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10-27-2010, 02:36 PM
biffso

First Time Bottom

I am thinking of being a bottom for the first time. Does anyone have any advise on what I should do to prepare for a first timer? Thanks in advance.
10-27-2010, 06:44 PM
onone

LMAOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooo!
10-28-2010, 02:07 AM
carmencream

Start by giving yourself an enema,second try using a few toys like a butt plug or dildo,just to get yourself used to the sensation of something entering you ;)and most important use plenty of lube.I hope this helps XoXo Carmen Cream
10-28-2010, 03:01 AM
eclectic_co

Carmen,

Does your advice come as a fellow bottom, or as a dominant top?

:cool:

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

Start by giving yourself an enema,second try using a few toys like a butt plug or dildo,just to get yourself used to the sensation of something entering you ;)and most important use plenty of lube.I hope this helps XoXo Carmen Cream
10-28-2010, 04:04 AM
junintoiro

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

Start by giving yourself an enema,second try using a few toys like a butt plug or dildo,just to get yourself used to the sensation of something entering you ;)and most important use plenty of lube.I hope this helps XoXo Carmen Cream

1st time 15 no lube(don't think they made lube in those days, besides didn't know anything!!:confused:) couple times 19-21 yrs was okay. Age 38 forgot bout lube... hurt like hell 1/2 way in made im take it out!!!!

other than toys haven't tried since
10-28-2010, 04:27 AM
carmencream

Quote:

Originally Posted by eclectic_co

Carmen,

Does your advice come as a fellow bottom, or as a dominant top?

:cool:

Honestly,I am a Jack of all trades in the bedroom;) but my true passion lies with a nice oral freak,I'm the Carmensutra I can find pleasure in each role,and my advice comes as a good teacher!!!!!!!
10-28-2010, 05:56 AM
berto

As someone who has mainly been a bottom for quite some time now I definitely agree with previous suggestions, especially the lube.
10-28-2010, 11:14 AM
DYNACORD

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

Honestly,I am a Jack of all trades in the bedroom;) but my true passion lies with a nice oral freak,I'm the Carmensutra I can find pleasure in each role,and my advice comes as a good teacher!!!!!!!

I want to be the "Teachers' Pet". LMAO!
10-28-2010, 02:30 PM
carmencream

Quote:

Originally Posted by DYNACORD

I want to be the "Teachers' Pet". LMAO!

That's fine just make sure you bring an apple and lube I'll handle the rest ;)
10-28-2010, 02:32 PM
Sasha

Quote:

Originally Posted by biffso

I am thinking of being a bottom for the first time. Does anyone have any advise on what I should do to prepare for a first timer? Thanks in advance.

I so wanna join in this conversation ...u mos def my kinda guy;)..the best advice i can give to u is to be nsync with ur partner if u dont trust the person in u it will maybe just hurt and u may not like it at all! Also make sure he/she is experienced and knows how to take it easy on u in the begining which I call anal training after a few tries and maybe something I use now called anal ease u can find it online(soothes the lil pain pressure as its being inserted)
After a few tries with those helpful sources u will be good to go and maybe wanna continue to keep on doing it! I hoped this helped u and any more question feel free to ask....(p.s dont forget to anal dush got be clean try a fleet skinny enamma that should do the trick);)

Much Love
xoxoxo
Sasha Strokes
10-31-2010, 12:43 AM
DYNACORD

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

That's fine just make sure you bring an apple and lube I'll handle the rest ;)

YeeeeeHaaaaaa! Are you sure you can handle this baby? We may have to set up a TEST DRIVE.
10-31-2010, 02:32 AM
carmencream

Quote:

Originally Posted by DYNACORD

YeeeeeHaaaaaa! Are you sure you can handle this baby? We may have to set up a TEST DRIVE.

Don't test me babe, I can handle anything you can bring try me lol :p
10-31-2010, 06:56 AM
kanguru

The more I watch passable tgirls with very large meat, the more I want to bottom as well. Seeing aggressive tops like Natalia Coxx, Yasmin Lee, Jessica Host, Madison, and others make me salivate quite frankly. Oddly because when I started to watch this genre, I never would think I would have any interest in letting a penis near my asshole. It took me a few years to warm up to the idea, and now it's pretty much all I think about when I watch ts porn. It's to the point where I'd rather see them fuck a guy than watch them get fucked.

That's a major step in accepting my sexuality. I explained this to my gf and she doesn't really mind it. I like watching them fuck and I picture myself getting rammed. I don't even pay attention to the male in the scene lol.

