Nasty Attitudes

Maybe its just me, but it seems like a lot of these girls have bad attitudes. I understand the nature of the business and all they guys they get harrassing them and all but there should still be some level of respect. Especially if its given. I recently called to top women from a eros ad and was nothing short of a gentlemen, but all I got was a slick ass answer. I really didn't take it to heart, but I now realize that these 2 lost a fan. Can anyone else relate? My bad if I sound disgruntel but we as consumers put these performers where they are and there is no need to be treated like shit.

how did u call her and go about the conversation i had a guy call me last night talking all in slang and stuff yes im black but please when u call me at least act like u have since ya know.... he also was like where u at like he knew me i told him not to ever call me again and i hung up on him so ..... it may have been you...lol....let me know boo

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Originally Posted by aplus82

Maybe its just me, but it seems like a lot of these girls have bad attitudes. I understand the nature of the business and all they guys they get harrassing them and all but there should still be some level of respect. Especially if its given. I recently called to top women from a eros ad and was nothing short of a gentlemen, but all I got was a slick ass answer. I really didn't take it to heart, but I now realize that these 2 lost a fan. Can anyone else relate? My bad if I sound disgruntel but we as consumers put these performers where they are and there is no need to be treated like shit.

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No slang at all. I was very polite, proper, and had my manners cause like I said I know this is a business. What makes it even worse was that it was at a reasonable hr to, like around 6pm or so. I have chatted with u before, have I ever come of as rude and or disrespectful?

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Originally Posted by aplus82

No slang at all. I was very polite, proper, and had my manners cause like I said I know this is a business. What makes it even worse was that it was at a reasonable hr to, like around 6pm or so. I have chatted with u before, have I ever come of as rude and or disrespectful?

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Who Did my baby like that Ive seen you before and i know you nothing but a gentlemen we had a ball Hennesy and all!:cool:

Yes we did! I thought u forgot about me. I am glad u chimed in cause u can verify how I get down. I just wanted to express some of the few encounters I have had recently from ladies in your profession. We definetly gotta do it again miss logan, by the way I still have your autograph. I told you that you were gonna blow up and be famous ms logan, remeber that?

logan aka kennedy i swear u got the greatest titties lol. im not even a breast-guy, i love ass, but i would suck them thang-thangs all day. real talk

well i am so sorry to hear she was rude to you like that..! you said you called but i dont recall seeing you ...why is that?

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Originally Posted by aplus82

No slang at all. I was very polite, proper, and had my manners cause like I said I know this is a business. What makes it even worse was that it was at a reasonable hr to, like around 6pm or so. I have chatted with u before, have I ever come of as rude and or disrespectful?

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i meant thru one of your live chat sessions.

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Originally Posted by mick foley

logan aka kennedy i swear u got the greatest titties lol. im not even a breast-guy, i love ass, but i would suck them thang-thangs all day. real talk

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Thanks and i love them sucked! I have sensitive nipples It just drives me nutty! literally! lol:)

I had two btg's and 1 yum model really give me terrible 'diva' attitudes during shoots and it really shows in videos. It is always surprising why they would act that way, especially on camera. Some just dont have the business state of mind to see the 'big' picture and how they'll be viewed by the members. Other's may just have had a bad day or something, you never know what might have put someone in a bad mood. Not trying to excuse the bad behaviour mind you.

Maybe I'm a masochist or something but I like the tgirls with attitude, makes it a lot of fun for me when they are in the sheets face down, ass up.

Kind of like "what you gotta say now" when I'm dicking them down. I love when they have a sharp tongue

Hey but that's just me being a freak.

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Originally Posted by aplus82

maybe its just me, but it seems like a lot of these girls have bad attitudes. I understand the nature of the business and all they guys they get harrassing them and all but there should still be some level of respect. Especially if its given. I recently called to top women from a eros ad and was nothing short of a gentlemen, but all i got was a slick ass answer. I really didn't take it to heart, but i now realize that these 2 lost a fan. Can anyone else relate? My bad if i sound disgruntel but we as consumers put these performers where they are and there is no need to be treated like shit.

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there are alot of rude girls out there ive heard but i am not one of them the only time i get a attitude is when a guy just really keeps asking the same questions making and he's really just trying to be cheap and get his "rocks off" over the phone instead of coming to see me i do appreciate the appreciation but i am not a sex phone operator!

