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Lol that's like an escort thinking all men are like her clients...but wait some do and y'all call those woman jaded.Quote:
Originally Posted by btglover
It's all about perspective and perception.it's best to keep that in mind and not think in absolutes when it comes to a group of people
HAHAHA really though? Dont forget I use TMZ mainly -_______-. You seemed to have completely overlooked my earlier point when I told you most of teh world was uneducated in regards to this lifestyle. There should be a bigger push to make those stories mainstream, instead of the girl who went to jail for injecting concrete. I deal with trans women in more ways than backpage/craigslist thanks. Whats up with the insults? "Regular women problems" referred to men not wanting to claim women period, finding a man that wants to do more than show up and fuck. Had nothing to do with you being gg or TS, being below anyone, or being killed. I never spoke on you needing a man so I have no clue where that came from or about you entertaining a DL dude. I only spoke on some guys that are DL need time to make a major life-changing decision. You'll pop off at the mouth like its so damn easy to just up and leave all your friends/family behind just because they might not agree. I've already passed that mark for myself so I know how hard it is. Why are we talking about trans rights when I said we needed more positive leaders instead of so many pointing these girls in the direction of prostitution? That wasnt pointing the finger at you, but you seem to have taken offense to it. As far as the girls getting threatened or killed, YES THAT"S TRUE. That's not talking out the side of my neck, (whatever that is). The black community is not very accepting of that lifestyle, no matter how much money you make. I've been in management oersonally witnessed "certain people" not get the job or lose it, because others werent comfortable working with them when they found out. So yes, guys go that extra mile to not get caught. Not saying its ok, but I just was saying these girls put theyre life on teh line when they do those things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
Omg, just stop it! Not every man who openly dates a ts woman leaves or losses his family.For some this maybe be a possible reality for sure but for most I imagine people will eventually come around or not care.Quote:
Originally Posted by werwt22
You guys talk about this shit like it's the red scare.Stop buying into the hysteria.I've meet a few friends/family.Were there a few awkward questions here and there? Hell yea lol but I have yet to experience any drama, disrespect or disownment (I made that word up lol) towards my male friends/lovers or myself.
To be honest I don't believe your statement that people are getting passed up on jobs frequently because they are gay,ts or ts attracted.I personally know more lgbt people with jobs than I know those without.I'm sure I can find statistics if you want them.You probably have the same likely hood to be passed up for being black as being gay.
How about you stop making excuses for dl men and start giving reasons why theyt should be open....im going to wait (literally).....
Don't talk about ts rights or what the ts community should do when you can't even.claim a girl openly or encourage others to stop treating ts woman as play things.you sound fucking silly even trying to do so...much like the peope who always complain about the state of the US but never votes or exercise any of their political rights as a citizen
Yooo why is this even a debate tho....
Can yall niggas really not see how fucked up it is to tell someone that its only ok for yall to hang and have sex as long as no one knows about it because of what they are?!?!
Cant believe that this something yall think is ok.smh....shaking my goddamn head.niggas aint shit
SMH how about I've been giving reasons in several threads for them to be open and how it feels like a burden being lifted when the discussion comes up. Just because I'm more compassionate than you in regards, and willing to listen to what they have to say, I'm accepting of their behavior in how they treat women? NO, but that's a decision that they have to make and you dont just make it overnight. Your right, everybody I told was pretty accepting other than a few that I dont really fuck with anymore anyway, but 90% of that shit is mental and its just a hard decision to make. There would been no hope for me if I got constantly bashed everytime I said I was scared of gettin caught or that I liked TS in the past. But you'll are no better for degrading that person right back...all that good shit you speak falls on deaf ears the way you'll communicate it. As far as the job goes, I have TS friends, an aunt in human resources, a VP immediate family member, and being management myself, that all say the same about how often this happens. No one cares what the numbers are because the fact is the shit gets swept under the rug and whatever numbers you find arent real. No they wont "say" they fired you for being gay, but they will put you under a microscope until they find a reason to get rid of you. We still have a long way to go as far as tolerance here.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Yea it sounds real fucked up, and yes some of them are fucked up yea, but most are just scared. Being black, I've went through this several times with white girls when I was a little younger, but I dont bear any hatred or ill will for them feeling that way. In the end, a lot of them just dont have the courage or strength, which makes those such admirable qualities. There are still plenty of racist around that will never change their views/opinions, but I also see a more tolerant generation coming up below us so apparently the message being spoken from my generation seems to be a good one. We just live in fucked up times, and though change will never be immediate, I'm just happy to know its headed in the right direction.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
You're way too sexy and intelligent to use such crutches. ..Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
You're not likely to marry any guy posting in this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
So get in where you fit in....
Condemning the men who simply jerk off to your vids/pics is a waste of time.
Pretty much lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Indy24
Searching for moral victories on an online message board dedicated to the objectification of said women is a fail.
she just might =D. Never know LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Indy24