So this is why i am going to become a lesbian

this is from my FB messages

GUY: well i feel i can bag u if i wanted to and u keep acting like i cant when i know i can


ME: nope


GUY: i know i can buss a load down ur throat with ease


ME: u were so different before u knew i was a ts. once u saw that u became a raging fuckboy
that aint kool


GUY: nah ma i know i can sticc my dicc in ur asshole u want to see my cocc i will send it to ur phone


ME: no i dont wanna see it
i dont care to see it


GUY: yeah right im a send it to ur phone just wait..cocc succer


ME: um no
deleted that


GUY: succ my dicc


ME: wouldnt do it even if u payed u $100000000000


GUY: my dicc is bigger then urs faggot


ME: wow faggot
thats a done deal
bye


GUY: u want me break ur jaw piece


ME:what the fuck u say?
why do u stil have my number?


GUY: fucc up sticc a plunger up ur asshole


ME: suck my dick
delete me now


GUY: fucc up come out to texas and give u a ass wiping..for getting smart with daddy..u fragile son of a bitch
lol


ME: im not white pornstar who loves bbc. u know that right. talking shit like that dont fly with me. im not addicted to black cock
"o mr black man" tha shit isnt cute.


GUY: so u like white cocc all the coccs that fucc u were blacc..in those clips


ME: from now on u get what u ask for. u disrepect me and i continued to be respectful as possibale to u but ur a nutcase so im just goitn to be a bitch
i like pussy
im a lesbian


GUY: into i sticc my dicc in ur ass give u anal

ME: 2:32am
not needed my girl does that just fine

Some people don't have any fucking sense.

I woulda had that dude blocked

Don't take the insane rants of some random dude to say we are all like that. He is obviously stupid and desperate.

guess i'll play the contrary as usual


soooooooo....women aren't as crude or as simple minded as this dude was? i live in the dc, md, va area and i know quite a few lesbian broads that go way harder than the dudes around here (you ever seen snoop from the wire?). ignorance is ignorance regardless of gender ma ma.

secondly, i doubt that ignorant behavior from one gender would "make" someone "go" gay. that would imply you CHOSE to be gay and as we all know, and have been gay-mafia'd into believing, you don't choose your sexuality.

The question of sexuality aside, it isn't just one dude. Admittedly I am taking her at her word for it, but she's approached by guys in this manner constantly. While I don't think she's actually going to become a lesbian, she is quite frustrated with guys constantly talking to her in such a disrespectful way.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

The question of sexuality aside, it isn't just one dude. Admittedly I am taking her at her word for it, but she's approached by guys in this manner constantly. While I don't think she's actually going to become a lesbian, she is quite frustrated with guys constantly talking to her in such a disrespectful way.

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Sometime we meet people where they are. We too often seek first to be understood without never really understanding where they are. It is easy to be critical of those who don't understand us or who disrespect us. We want people to react in certain ways and we beg for validation from them. Unfortunately there are some that will never understand where you are coming from, how you think and why you hold the feelings you do.
This doesn't mean that they are hateful or selfish, it could mean that they can't get to that place of mutual understanding. When you judge people based on indifference or perceived judgment you are effectively forgetting to remember to meet people where they are.

reflection

sometimes life is a mirror my friend. we tend to get back, what we put out. sometimes an honest and simple self analysis is all that's needed to change our outcomes. if i'm on a message board or in a chat room and 99% of the topic is sexually charged, and my profile is 99% sexually explicit and 99% of my interactions with folks are sexually oriented, chances are you are 99% more likely to get comments and interactions based on majority image you put out there in the ethos than the 1% you keep hidden from all to see (i.e. the kinder, softer, more socially conscious person, etc.) . you get back what you put out, most times in life.

Cosmic, you're a guy, correct? Have you approached her in this manner? I'm a guy, have I approached her in this manner? Nope. Why? Because, at least to my understanding, that's not the image of herself she's put out there on these boards. Mirror mirror.


If you want to buy a Bently, you don't go to the Mitsubishi dealership do you? If I want to meet a good girl with long term potential, i'm going to look for that girl where I know I can find her.

