Crooked Po Po

ok i normally dont post a thread but today i had to ..there is this officer around my way who tries to use me like to u know have casual encounters yet he knows i have ads and stuff but i guess because he po po im suppose to feel scared . Well i dont want to be apart of the charade anymore so I make him aware of this and he sends me a msg stating well dont have anymore clients around your house because your being watch and I wont keep them from comming to get you any longer! I think thats so messed up how they use there authority to get easy passes...its so crooked what should I do?:confused:

I have no idea what kind of legal method you could use here. Maybe you could file a harassment complaint?

Boy, this is a deep situation. It has been well documented, historically; all over the country what public officials (namely and sadly, police officers) will do to get desired effects they want. Personally think this is a veiled threat (watching your place), with skewered consequences, because he is a law enforcement officer. He secretly desires you and the genre, but he’s playing the “down-low” aspect so he won’t get caught and face ridicule from his fellow officers, the public, his family and worst of all, the loss of his job!
More so, if you don’t comply, he’ll set you up; have his boys (the police), fabricate charges to get you busted with a threat of jail time, moreover get you killed! He’s already threatening you!
We’ve got a situation similar to yours in Detroit involving an official (Detroit’s ex-mayor, his wife and the police and the state’s AG) where a stripper was murdered because she gave the mayor a lap dance at a [party] at the mayoral mansion. Lifer cops were fired with damaging text messages between the mayor and his chief of staff, cronies indicted, cover-ups were everywhere; sexual liaisons were raised with the mayor fucking his chief of staff and a federal appointee, just a mess because of an alleged lap dance! http://www.freep.com/article/2010112...ul-lawyer-says
The stripper was allegedly beaten up by the mayor’s wife at the alleged party; allegedly taken to the hospital by police, who were allegedly at the party, had the investigation whitewashed, allegedly by the authorities, then killed in a drive by while sitting in her car six months later.
My point is, when dealing with public officials, be very careful, especially if you’re transgender, because in certain places the politics, will overwhelm you!
I suggest you, protect yourself at every angle; you didn’t want or force this relationship. So what if he says you’re an escort, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it for sex! Put the onus on him; he approached you, you’ve done nothing wrong!
• Play this officer off; go about your regular business (your everyday life) and document every encounter you have with this cop
• Come right out and tell him you’ll go to his superiors about his actions, in other words, make a report against him for harassment!
• Have a confidant(s) (a friend with observed evidence) to give necessary witness to all events with this guy; tell more than one person, namely your immediate family; you never can tell when you’re dealing with the government and its bureaucrats; remember: They have the resources to build a bullshit case and go beyond your word versus theirs
• Use Facebook or YouTube to document the harassment in case you are arrested on bogus charges by this guy (he already said he/they are watching you) or something [“skull-duggerous”] happens to you; once something goes on the internet it can get viral very quickly
• You’ve told us, sadly if anything happens to you (heaven forbid), WE know it, because it was recorded on this day, November 22, 2012
I’ll say it again, ignore the dude for as long as you possibly can; please don’t give in (unless you really want this encounter to happen, then its more than moot)!
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Good advice from TVSurfer. Tape the phone calls if you are in Maryland... say his name during the call. I believe Maryland law allows for taping of phone conversations without consent. Once taped, give the recording to one other person that this cop does not know for safe keeping and let them know if you get locked up or if anything else happens to you to release it on youtube and to the media. Let him know that if anything happens to you - scorched earth... you will have him taken down. Also let him know that if he leaves you be, the tape will never see the light of day. Then, pray because you are in a hell of a situation... no joke. Good luck girl, I'm praying for you to.

thnx you guys i dunno i mean at first it was ok u kno. Guys be like im fallin for you and they always want me to be there girlfriend..i cant be everyone girlfriend and lately dudes do me grimmie because of that like show up un annouced at my house cursing me out sumtimes drunk im like wtf now cause i wont be with this officer as his gf or w.e he says special friend he wants to black mail me. I use to think having people falling for you was a good thing now its getting outta hand and becoming a lil crazy to deal with .Im so scared and im a nice person i dont do drama and i just want to live my life I cant be everyones damn girlfriend..by the way this convo was done over yahoo msngr and im sure he:confused: would delete his user name!

Did you save the conversation? Even if he deletes the username it should still be traceable to him. Not to mention he probably uses that as his e-mail address for all sorts of business.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

Did you save the conversation? Even if he deletes the username it should still be traceable to him. Not to mention he probably uses that as his e-mail address for all sorts of business.

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i didnt save the convo but i told him i did and i will repor him iif sumthing happens so i mena i8m trying now
to get it all together just in case..

It's best to let as many people know as you can. I really hate people who abuse their power for personal reasons like that.

I would have to agree with what the other guys have stated but i know little about US law so i wouldnt be able to add to that angle. I will however propose a more risky option but one i believe might work but please be aware it is purely hypothetical.

Now, from what i have read we can assume this officer has got jealous and wants you for himself but only if your on the side. It sounds like he has a gf or wife at home and wants his relationship with you to be in complete secrecy. What you could try to do is drive him away by being an all round annoying girl and showing him anything he might be put off by or find unattractive. For example he seems to want you to be a girl on the side who he fucks with from time to time but this has to be on his terms so.. Why not ask for more. Tell him you want him all for yourself and you want him to stop playing the down low and treat you like his only girlfriend. Hopefully without too much effort he will grow tired of this and find next girl to fuck with.

