I need your advice seriously!!

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But I seriously need you guys opinion. Personally I enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" I mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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OK i was just making sure because i dont attend to ignore people but i feel if i dont have nothing good to say i wont say nothing at all and sometimes thats what i do i ignore it! But yes that is how they start the conversation 'give me that black cock" or come suck me off..when i say plz respect me i get o shut up cause your a hore..im like wow

I've seen things like that before. People get deluded about things because a person does porn. I don't quite understand it myself. Do they also expect MMA fighters and Boxers to beat the ever loving shit out of them? I can't say.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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I have to disagree to a point. The respect she is asking for should be a GIVEN. All these guys grew up with family no matter how big or small, and we are all taught to respect a person until they give you a reason not to.

Now listen all these clowns need their asses kicked. People try to get away with saying anything they can because this is an electronic ago. There is no accountability for they way they talk. If its a matter of trying to get laid, even the drunkest asshole in a club comes across better than that. And if they cant do that maybe they need a wake up call as to who THEY are calling.

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic..

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I agree that dudes should show some respect. Calling someone names because you didn't get what you want is pathetic.

I'm sure some people don't see you as the real person you are, just the personality you portray in porn or uStream. People see you doing and talking about things they want to do and they want to be a part of that so badly they don't see that you have things in common with everyone else.

Not a whole lot you can do about that. Ask a celebrity.

Even if you make other types of videos, dudes are going to see what they want to see, act how they wanna act, and want what they're gonna want.

That ass.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I've seen things like that before. People get deluded about things because a person does porn. I don't quite understand it myself. Do they also expect MMA fighters and Boxers to beat the ever loving shit out of them? I can't say.

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lmao my point exactly...That dont understand porn is acting..no one lives like that on a daily basis its kinda crazy to me Ill say..

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Originally Posted by BigJoeKrash

I have to disagree to a point. The respect she is asking for should be a GIVEN. All these guys grew up with family no matter how big or small, and we are all taught to respect a person until they give you a reason not to.

Now listen all these clowns need their asses kicked. People try to get away with saying anything they can because this is an electronic ago. There is no accountability for they way they talk. If its a matter of trying to get laid, even the drunkest asshole in a club comes across better than that. And if they cant do that maybe they need a wake up call as to who THEY are calling.

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yeah i think that was what he was saying lol but yeah i agree with you both its sad cause i get alot of people hitting me up on facebook and twitter but some people get out of line and when i say no to something i dont like my pet peeve word is "why" if i say no i should have a right to that why to them is a excuse to the reason i should say yes instead of no... people can be a ass sometimes and u suppose to feel like its just the net but when your phone and other information comes into the matter its no longer just the net! Its personally business is personal my opinion.:confused:

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Originally Posted by jayveach

I agree that dudes should show some respect. Calling someone names because you didn't get what you want is pathetic.

I'm sure some people don't see you as the real person you are, just the personality you portray in porn or uStream. People see you doing and talking about things they want to do and they want to be a part of that so badly they don't see that you have things in common with everyone else.

Not a whole lot you can do about that. Ask a celebrity.

Even if you make other types of videos, dudes are going to see what they want to see, act how they wanna act, and want what they're gonna want.

That ass.

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right like i do videos about topics dealing with the transgender community and people will say foul stuff like show ur ass let me se ur tits mad random totally off the topic i can pull up a video on it and it hurt that people can be cruel to only have one purpose towards you i am human.ya kno

apparent rejection is a bitch. Best to just ignore it. Some people just wont be able to deal.