Originally Posted by
Remy757Photog
I have had this debate with others before, and I'm split on the topic. I think in other countries where opportunities are not as prevelant as in America this may be true, but not here in the USA. I, for example, am a Military Brat, Father was in Navy (now police detective in Hawaii) and Hindu from India, and Mother in Army (now retired) Creole Catholic from Louisiana so I've always had a multi-cultural surrounding which helped shaped me into a very understanding and 'accepting of others' individual. However; I chose my own path, I refused to follow in their steps and join the Armed Forces, and I reject organized Religion in place of Spirituality (I'm Agnostic). So I chose a very different path than the friends I had, many of whom went into the military like their parents. I'm really tall so everyone wanted me to play Basketball, but in high school I leaned more towards baseball, skateboarding (until I tore my ACL) and playing in a band (bass and drums among other instruments). I also know people who came from a very hard urban life "thugging on the streets" that are now in comfortable positions with very successful companies. So while society can shape the experinces we may be exposed to, we each as individuals choose the path we shall go down.
Society didn't force Asia to be an escort and to stay in an abusive relationship, she chose those things. I've seen girls in similar situations to her (escorting/bad relationships) and seeing how hard they have it, makes it clear that, that is not a path I would want to go down. I have also met too many transexuals who are doing positive things to believe that is the only option she had. I just met a ts who does acting and has been in a few mainstream movies (though small parts) one of which just premiered in NYC two nights ago. I live down the street from a ts that works for NASA here in Va. I know a young TS (early 20's) in Philly who is a film Producer and has worked on a reality tv show in that position. We have a local asian ts that works as a teacher in Va Beach (beautiful lady but refuses to do porn :) ) I know a local ts who helped bring our TS clinic to the area and works as a shrink for the community. I've spoken online in the past with other TS that are lawyers, so I say rubbish to your "...society made the path Asia followed" statement.