I think most guys/girls seek excusivity

Now Ms Tssexychanel

I Know U From Other Sites...

And I Agree With A Lot Of Things U Say.... But Just Like The Men "think" That Alllll The Gurls Are Jaded And Are Escorts.... Why Do U As A Ts.. Think That Wen A Gurl Just Points Out A Fact!!! U Say Someone Is Always Miserable With Themselves? Just Like Older Gurls Where I Grew Up Showed Me The What To Do And What Notttt To Do.. I Will Never Tell A Transgendered Person Something Wrong!!!!

BEING ON MOANS AND LIVING YOUR LIFE AS A WOMAN Everyday issssss a major fact.. it may not be on eros or cl or hell sites as this... but in Reality in Everyday LIFE IT IS. Have n implants Whatever since u wanted to touch on that subject as well.. is only part of a transition a gurl takes to look the way she wants.

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Shut Up Remy... I Was Realllllly Busy.. Its No Shade To U Boooo...lol I Ll Be N Norfolk From Wed. To Friday.. We Can Grab A Drink N Shyt.. U Got My Number... Hit Me Up... Lol Silly Self

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its shit like this that turns cats into haters...lmao. i envy u va dudes man...baltimore sucks big fat ashy hairy tranny azz. seems like they make dimes down there like we make bricks up here. get ya drink on pimping...lol

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Now Ms Tssexychanel

I Know U From Other Sites...

And I Agree With A Lot Of Things U Say.... But Just Like The Men "think" That Alllll The Gurls Are Jaded And Are Escorts.... Why Do U As A Ts.. Think That Wen A Gurl Just Points Out A Fact!!! U Say Someone Is Always Miserable With Themselves? Just Like Older Gurls Where I Grew Up Showed Me The What To Do And What Notttt To Do.. I Will Never Tell A Transgendered Person Something Wrong!!!!

BEING ON MOANS AND LIVING YOUR LIFE AS A WOMAN Everyday issssss a major fact.. it may not be on eros or cl or hell sites as this... but in Reality in Everyday LIFE IT IS. Have n implants Whatever since u wanted to touch on that subject as well.. is only part of a transition a gurl takes to look the way she wants.

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A lot of the time we have the same points deliver is always important. I personally don't think there is any wrong way to think. My views on surgery and hormones are coming from a clinical background where folks are treated to the point of comfort. Working in different places I have seen some things that really made no sense to me but it made the standard of that individuals life better for them.

I have learned personally the education that I have to give folks are not always in the right time and place in their life to understand it or accept it. I know for a fact all girls are not jaded escorts or miserable with their lives I said its easy to think that with the small number of girls that most men encounter. I am sure you know many girls like this and they are usually the most vocal and many of these men encounter several of them before they come to us.

I personally don't have a problem with folks opinions when they stated as opinions but when its stated as fact or a way of life then I do have a problem with that. In a utopian society we would all be alike, look alike and think alike but we live in a world of differences and we all have to accept that. I see stuff and hear stuff everyday I think is foolish and laughable I just have to shake my head. I don't always feel the need to change it especially if it don't affect my life.

In my life and in my personal experience when folks are happy and content with self what others are doing doesn't matter much to them. Everytime I find myself paying too much attention to other folks when I sit down and examine whats going on I see an area of my life that needs my attention more than they foolery.

I understand a lot of your points but your delivery as I have told you before can have folks miss your whole message.

TSMeaganFoxx.com You obviously have dealt with a variety of unsettling issues/relationships, for eleven years no less. I would empathize with you but I am a pathetic tranny admirer and haven't met a real 'Lady' yet for a relationship. I have done an extensive amount of research of the TG Form and concluded that exposing yourself to the TG World is no different that exposing yourself any new community. For many men it is the fear of society judging you, ostracizing you and/or even targeting you that keeps them from making a committed relationship the goal. I think your personification is unfair and creates the same hostility that segments of the 'mainstream' society is responsible for. I'm not thirsty or chasing and resent the stereotype attributed to those who are online at websites seeking exposure to this community. Actually, I too am a graduate school educated professional who is extremely successful. I have harbored my affections in secret for nearly twenty years. The web is an exciting format for those who are legitimately seeking a LTR if used appropriately. I conformed to society's expectations and exceeded them, yet I still know something is missing... my TLady.

Too bad you gave up before finding someone... like me.

I'm fortunate in that I have a great relationship with my girlfriend.
I must admit I didn't always take a relationship with TS seriously. I objectified them on some level in the past. But as I have gotten older in my current 3yr relationship, I've come to truly appreciate my girl for who she is as a human being.
She holds down her 9-5 and we just take care of each other. I think most TS and women in general just want mutual, love acceptance and respect.
But men being men sometimes leaves TS even more jaded than GG.
It all really boils down to the maturity level of people and what they are seeking in a relationship.

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I often read arguments from the ladies that state how guys are thirsty and since they are thirsty, they go after $$$. This is problematic because it's sort of like the chicken and the egg debate. Which came first, thirsty guys wanting dick/ass or thirst ts wanting money/favors?

I don't really think it's cool to put the weight of the world down on a guy who happens to dig ts because he doesn't know what it's like to be a ts. I mean, sure I may not know what it's like on a day to day basis but that doesn't mean I don't or am not capable of understanind their struggles.

