It's not about bottom vs top/verse anymore...

I've come to realize that there are two type of tgirls I encounter

On one hand you've got tgirls who hate everything about the sex they were born as and wished to God that they were born as genetic females. SRS is their ultimate goal and don't usually feel complete until they have this surgery. As a result when they meet guys who may be genuinely straight, they're often rejected when showing any affection towards her penis. To these tgirls their anus represents the vagina.

Then there are tgirls who feel like women yet are still comfortable with their bodies and organs they were born in. Like others they take hormones, get work done, hair removal etc. and their sex lives tend to be more open to guys who don't mind pleasuring their male parts. And most of them have no desire to get SRS. They have their own way of thinking and don't care how society views them.

Both go through life transitioning yet their lifestyles and opinions can be totally different.

For me as a trans attracted male I find it important to distinguish one from the other since not all of them share the same POV as me. Yet we all live in a society ignorance and hypocrisy is the norm. Some wish to conform into that lot while other have could care less when living their lives how they see it.

Either way this helps me to understand TS better when socializing. Do you agree?

lol I'm a mix of the two, I'm complicated. I absolutely want to have SRS, without a freaking doubt, simply can't afford at this time. I always take every aspect of my HRT seriously and do my darn best to not miss a dose. I do enjoy using that member, it's there isn't it!?! lol I also despise it and wish it was never there at all. I'm not what you would consider a Bottom, though, in a relationship I will if it's desired. I want my breast to get majority of attention sexually, they are super sensitive and ready and willing to squirt milk in a lucky person mouth lol Don't worry it's sweeter than dairy. I also don't find men or male mannerism attractive at all, so I'm a lesbian born in a male body :) Us trans women are almost like the next stage of evolution. :p

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why do you view girls who want srs and arent connected to their penises in a negative manner?? its not about conforming to society but doing what THEY NEED to feel like a woman.some girls are just content with hormones to feel womanly,others need implant or surgery and some want pussies.it takes a great deal of strength,courage and conviction to transition no matter what the end result maybe.
personally i dont have anything against my penis (i use it everyday lol).while i am a bottom i do enjoy having my dick stimulated sexually (mostly thru head).i always considered men who got fucked as less masculine but as i grow older and more into my sexuality my perceptions about such things change.my current boyfriend is mildly verse and i have no problem with that.ill probably end up indulging him one day soon in the name of experimentation and love.
while ill most likely wont be getting srs i do plan on getting physically castrated.given a choose tho you can bet your ass i would of loved to be born a gg.im just making the best out of this ts situation.

If I could, I would get work done to become half man half monkey... Yeah I'm serious.

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

why do you view girls who want srs and arent connected to their penises in a negative manner?? its not about conforming to society but doing what THEY NEED to feel like a woman.some girls are just content with hormones to feel womanly,others need implant or surgery and some want pussies.it takes a great deal of strength,courage and conviction to transition no matter what the end result maybe.
personally i dont have anything against my penis (i use it everyday lol).while i am a bottom i do enjoy having my dick stimulated sexually (mostly thru head).i always considered men who got fucked as less masculine but as i grow older and more into my sexuality my perceptions about such things change.my current boyfriend is mildly verse and i have no problem with that.ill probably end up indulging him one day soon in the name of experimentation and love.
while ill most likely wont be getting srs i do plan on getting physically castrated.given a choose tho you can bet your ass i would of loved to be born a gg.im just making the best out of this ts situation.

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Lol @ "mildly verse"

I swear y'all be making shit up lmao

Everything is made up. Everything.

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Originally Posted by raheme

Lol @ "mildly verse"

I swear y'all be making shit up lmao

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mildly verse means he's mostly top but he has bottomed before and is down to do it again asshole

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why do you view girls who want srs and arent connected to their penises in a negative manner?? its not about conforming to society but doing what THEY NEED to feel like a woman.some girls are just content with hormones to feel womanly,others need implant or surgery and some want pussies.it takes a great deal of strength,courage and conviction to transition no matter what the end result maybe.
personally i dont have anything against my penis (i use it everyday lol).while i am a bottom i do enjoy having my dick stimulated sexually (mostly thru head).i always considered men who got fucked as less masculine but as i grow older and more into my sexuality my perceptions about such things change.my current boyfriend is mildly verse and i have no problem with that.ill probably end up indulging him one day soon in the name of experimentation and love.
while ill most likely wont be getting srs i do plan on getting physically castrated.given a choose tho you can bet your ass i would of loved to be born a gg.im just making the best out of this ts situation.

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This is pretty much a directory for guys who date TS and don't always get the same experience.

Think of the two descriptions as polar opposites were as Ms Remy has admitted to being somewhere in the middle of the two.

It's not negative for a woman not to use her penis or to obtain SRS. The disconnect comes in when girls like this condemn anything that doesn't live up to the male and female standard that society as a whole dictates on everyone. Which is kind of strange to me since the clinical term "transsexual" goes hand and hand with "grey area" since male and female roles have never been black in white to begin with.

To me a lot of tgirls come off as transophobes, meaning that there is no doubt in my mind that if they were born as genetic females they'd be as ignorant and unbearable as most of those who look down on trannies and the guys they attract.

So when I hear terms like "Cockhound" and "pussyboy bottom" from tgirls. I instantly loose respect for those individuals.

You on the other hand seem to be lightening up a little and you obviously have a man who excepts you for you and from my POV that's what it should be for everyone.

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Originally Posted by Indy24

It's not negative for a woman not to use her penis or to obtain SRS. The disconnect comes in when girls like this condemn anything that doesn't live up to the male and female standard that society as a whole dictates on everyone. Which is kind of strange to me since the clinical term "transsexual" goes hand and hand with "grey area" since male and female roles have never been black in white to begin with.

To me a lot of tgirls come off as transophobes, meaning that there is no doubt in my mind that if they were born as genetic females they'd be as ignorant and unbearable as most of those who look down on trannies and the guys they attract.

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I really thought I was the only one who noticed this sort of thing. I was beginning to give up hope that anyone would ever actually take notice of it.

So this is what it feels like... when doves cry... ; __:

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I really thought I was the only one who noticed this sort of thing. I was beginning to give up hope that anyone would ever actually take notice of it.

So this is what it feels like... when doves cry... ; __:

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LOL, Okay Millhouse!