DJ Caught w/a Tranny

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Originally Posted by arcane85

I just got out of a relationship with a ts woman for 8 months. If anyone asked I told them the truth but I didn't overtly go about telling everyone our business. It was our business what happened in the bedroom, outside of that she was every bit a lady. People told me I was on the dl because I didn't tell them when they first met her. Not their business and I let her make her own impression. She was also a vegetarian but I didn't broadcast it because it wasn't their business lol. The problem is you gotta pick a higher quality of tgirl. Some of these working girls do not know what else they want in life so they scheme to make it big. Some people will do anything to get rich and not ever care on who gets destroyed in the process and that comes in every walk of life. Dope boys made it big stringing out communities, tgirls made it big outing celebrities, GG's made it big getting pregnant by someone rich, and big business made it big by crushing the little guys. Stop jumping in with just anybody who looks good but choose wisely. If you are just trying to get a quick nut then you open yourself up to lots of risks dl or not

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i wouldnt consider you dl for not telling people your girl was trans.you are completely right that its yall business.as long as you treated her just like any other woman you dated than your good homie

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Originally Posted by ty-clone

its obvious kerry rhodes can not get a job in the NFL due to him being outed by the gay dude. like i said kerry is a top player at his position. the media has even asked a few current players on their team signing him, and they all gave no comment or said something in affect as no we do not want him.

i do not understand dl man using our dicks over our head comment. if anything its using our heads, most believe it will cause problems with our family,friends and careers. and repercussions only occur when the dl man is outed. which i assume you believe is wrong.

i had my fair share of tgirls association and always been up front about being on the down low, as far as i know none of them had an issue with that. if not they would have stop it. i think you and amber are more or less referring to a dl man having a serious relationship with lgbt individual. my comments were directly to the person in the video and any lgbt person whom so sign with that mentality.

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The point is, if you believe it is wrong to mess with trans women, just don't mess with them. Is the fear of one day being outed that important to you that you still rather run around getting your nut off instead of playing it safe and keeping your 'life in order'. lol That's thinking with your dick instead of your head. Yeah no escort is going to give a damn about you being dl.

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Originally Posted by arcane85

I just got out of a relationship with a ts woman for 8 months. If anyone asked I told them the truth but I didn't overtly go about telling everyone our business. It was our business what happened in the bedroom, outside of that she was every bit a lady. People told me I was on the dl because I didn't tell them when they first met her. Not their business and I let her make her own impression. She was also a vegetarian but I didn't broadcast it because it wasn't their business lol. The problem is you gotta pick a higher quality of tgirl. Some of these working girls do not know what else they want in life so they scheme to make it big. Some people will do anything to get rich and not ever care on who gets destroyed in the process and that comes in every walk of life. Dope boys made it big stringing out communities, tgirls made it big outing celebrities, GG's made it big getting pregnant by someone rich, and big business made it big by crushing the little guys. Stop jumping in with just anybody who looks good but choose wisely. If you are just trying to get a quick nut then you open yourself up to lots of risks dl or not

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I agree with you and wouldn't consider you DL at all. The one thing I would point out is that no trans woman made it big 'outing' celebrities lol Out of all the successful trans women in US history not a single one has outed a person, there are trans Authors, Doctors, Actresses, Musicians, and Politicians, please name one that has outed a person and was even more successful after it.

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Originally Posted by ty-clone

its not excuses, its reality. i gave you an example of that reality with kerry rhodes the NFL player. dont get me wrong, im not implying its social/career suicide especially in 2013; but its still a problem in today society. we all was sadden to hear the news where the young tgirl was beaten and killed in harlem and that was only a few months ago.
yes im a client but i've met plenty of tgirl online via chat rooms or bgc and like i said when we hookup to hang out weather for drinks, smoke or just me driving them around none of them had an issue with me being a dl man.
and for the those pretty passable tgirls that have things going for them, well some of them indeed deal with dl man. you really think those high end girls dont have some sort of causal relationship with famous rich man who are on the down low as well?
amber and to remy as well, im not trying to argue with yous. both of y'all are beautiful intelligent girls. i just dont think im a bad person because i choose not to share my personal lifestyle with my family friends and co workers.

no beef
we :cool:

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lol You do realize, every situation you named with a trans woman dealing with a DL man, it was still at the end of the day the girl getting something out of the man. She ceases to see him as friend and now becomes opportunity for whatever material thing there may be to gain.

No beef at all, I just know that there are multiple factors toward the Rhodes situation not getting employment and it didn't end with a 'outing'. That's just the one factor that you care to focus on.

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

lol You do realize, every situation you named with a trans woman dealing with a DL man, it was still at the end of the day the girl getting something out of the man. She ceases to see him as friend and now becomes opportunity for whatever material thing there may be to gain.

No beef at all, I just know that there are multiple factors toward the Rhodes situation not getting employment and it didn't end with a 'outing'. That's just the one factor that you care to focus on.

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I don't understand the whole kerri rhodes thing. He liked boys on the dl not trans. Many dudes mess with fem boys on the dl. I spent 2 years locked up as a youngin and I know first hand of some of the hardest mofos who fucked fem boys in the box. That shit just doesn't goaway when you leave the yard.