Just like most guys don't care about the depth of a transsexual beyond her dick size and oral capabilities, most TS don't care to know about the depth of a guy...his profession, his interests, his hobbies, his education, etc. That's just the fine line we walk in this lifestyle.

The truth is, I am sure there of plenty of real men out here who would love to openly date, get to know, and chilll with a transsexual beyond just the physical part. Just as i'm sure there are plenty of transsexual women who really do want to be wanted for WHO they are, not what they do. Either requires a level of maturity. I do find however, that the burden is usually harder for a man seeking ts attention than a ts seeking a mans attention. Why? Well, if I talk to one too many ts, or I go to a gay club to find one, or I do any of a long list of "forbiden" things than I am labeled a tranny chaser, trade, etc. Again, it is what it is. However, it it's ok for her to "date" her way to the top.

The truth is, I think it all comes down to exclusivity. More so for TS than men. Whereas most admirers don't mind a girl who's been around the block, most TS won't be caught dead with a guy who's fucked more than 2 transsexuals as a serious partner. A weird game of my morality is better than yours if you ask me. Only until we get pass this childish idealogy, we will stay chasing the same chicken and egg theories of the past...

Just thought i'd change up the content a bit and get some discussion going...;)

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Preach my brother! It's a double standard that most trans-women won't acknowledge. I know a few men who are fustrated with this. If you date a large number of non trans-women....no big deal. Date more than a couple of trans-women....let the name calling begin. It's pathetic.

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I so I love when I go rummaging amongst old posts, and I run across one as
poignant and profound as this one.

I read through it in it's entirety, and great points were made by a number of
posters, both male and female, and I felt compelled to proffer my http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...twocents-1.gif.

It goes without saying that each one of us is an individual with different
backgrounds, wants, desires and goals. We are different ages, have different
personalities, are at different places in our live's, some are wiliing and able
to commit, some are not.

In my opinion it is unfair and inaccurate to label all men as dogs and chasers,
and to say that all women are bitter, jaded gold diggers. You will of course
find people in each gender that fit that bill, and then there will be others that
don't.

I know that LTRs are a reality, as I have been in them. I have also been in
relationships where my SO didn't value and appreciate me, and conversely I
have been the one that didn't put in the work to keep the relationship
healthy and alive, in that instance I learned to not take a good man for
granted.

Bottom line, we should try not to paint with an overly broad brush, but rather
judge, observe and evaluate the person as an individual and take it from there.

Peggygee,

I have to say you hit the nail on the proverbial head with this post.

I had been reading back posts as well, getting caught up on the news from the form. What you have said below comes the closest to my feelings on the topic.

I would add that from my prospective the individuals gender and sexual preference have little to do with how I perceive them. My perceptions have more to do with how an individual respects their fellow travelers on this ride of life. Respecting their right to pursue happiness, that goes for genetic individuals as well as the transgendered. It is this respect for happiness that is key to turning me on, and I feel that it is key to turning on others as well. I give it freely, but expect it in return. If I do not get that respect my spectra soon turns elsewhere. If I do that individual will have a part of my heart always.

In my experience transgendered people have the unique ability to be to truer to themselves then most anyone I know. They do not mold themselves into what society thinks they ought to be. It is for this reason that I admire them.

I dated transgendered women, genetic women, and genetic men in the search for what was right for me. I have loved and lost along these lines as well, but I have never disrespected anyone along my path.

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http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...3/latepass.jpg

I so I love when I go rummaging amongst old posts, and I run across one as
poignant and profound as this one.

I read through it in it's entirety, and great points were made by a number of
posters, both male and female, and I felt compelled to proffer my http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...twocents-1.gif.

It goes without saying that each one of us is an individual with different
backgrounds, wants, desires and goals. We are different ages, have different
personalities, are at different places in our live's, some are wiliing and able
to commit, some are not.

In my opinion it is unfair and inaccurate to label all men as dogs and chasers,
and to say that all women are bitter, jaded gold diggers. You will of course
find people in each gender that fit that bill, and then there will be others that
don't.

I know that LTRs are a reality, as I have been in them. I have also been in
relationships where my SO didn't value and appreciate me, and conversely I
have been the one that didn't put in the work to keep the relationship
healthy and alive, in that instance I learned to not take a good man for
granted.

Bottom line, we should try not to paint with an overly broad brush, but rather
judge, observe and evaluate the person as an individual and take it from there.

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Peggygee,

I have to say you hit the nail on the proverbial head with this post.

I had been reading back posts as well, getting caught up on the news from the form. What you have said below comes the closest to my feelings on the topic.

I would add that from my prospective the individuals gender and sexual preference have little to do with how I perceive them. My perceptions have more to do with how an individual respects their fellow travelers on this ride of life. Respecting their right to pursue happiness, that goes for genetic individuals as well as the transgendered. It is this respect for happiness that is key to turning me on, and I feel that it is key to turning on others as well. I give it freely, but expect it in return. If I do not get that respect my spectra soon turns elsewhere. If I do that individual will have a part of my heart always.

In my experience transgendered people have the unique ability to be to truer to themselves then most anyone I know. They do not mold themselves into what society thinks they ought to be. It is for this reason that I admire them.

I dated transgendered women, genetic women, and genetic men in the search for what was right for me. I have loved and lost along these lines as well, but I have never disrespected anyone along my path.

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ah ha, kindred spirits, I agree totally.