I agree its just apart of the game...give em a good time and all tht shit flips:d

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Originally Posted by blkmuscletop

maybe i'm a masochist or something but i like the tgirls with attitude, makes it a lot of fun for me when they are in the sheets face down, ass up.

Kind of like "what you gotta say now" when i'm dicking them down. I love when they have a sharp tongue

hey but that's just me being a freak.

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Originally Posted by pipeahoe

I agree its just apart of the game...give em a good time and all tht shit flips:d

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True dat, :)

Dealing with t-girls different personalities can be an experience in itself. I think it's because they've been treated bad by some of us guys.I treat all girls in a gentlemanly way,even if they're initially rude as hell.Usually that "logic" tactic works,and their disposition improves.If it persists,hey then it's time for me to walk.

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Originally Posted by aplus82

Maybe its just me, but it seems like a lot of these girls have bad attitudes. I understand the nature of the business and all they guys they get harrassing them and all but there should still be some level of respect. Especially if its given. I recently called to top women from a eros ad and was nothing short of a gentlemen, but all I got was a slick ass answer. I really didn't take it to heart, but I now realize that these 2 lost a fan. Can anyone else relate? My bad if I sound disgruntel but we as consumers put these performers where they are and there is no need to be treated like shit.

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This is a growing epidemic in the industry. A lot of girls have a smart mouth and honestly there is nothing you can do about it. However, admirers can work together to show that it won't be tolerated and run these girls out of town through lack of business and effective reviews but that rarely works. The industry does cause some of the girls to feel a sense of entitlement to where they can talk to anyone however they feel - whether they are on the defensive through their own bad experiences or just plain being a diva about it.

A lot of girls take the biz as personal and dont treat it as a biz. Just because a couple of tricks ripped you off and some guys play on your phone, doesnt give the right to go off on guys who are genuinely trying to be polite or just new to the game and need some questions answered about the quality of your service. I watched dozens of girls go off on clients just because he may ask simple questions like "What City are you in" (i.e. yet the select girl has two ads up in two different cities w/o accurate dates) or "Do you currently look like your photos" (i.e. when select girls are using 2 year old photos BEFORE their cheeseburger rampage) . Valid questions I think. Some girls need to remember that this is a business and clients are to be treated with respect just like if you were working a regular job or running a mainstream business. Which is part of the problem also, but thats getting off subject....

There are more fish in the sea and there will be another thumbnail of another girl just under her ad. Keep it moving and give your attention to someone else who can act better and/or take their business a little more serious.

Good looking out dirtysouth! U pretty much understand what I was trying to say.

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Originally Posted by aplus82

Good looking out dirtysouth! U pretty much understand what I was trying to say.

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LOL I get that a lot. You're welcome playa.

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Originally Posted by dirtysouth

this is a growing epidemic in the industry. A lot of girls have a smart mouth and honestly there is nothing you can do about it. However, admirers can work together to show that it won't be tolerated and run these girls out of town through lack of business and effective reviews but that rarely works. The industry does cause some of the girls to feel a sense of entitlement to where they can talk to anyone however they feel - whether they are on the defensive through their own bad experiences or just plain being a diva about it.

A lot of girls take the biz as personal and dont treat it as a biz. Just because a couple of tricks ripped you off and some guys play on your phone, doesnt give the right to go off on guys who are genuinely trying to be polite or just new to the game and need some questions answered about the quality of your service. I watched dozens of girls go off on clients just because he may ask simple questions like "what city are you in" (i.e. Yet the select girl has two ads up in two different cities w/o accurate dates) or "do you currently look like your photos" (i.e. When select girls are using 2 year old photos before their cheeseburger rampage) . Valid questions i think. Some girls need to remember that this is a business and clients are to be treated with respect just like if you were working a regular job or running a mainstream business. Which is part of the problem also, but thats getting off subject....

There are more fish in the sea and there will be another thumbnail of another girl just under her ad. Keep it moving and give your attention to someone else who can act better and/or take their business a little more serious.

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this is the first time i agree with him!!!! But i mean...sometimes we have those bad days, where ppl are just calling and not showing!! And she was probably fed up!!