I was never a dl dude. I have dated or taken out 2 trans women on dates in my life. I view them as women not dudes. Not women with dicks. Just women so I treated them accordingly. I'm just out to have fun and have a good time. I'm also not out there holding rainbow colored flags and marching at lgbt events. I don't understand why people feel the need to label shit. Just do what you do.

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Originally Posted by raheme

I don't understand the whole kerri rhodes thing. He liked boys on the dl not trans. Many dudes mess with fem boys on the dl. I spent 2 years locked up as a youngin and I know first hand of some of the hardest mofos who fucked fem boys in the box. That shit just doesn't goaway when you leave the yard.

I was never a dl dude. I have dated or taken out 2 trans women on dates in my life. I view them as women not dudes. Not women with dicks. Just women so I treated them accordingly. I'm just out to have fun and have a good time. I'm also not out there holding rainbow colored flags and marching at lgbt events. I don't understand why people feel the need to label shit. Just do what you do.

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Don't ask me, I'm not the one who brought Kerri Rhodes into the conversation.

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

there are always going to be instances of ignorance in the world but that is by no means a reflection of general society. for example, there was a black man who was gunned down by the cops for no reason what so ever in charlotte, north carolinia. if we went off of that incident than one would have to believe that racism is flourishing in america when that simply isnt the reality. the reality is that yes some people have their heart filled with hate but the world is a much more accepting and tolerant place theses days. as ive said many times on this forum we need to stop just focusing on the negative (the stories of ts woman getting murdered) but also focus on the positive advancements that ts woman are making (the ts actresses, models, judges, government officials and etc). when you only focus one on side of an issues it gives you an unbalanced perception.
as far as the kerry rhodes situation other factors have to be taken into account for his unemployment such as his age (he's over 30) and how much money he's asking for. apparently he was offered a 3 million deal but he passed over it. there are several openly gay sport professionals like orlando cruz or jason collins.
i cant speak for whatever girls you deal with but i know myself and the girls i know personally (which included the late Sheeba) dont deal with dl men on a social level.
while i dont think your a bad man for being dl per i just dont have room in my life for guys like you.i find it personally insulting that someone can think that im good enough to fuck but not to be seen or associated with.you can sugar coat it a zillion different ways from sunday but thats what being dl is saying.
my attitude toward dl men is,if im not good enough for you to be associated with than your not good enough for me to acknowledged

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fair enough, as i said i totally respect you & girls like you for not dealing with a dl man on a social level
but i would like to ask (not to open up a can of worms) but whats the differences for not dealing with a dl man on a social level yet its ok on a business level ?

big dick bitch comes to mind, heard she dose not prefer white men on a social level and when offered to do a scene for her site with a white man, she turned him down. that seems consistent then the latter

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

The point is, if you believe it is wrong to mess with trans women, just don't mess with them. Is the fear of one day being outed that important to you that you still rather run around getting your nut off instead of playing it safe and keeping your 'life in order'. lol That's thinking with your dick instead of your head. Yeah no escort is going to give a damn about you being dl.

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i never said i believe its wrong, i said its nobody business but minds
and for the dl comment, see above. im just little confused on the differences. hopefully you & amber can enlighten me

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

lol You do realize, every situation you named with a trans woman dealing with a DL man, it was still at the end of the day the girl getting something out of the man. She ceases to see him as friend and now becomes opportunity for whatever material thing there may be to gain.

No beef at all, I just know that there are multiple factors toward the Rhodes situation not getting employment and it didn't end with a 'outing'. That's just the one factor that you care to focus on.

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how so? how is meeting up with a girl online just to chill, is some sort of opportunity for her to gain material things form me


really, just one factor. let me know if you still agree with that after reading & hearing this
http://larrybrownsports.com/football...-circle/204296

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Originally Posted by ty- with

fair enough, as i said i totally respect you & girls like you for not dealing with a dl man on a social level
but i would like to ask (not to open up a can of worms) but whats the differences for not dealing with a dl man on a social level yet its ok on a business level ?

big dick bitch comes to mind, heard she dose not prefer white men on a social level and when offered to do a scene for her site with a white man, she turned him down. that seems consistent then the latter

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when I'm with a client I'm there for the money only, I don't need to like or be attracted to the person.i would be one broke chick if I only saw clients who I thought were sexy lol.I'm there to provide a service , you pay me for it and then we both go our own ways. the client has no effect on my day to day life what so ever.I have a strict separation between my personal life and work.I have regulars I've seen for years but they don't know my last name, what school I go to, where my family is from etc.
when I deal with someone on a social level ( I'm not being payed to be there) not only do I find that person interesting but worth my time and effort.I'm inviting that person to be apart of my life.i can't consider someone a friend or lover but they're ashamed to be seen with or associated with me. that's not a real friend or person for that matter

[QU havety-c two630]how so? how is meeting up with a girl online just to chill, is some sort of opportunity for her to gain material things form me


really, just one factor. let me know if you still agree with that after reading & hearing this
http://larrybrownsports.com/football...-circle/204296[/QUOTE]

I gave you two factors including him passing up on a 3 mil deal... again some people will always be ignorant no matter what the factor, it could be race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, etc