navigate the world if he wants t get with me


And Indy why dont you just stop responding to me since you have such a damn issue with me? You're so pointless.

You dont DATE guys who you aren't interested in.
What i meant was there wil always be a guy who will try to fetishize me but I do not need to give them the time of day. Sean tried to convince me the only men id get are tranny chasers and that's just not true. I only give my time to men who want to date.
I know you have a hard time understanding that some trans women enjoy long term relationships and dating and some of us view ourselves as women and not men who need to take care of another man, but believe it or not, rarely has a man ever tried to get me to pay for -anything- I dont ask a guy to pay he jsut pays.


Some men were just raised correctly.

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Originally Posted by kittymatthews

I dont get with guys for money.

I've dated men who are on EBT and take buses. I dont care about money, but I do care about a guy who's got his shit together. i'm 20 and i'm just starting my life out. If you expect me to have money and be independent at this phase in my life, you're not going to get very far. But men are still interested in me so alas a man has to be able to comfortable navigate the world if he wants t get with me


And Indy why dont you just stop responding to me since you have such a damn issue with me? You're so pointless.

You dont DATE guys who you aren't interested in.
What i meant was there wil always be a guy who will try to fetishize me but I do not need to give them the time of day. Sean tried to convince me the only men id get are tranny chasers and that's just not true. I only give my time to men who want to date.
I know you have a hard time understanding that some trans women enjoy long term relationships and dating and some of us view ourselves as women and not men who need to take care of another man, but believe it or not, rarely has a man ever tried to get me to pay for -anything- I dont ask a guy to pay he jsut pays.


Some men were just raised correctly.

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oh wow hun.i didnt realize you were so young.kinda cool that your so self assured and have a strong concept of self at such a young age (and so early in your transition).just make sure not to get too bitter and angry black women lol.there are some really good people and men out there (a small few are even on this board).the trick is to know how to filter out the trash and not just throw them all away you know?

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Originally Posted by kittymatthews

I dont get with guys for money.

I've dated men who are on EBT and take buses. I dont care about money, but I do care about a guy who's got his shit together. i'm 20 and i'm just starting my life out. If you expect me to have money and be independent at this phase in my life, you're not going to get very far. But men are still interested in me so alas a man has to be able to comfortable navigate the world if he wants t get with me


And Indy why dont you just stop responding to me since you have such a damn issue with me? You're so pointless.

You dont DATE guys who you aren't interested in.
What i meant was there wil always be a guy who will try to fetishize me but I do not need to give them the time of day. Sean tried to convince me the only men id get are tranny chasers and that's just not true. I only give my time to men who want to date.
I know you have a hard time understanding that some trans women enjoy long term relationships and dating and some of us view ourselves as women and not men who need to take care of another man, but believe it or not, rarely has a man ever tried to get me to pay for -anything- I dont ask a guy to pay he jsut pays.


Some men were just raised correctly.

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Relax, this is a forum built for conversation, not a knife fight. Just because I'm not hardwired to kiss every half naked tranny's ass who post on a website doesn't mean that I wasn't raised correctly.

You strike me as being spoiled and sheltered most your life. The reason being is that anyone who challenges your word as law is quickly dismissed as your enemy. Instead of just a deference of opinion.

I guess I'm just use to handling adversity but hey if not being the guy who sits and grins like an idiot when you post pictures and negative comments makes me the bad guy.

Then this world needs better hero's.

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Originally Posted by Indy24

Relax, this is a forum built for conversation, not a knife fight. Just because I'm not hardwired to kiss every half naked tranny's ass who post on a website doesn't mean that I wasn't raised correctly.

You strike me as being spoiled and sheltered most your life. The reason being is that anyone who challenges your word as law is quickly dismissed as your enemy. Instead of just a deference of opinion.

I guess I'm just use to handling adversity but hey if not being the guy who sits and grins like an idiot when you post pictures and negative comments makes me the bad guy.

Then this world needs better hero's.

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well when you're constantly disagreeing with me, to me, it makes sense that two people who dont get a long just need to accept that that's how it is. What's the point in constantly trying to argue with someone when they are diametrically opposed. Just doesn't make sense.

I view it as an attack when you act like you know a personality trait of mine when you really just dont. Sheltered, perhaps. Spoiled, hell no. I'm just at th point in my life where i'm more comfortable with an older man who can navigate life easily than a guy who is unstable. i like guys for who they are but in my effort to date guys who dont have their shit together, i've learned that i really just need a guy who is comfortable playing the stereotypical male role.


TGND: I'm already pretty bitter. I can realize and recognize that and try to not be so bitter, but honestly...sometime when i try to give things a chance, I realize that being bitter and perhaps judgemental always saves me the trouble of saying to myself "i told you so". lol

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Originally Posted by kittymatthews

well when you're constantly disagreeing with me, to me, it makes sense that two people who dont get a long just need to accept that that's how it is. What's the point in constantly trying to argue with someone when they are diametrically opposed. Just doesn't make sense.

I view it as an attack when you act like you know a personality trait of mine when you really just dont. Sheltered, perhaps. Spoiled, hell no. I'm just at th point in my life where i'm more comfortable with an older man who can navigate life easily than a guy who is unstable. i like guys for who they are but in my effort to date guys who dont have their shit together, i've learned that i really just need a guy who is comfortable playing the stereotypical male role.


TGND: I'm already pretty bitter. I can realize and recognize that and try to not be so bitter, but honestly...sometime when i try to give things a chance, I realize that being bitter and perhaps judgemental always saves me the trouble of saying to myself "i told you so". lol

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lol.you remind me of a girlfriend of mine.very intelligent and quick witted chick.real cool people too if you happen to be a girl lol.

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Originally Posted by thepiedpiper

On a side note... lol Sean living in the UK i am yet to go on a date where a girl has gone dutch on the first date! :P I'll admit it has happened on the second a lot but never the first. i always get the feeling that 99% of women prefer the first date to be treated with a more old fashioned approach and I think most guys approach it in this way too.

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Obviously your dating a different group of woman then I did (less than 15 yrs ago) in the UK, I haven't dated and don't plan to since I've returned. I generally dated intelligent, creative types and they certainly didn't believe in what you think is "old fashioned". I've also got to say, although in the USA you were expected to pay everything, you got action on the 1-2nd date compared to the UK would be 2-3rd date, so it wasn't all good news.