Something to think about

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Originally Posted by raheme

Sometime we meet people where they are. We too often seek first to be understood without never really understanding where they are. It is easy to be critical of those who don't understand us or who disrespect us. We want people to react in certain ways and we beg for validation from them. Unfortunately there are some that will never understand where you are coming from, how you think and why you hold the feelings you do.
This doesn't mean that they are hateful or selfish, it could mean that they can't get to that place of mutual understanding. When you judge people based on indifference or perceived judgment you are effectively forgetting to remember to meet people where they are.

reflection

sometimes life is a mirror my friend. we tend to get back, what we put out. sometimes an honest and simple self analysis is all that's needed to change our outcomes. if i'm on a message board or in a chat room and 99% of the topic is sexually charged, and my profile is 99% sexually explicit and 99% of my interactions with folks are sexually oriented, chances are you are 99% more likely to get comments and interactions based on majority image you put out there in the ethos than the 1% you keep hidden from all to see (i.e. the kinder, softer, more socially conscious person, etc.) . you get back what you put out, most times in life.

Cosmic, you're a guy, correct? Have you approached her in this manner? I'm a guy, have I approached her in this manner? Nope. Why? Because, at least to my understanding, that's not the image of herself she's put out there on these boards. Mirror mirror.


If you want to buy a Bently, you don't go to the Mitsubishi dealership do you? If I want to meet a good girl with long term potential, i'm going to look for that girl where I know I can find her.

Something to think about

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True Enough, but like Cosmic said its not just one guy. Its girls too sometimes, but i think id rather put up with a girl then the bullheadedness of a man,( women tend to bend rather then break). Yes i do porn , i like what i do. But this is how MEN have been towards me since i was 16, i was never one to dress provocatively or speak about sex to anyone, never been a sexually charged person. Even when i dress down & im completely covered up & no makeup & i look busted i get the same crap from guys. Girls could care less about speaking to me. Majority of the time i get approached bc these "DOGS" feel that its their responsibility to be assholes or try to get my number. If they cant, they try to fight me (mind u im 5'6 & 137lbs, im not fighting a grown man or even a teenager)

For anyone who has ever talked to me more then 10minutes they will know that im not one to say anything about, even during sex im shy.

But for some reason, just about all men come at me the same way once they know im a transsexual.

i can be outside( which happens alot) downtown somewhere or shopping, & a guy will approach me & i will tell him "Thanks but, No thank you."
then he will be like "Come on lil mama, you fine as hell." I continue with "Im sorry,i have a boyfriend." He aint gots to know shawty."
"And im a transsexual. So yeah, thank you but no thank you." ( i never hide the fact i am a transsexual bc i dont want anybody ever saying i tricked anyone if i end up on the evening news murdered bc there are sooooooooooooooooo many ignorant people in the world who would rather attack me then try to understand words.)


So, now he is like "I just want my dick sucked anyway, i aint gay."
i Dont respond i move around. HE FOLLOWS ME.

"lemme fuck?"
"bet that ass tight?"
"damn u got some sexy lips, i bet u give fire as head"
" u cute for a nigga. might have to hit that shit from the back"
these are some of the things ppl walk up and say to me before & after i tell them im a transsexual or before i open my mouth at all. I stay to myself. i dont bother anyone.

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Originally Posted by raheme

Cosmic, you're a guy, correct? Have you approached her in this manner? I'm a guy, have I approached her in this manner? Nope. Why? Because, at least to my understanding, that's not the image of herself she's put out there on these boards. Mirror mirror.

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I don't ever hold people to the same standards that I hold myself. It wasn't long into life that I realized I'm not like them and better for it. But the fact of the matter is, there's a difference between being flirtatious and just being down right disrespectful. You want your dick sucked? Who doesn't? But when someone says no, where do you get off making threats and trying to insult them? Let alone with things that would just as well apply to you.

A person doesn't always have to be viewed a certain way to get certain results. In this case that's pretty much what applies. After all, if you were walking along and some guy came up to you in that manner, how would you respond?

Brooklyn, I understand what you're saying, but let me just say that the good guys (like me), you girls don't seem to be interested in. I'm a good dude. No wife, no kids, got a good job, my own place, two vehicles, college graduate, very attractive, hit the gym everyday so I'm fit as well.....Would love the opportunity to get to know a nice girl but I've had very bad luck in obtaining a true relationship. Oh yeah, sex is not hard to achieve at all. At times it seems that transsexuals are more horny than I am. But when I proceed with talks of committment, it all goes south. So just know, Brooklyn, that there are good guys out here. I think it's just a matter of two people meeting, figuring out what it is they want from each other, being GENUINE about it and going for it. It always seems to be games involved when I try to turn a friendship into something serious. It's almost like the girls get scared.