I'm on the hunt for an escort in the first half of 2011 (Tax Return, FTW!) and I'm looking for a top mainly. I figure as long as I got some lube it's not that big of a deal. True, I should try toys first, but I'd rather go balls out (no pun intended) and just take it for the first time for real.
10-31-2010, 11:46 AM
cumshooter69

My advice would be to trust the person your with, use lots of lube and take it slow the first time. Also don't try going for a big 12 inch cock the first time. My first time was with someone with a 6 inch cock and it was amazing, I came buckets. Be safe and enjoy.
10-31-2010, 03:03 PM
DYNACORD

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

Don't test me babe, I can handle anything you can bring try me lol :p

LOL! I love a CHALLENGE! You need to send me a PM Miss and we shall see about that. :) :)
11-02-2010, 06:37 PM
biffso

If I don't want to take a enema would that still be alright? I am willing to douche to make sure it's all clean back there but the enema kind of freaks me out. Thank for everyone being so helpful.:)
11-03-2010, 10:32 AM
BlkMuscleTop

Quote:

Originally Posted by kanguru

The more I watch passable tgirls with very large meat, the more I want to bottom as well. Seeing aggressive tops like Natalia Coxx, Yasmin Lee, Jessica Host, Madison, and others make me salivate quite frankly. Oddly because when I started to watch this genre, I never would think I would have any interest in letting a penis near my asshole. It took me a few years to warm up to the idea.

ROFL, I was thinking the exact same thing dude

I'm someone who still prefers to be a dominant top, but I'm not as militant about it as I once was.

There was a time I wouldn't even fathom a notion of bottoming and still don't know if I could physically do it, if push came to shove, pun intended, :) but I find that I'm more accepting of those kind of scenes in transsexual videos now than I used to be.

Its like the more I was exposed to seeing it, it wasn't as big a taboo and boundary as it once was.

Strange how that shit works. Guess I've just become more open minded about the interactions as opposed to a rigid and firm idea when it comes to transsexuals.
11-03-2010, 02:31 PM
nycguy

Quote:

Originally Posted by biffso

If I don't want to take a enema would that still be alright? I am willing to douche to make sure it's all clean back there but the enema kind of freaks me out. Thank for everyone being so helpful.:)

Dude! do the enema. Nothing spoils a moment like unplanned pinga painting! :eek:
11-03-2010, 02:49 PM
Sasha

Quote:

Originally Posted by nycguy

Dude! do the enema. Nothing spoils a moment like unplanned pinga painting! :eek:

CLUTCHES BIBLE* AND STARES.... I call that the Boogieman! lmaoo:eek:
11-03-2010, 09:07 PM
DYNACORD

Quote:

Originally Posted by biffso

If I don't want to take a enema would that still be alright? I am willing to douche to make sure it's all clean back there but the enema kind of freaks me out. Thank for everyone being so helpful.:)

Man, the enema is a douche. It just takes a few minute and it wants to come back out. Use the bottle to rinse a few times and you're good to go play.
11-04-2010, 12:20 AM
carmencream

Check your box!!:p@Dynacord
11-04-2010, 11:23 PM
DYNACORD

Quote:

Originally Posted by carmencream

Check your box!!:p@Dynacord

I did baby. Now you need to check your box. LOL.
11-05-2010, 01:40 AM
Indy24

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sasha

I so wanna join in this conversation ...u mos def my kinda guy;)..the best advice i can give to u is to be nsync with ur partner if u dont trust the person in u it will maybe just hurt and u may not like it at all! Also make sure he/she is experienced and knows how to take it easy on u in the begining which I call anal training after a few tries and maybe something I use now called anal ease u can find it online(soothes the lil pain pressure as its being inserted)
After a few tries with those helpful sources u will be good to go and maybe wanna continue to keep on doing it! I hoped this helped u and any more question feel free to ask....(p.s dont forget to anal dush got be clean try a fleet skinny enamma that should do the trick);)

Much Love
xoxoxo
Sasha Strokes

Is it true that yall girls get together and laugh at the guys after you've f*cked them and sent them home? I guy who thinks he's king of all the tgirls told me that once!
11-05-2010, 01:45 AM
Indy24

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlkMuscleTop

ROFL, I was thinking the exact same thing dude

I'm someone who still prefers to be a dominant top, but I'm not as militant about it as I once was.

There was a time I wouldn't even fathom a notion of bottoming and still don't know if I could physically do it, if push came to shove, pun intended, :) but I find that I'm more accepting of those kind of scenes in transsexual videos now than I used to be.

Its like the more I was exposed to seeing it, it wasn't as big a taboo and boundary as it once was.

Strange how that shit works. Guess I've just become more open minded about the interactions as opposed to a rigid and firm idea when it comes to transsexuals.

Well what the hell are yall waiting for???

SMH at all this Tranny cock out here with no str8 trans-attracted mans ass for her to live in.

Adopt a tranny cock today!
11-05-2010, 04:50 PM
nycguy

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sasha

CLUTCHES BIBLE* AND STARES.... I call that the Boogieman! lmaoo:eek:

LMAO! I call that reason to bounce!
11-07-2010, 08:14 PM
anonymoussonny

Do not enter!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Indy24

Is it true that yall girls get together and laugh at the guys after you've f*cked them and sent them home? I guy who thinks he's king of all the tgirls told me that once!

I have had plenty of Tgirls state this and a few have even posted it on the web...

I never felt the compulsion to bottom for ANYTHING...and never will.