why alot of guys won't admit they do this?
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why alot of guys won't admit they do this?
I dont see anything wrong with P4P for those that feel they need it.
I personally feel that sex is best with some emotion involved, otherwise my hand will do. :p So I don't see myself getting into P4P. Just the thought that the escort wants nothing to do with me and only talking to me because I paid her to would be going through my mind the entire time and ruin any potential fun.
And another philosophy is... You're not paying for the SEX itself, but instead to leave or for her to leave when the SEX is wrapped up. Payment is for the lack of attachment of any kind, beyond time spent F*ing.
Sho you're right Dr. and that philosophy can also be applied when pushing up on a GG too.Quote:
Originally Posted by DrDickenstein
The way I see it is your basically paying to have a fantasy with someone who you might not usually have a chance, would you pass up the chance to have sex with your favorite TG if she is know for P4P?
Cosigned. My boys know I trick off. I have cooled it down in the last 6 mos - 1 year but thats not due to shame in my game but rather me getting tired of all the bs that can be involved with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by DrDickenstein
My dear, late grandfather once told me to never think I was above the fray, meaning that I was no better than any one else. In a genre like t-girls and escorting, contemporarily, now the fetish goes hand in hand with paying for what for what you desire. In saying that I’m not above the fray, I started out in this wild, confusing foray by purchasing my sexual need just like men have been doing since Mary Magdalene accepted gratuity for biblical blow jobs!
I know a lot of girls, we’ve smoked a few blunts and sipped a little Crown, and as my hand came down, I knew I wanted the helmet polished, but as Tessio would say, “for old times sake”, I knew by the end of the day they were going to want something for their services rendered. Sometimes I got lucky, most times I didn’t! Pay for Play is the game; it’s all about the paper!
I can call myself a silver tongued motherfucker who could talk a turtle out of its shell, but reality tells me it’s not going to happen. Pay for play is forever! Even if it’s done by proxy; the “ducketts” must be handed over! T-girls do not have a benefit plan, ya gotta pay!
I’ve gotten enough free booty to count on all of my fingers and toes, but I’m not above the scrimmage to say I’m haven’t or not going to pay for what my little head desire! Shit, even Tiger Woods pays for playing through the ‘howay! We all can’t be Kilakali!:D
For all the dudes that hide behind their keyboards and brag that they don’t pay for play, well that’s easy for them to say that because they dwell in the shadowy world of cyber space, but the process could not subsist if money wasn’t the carrot that moves the donkey. For all the guys that are honest and live in the large urban areas, they long for the return of the strolls so they can drain their ATM accounts to get at those sparkling booties that sashay under the stars and street lights! As PT Barnum says, “Everybody pays!”
All the real playas keep a jar of Vaseline by their bedside, huh?
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normally I like to date as appose to P4P.but I havent been able to meet anyone with any chemistry, as well as other qaulities I like,So I have P4Ped till the point wher I'm so sick of the false promises of patients an a non rushed sessions, fake ass pics,unprofessional conduct,no sexy outfits or heels.and most of all bad attitudes,Oh lets not forget the Coke heads that get so paronoid, that they can't even lay still long enough to perform.Smoking cigs and doing drugs is a major turn off for me.
i refuse to pay. im sorry. idk whether it's pride, the fact that i pull ts ang gg all the time, maybe i just wanna keep my damn $250 LOL. But payin for ass just aint me.
I have no problem paying. If I take a girl to dinner have to play the whole phone games and non-sense that comes along with girls thats fine. However sometimes I dont want to deal with it, sometimes I would rather take a load off and then leave as if the whole thing never happened (until it does again.) In my mind im paying for the convenience of it being over, and not having to deal with the extra. I agree that the emotional connection is sometimes lost, but I don't know about you i dont go to the club to find my soul mate.
maybe you guys aren't in a" situation" at home... how does that TLC song go...so I creep! just keep it on the down low!:D