Originally Posted by
vidman
Yeah, I know Indy. But VP is or was my friend and I would have been just as bad to snap back on her. If I'm a true friend, then I try to understand why I may have offended her. I've just always been a Mr. NiceGuy to women. Can't help it. Most girls label me as a "sweetheart." I guess now we see why? I'll attempt to make-up as opposed to going along with a break-up. I try to to look at things more objectively.
Keep in mind that a lot of these girls have been going through all types of terrible things in their lives and have boat loads of bad experiences as they've transitioned. I try to keep all of that in mind before I swell up and unleash back at them. A lot of the generalizations that transsexuals do that involve men, stem from their transition experience. Dealing with sex thirsty men who lie to them, claim to want to be in relationships and then end up screwing her friends, etc. etc. The list of things goes on and on.
We are conditioned in life based on our surroundings and life experiences. Again, I try to take all of that into consideration. It's hard for a transsexual to believe anything good a man says when the majority of her life has been ravaged by the bad things that the men she has been in contact with has done to her.
This is just how I look at things Indy. I hope you understand what I'm saying homie. I definitely feel your point though. Your motto is "f--k these girls, they get outta line with me, I'm getting outta line with them!" I'm kinda the same way but just not as gung-ho on it. I try not to be so brash about it. Ya know? If I can work out a decent solution, then I'm willing to do that before I say, "f--k it!"