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

This is a growing epidemic in the industry. A lot of girls have a smart mouth and honestly there is nothing you can do about it. However, admirers can work together to show that it won't be tolerated and run these girls out of town through lack of business and effective reviews but that rarely works. The industry does cause some of the girls to feel a sense of entitlement to where they can talk to anyone however they feel - whether they are on the defensive through their own bad experiences or just plain being a diva about it.

A lot of girls take the biz as personal and dont treat it as a biz. Just because a couple of tricks ripped you off and some guys play on your phone, doesnt give the right to go off on guys who are genuinely trying to be polite or just new to the game and need some questions answered about the quality of your service. I watched dozens of girls go off on clients just because he may ask simple questions like "What City are you in" (i.e. yet the select girl has two ads up in two different cities w/o accurate dates) or "Do you currently look like your photos" (i.e. when select girls are using 2 year old photos BEFORE their cheeseburger rampage) . Valid questions I think. Some girls need to remember that this is a business and clients are to be treated with respect just like if you were working a regular job or running a mainstream business. Which is part of the problem also, but thats getting off subject....

There are more fish in the sea and there will be another thumbnail of another girl just under her ad. Keep it moving and give your attention to someone else who can act better and/or take their business a little more serious.

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I agree wholeheartedly. I also will give you this jewel... some dudes seem to LIKE that talk slick shit. I have talked to girls who were cool as hell with me but tell me they talk serious shit to some dudes (typically white according to them) who like being "abused" verbally. I don't get it but to each his own. If I get some slick talk I'm out or not coming.

I'm definetly sick of the bad attitudes.The fake pics ,and false promises.Its to the point now, where I'd just rather deal with one BTG that is attitude,and Diva free.It's sad to say.but Im getting to the point where I'd rather spend a lil extra,and deal with the white TG's.there spots are cleaner, they come to the door dressed in something sexy and heve on heels.and deliver what their ad says they provide.

TGirls with bad attitudes get no love from John Magnum. But i'll dick ya down to show you who's daddy.

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Originally Posted by andwar

I'm definetly sick of the bad attitudes.The fake pics ,and false promises.Its to the point now, where I'd just rather deal with one BTG taht is attitudeand Diva free.It's sad to say.but Im getting to the point where I'd rather spend a lil extra,and deal with the white TG's.there spots are cleaner, they come to the door dressed in something sexy and heve on heels.and deliver what their ad says they provide.

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That's always an option. Non-black TS are very stereotypical of black guys since most of the bruthas come at them sideways a lot of times. You may have to jump through some hoops, but I have heard far less stories of non-black TS ripping off clients. I think the bad attitude stuff is just with this current generation of black TS. It will change in the next few years if business continues to decrease as a result.

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Originally Posted by johnmagnum

TGirls with bad attitudes get no love from John Magnum. But i'll dick ya down to show you who's daddy.

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That's what's poppin. That's why I love the attitude,

I like them honies that have an edge to them, in the walk, talk, everything.:)

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Originally Posted by andwar

I'm definetly sick of the bad attitudes.The fake pics ,and false promises.Its to the point now, where I'd just rather deal with one BTG taht is attitudeand Diva free.It's sad to say.but Im getting to the point where I'd rather spend a lil extra,and deal with the white TG's.there spots are cleaner, they come to the door dressed in something sexy and heve on heels.and deliver what their ad says they provide.

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I'm already there but I'm not dealing with any right now. Attitude and recession do not go well together.:mad:

Most Tgirls have bad attitudes because they are men. No matter how good they they look they cany change that. I wish it was different but its a fact.

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Originally Posted by prince3030

Most Tgirls have bad attitudes because they are men. No matter how good they they look they cany change that. I wish it was different but its a fact.

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:confused: There is no context or explanation to this post. Even if we agree with your assertion (which anyone who believes in the nature of being "transgendered" would not), it still seems like faulty logic. Must men necessarily have bad attitudes?

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

:confused: There is no context or explanation to this post. Even if we agree with your assertion (which anyone who believes in the nature of being "transgendered" would not), it still seems like faulty logic. Must men necessarily have bad attitudes?

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LOL interesting. The Angry Black Man stigma could apply to TS after all. :p

i encounter some atitude with some of the escorts on the net..never with ones i meet in bars.occasionally on the stroll,but rare...the funny thing is when i call them eros/craigslist/backpage ones they always see my 504-n.o.l.a area code and assume im black when im hispanic...they sometimes ask this shit too....i cant believe racism between the oppressed at times....