It's not about bottom vs top/verse anymore...

I had an English teacher who had an English teacher who used to say " The masses are asses. " that being said, fuck what society has to say.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I had an English teacher who had an English teacher who used to say " The masses are asses. " that being said, fuck what society has to say.

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Here here!!!! I'll drink to that!!!!

Peggygee,

Your thoughts below got me to thinking... what is it that attracts me to girls that are transgendered. I would have to say without a doubt that it is that they know themselves better then the average person. For me all the terms about sex and what you desire are the ramblings of the selfish. I have always been about the connection between the ears first. If you communicate with your partner then any and all for the sex you engage in will be mind blowing!

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Originally Posted by peggygee

Not to get caught up in semantics, and come across as being pedantic, but
"top, bottom, verse", are all terms connoting gay male sexual habits, practices
and techniques.

As a post op I usually feel very out of place in responding to or participating
in any of these types of threads as I don't feel that they are apropos.

But since SRS has been mentioned a number of times, here goes;

The following views expressed are strictly my own, and I won't attempt to
speak for other post op women, or those that are predisposed to having the
surgery.

1. Pre operatively, I never thought of my anus as my vagina. Yes, in lieu of
having a vagina, I did engage in anal sex, and will admit to enjoying it. At this
point in time, now that I have a vagina I rarely engage in anal sex. I find it
somewhat painful, and vaginal sex is so much simpler, and feels more natural
to me.

2.Pre operatively, I never turned away a man that I was mutually attracted to
that knew of my genitial status. However, in my almost 40 years full-time, I
have never penetrated a man anally, and have rarely had men attempt to
perform oral sex on me.

Why?

Luck of the draw, the aura I give off, I don't know. But no man that I have
been casually or seriously involved with has wanted the dick.

3.

Trans is a Latin noun or prefix, meaning "across", "beyond" or "on the
opposite side".

Thus the very definition of trans sexual / gender denotes a woman that is or
has crossed over to another sex or gender.

GRS is for the most part the last stop on the "transitioning train ride". For
me, and most post ops, we no longer think or concern oursselve's with
the various stops on the train: HRT, electro, FFS, Silicon, orchiechtomy, GRS.

Yes, for some there me be a need for some mental, emotional adjustments,
post everything, but hopefuully they have done that work before they got on
the train.

Thus I would posit that many women "do not go through life transitioning".

At this stage of my life, I am just another Black woman, with the usual Black
woman issues, concerns, and goals.

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For myself. I am Comfortable with my male parts, but for me they are restraining from doing alot of things that i have interest in & having them serves more problems in society bc "society"( government) has control or wants to control every aspect of how someone lives. But i am okay with my DICK! But i have and always will want the SRS!!! so guys think that i want to keep my dick and i do. just inverted. I dont have any wish to live my life pass 30 with a dick. id probably jump out of a window unless I fall in love with someone and get married and he makes me feel like whats in btw my legs isnt a factor at all. FAMILY FRIENDS & everyone we come in contact with will know he his comfort with me.