If he goes for it then you should play but always ask to go out in to public where his friends or collegues might spot you together. Once your sure someone has seen you together then they need to be introduced to one your ads discreetly. As long as the ad appears in some kind of magazine or paper or via a seemingly spam type email (eg while i was in nyc a few years back there where ads in the back of free papers and even the onion paper) hopefully at this point the person(s) who see the ad put two and two together then mr officer should back off.

Now this a pure hypothetical as there areany things that could go wrong i mean the longer that charade went on the more likely it would be that he would retaliate upon his friends finding out.

I guess another but slightly immoral way of getting rid of the dude is to try and push him on to a girl you dont like. I mean from my read of this guy he seems like a guy who loves a transgendered woman as long as its on the dl and he gets his own way.

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Originally Posted by thepiedpiper

I would have to agree with what the other guys have stated but i know little about US law so i wouldnt be able to add to that angle. I will however propose a more risky option but one i believe might work but please be aware it is purely hypothetical.

Now, from what i have read we can assume this officer has got jealous and wants you for himself but only if your on the side. It sounds like he has a gf or wife at home and wants his relationship with you to be in complete secrecy. What you could try to do is drive him away by being an all round annoying girl and showing him anything he might be put off by or find unattractive. For example he seems to want you to be a girl on the side who he fucks with from time to time but this has to be on his terms so.. Why not ask for more. Tell him you want him all for yourself and you want him to stop playing the down low and treat you like his only girlfriend. Hopefully without too much effort he will grow tired of this and find next girl to fuck with.

If he goes for it then you should play but always ask to go out in to public where his friends or collegues might spot you together. Once your sure someone has seen you together then they need to be introduced to one your ads discreetly. As long as the ad appears in some kind of magazine or paper or via a seemingly spam type email (eg while i was in nyc a few years back there where ads in the back of free papers and even the onion paper) hopefully at this point the person(s) who see the ad put two and two together then mr officer should back off.

Now this a pure hypothetical as there areany things that could go wrong i mean the longer that charade went on the more likely it would be that he would retaliate upon his friends finding out.

I guess another but slightly immoral way of getting rid of the dude is to try and push him on to a girl you dont like. I mean from my read of this guy he seems like a guy who loves a transgendered woman as long as its on the dl and he gets his own way.

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I know you mean well PP, but the best thing for her to do is not to accommodate this guy! He’s a police officer; he’s sworn to uphold the law not to break it! What he’s trying to do with Sasha is subliminally blackmail her into some type of relationship that she obviously doesn’t want! That’s harassment! It would be bad enough if it came from a regular Joe, but this dude is a cop! He’s trying to use his authority as a police officer to get what he wants. She should just try to ignore this guy, don't fuck with him at all and move on; that way if he persists, she can proceed with legal means to get him to cease and give up! If she does all the right things afforded to her by legal means, she shouldn’t have a problem. But if she accommodates this dude, then he’ll get brave and push this shit further and then there is no telling what will happen! John Henrik Clarke, a noted black anthropologist says: “the best way to get someone off your back is to stand up!” As the 'Surf might say: If it ain't no shit, there won't be no shit! (please ignore the double negatives!;):rolleyes::D)
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Not to mention he's possibly unstable and could take this to a level that I'm sure no one wants it to go to if he feels like he's been toyed with.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

Not to mention he's possibly unstable and could take this to a level that I'm sure no one wants it to go to if he feels like he's been toyed with.

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Exactly. That's my concern.

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Originally Posted by Sasha

ok i normally dont post a thread but today i had to ..there is this officer around my way who tries to use me like to u know have casual encounters yet he knows i have ads and stuff but i guess because he po po im suppose to feel scared . Well i dont want to be apart of the charade anymore so I make him aware of this and he sends me a msg stating well dont have anymore clients around your house because your being watch and I wont keep them from comming to get you any longer! I think thats so messed up how they use there authority to get easy passes...its so crooked what should I do?:confused:

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Girl, please give me a call sometime today so I can get the T.

As others have stated this indeed is a serious and potentialy perilious
situation.

There have been alot of good ideas put forth, and if you're lucky the guy could
become attracted to someone else. Though I'm not entirely sure that this is
a matter of attraction, but rather his need to exercise power, or being able to
exert control over you.

Then too you could move away, and hope that solves the problem, which it
may or may not.

Another option may be to report the matter to the Internal Affairs division,
or the civilian review board of the police department.

However the harsh reality is that they may not be impartial or zealous in their
investigation. In that instance you may need to seek assistance from the
State Attorney General's office, possibly even the Federal Justice Department.
if the corruption is wide-spread through-out the department.

Posting it to Youtube is an option, and yes it could go viral. Or the evidence
that you have collected could be seized and with-held as part of an on-going
criminal, and perhaps civil matter if you should decide to go in that direction.

I also feel that it would be fairly easy to have it removed from Youtube, and
I don't get the sense that a "freedom of the press" argument would hold
much water with Youtube. Instead since you are in the DMV, leaking the
story to the Washington Post might be a more effective course of action.

The Washington Post or a paper of their stature has the investigative
jounalism wherewithal, the legal muscle, and as a bastion of the 4th estate,
they would not be stifled as they have First Amendment freedom of the
press protection.

You have three options Darling...

1 File a complaint with the Internal Affairs PD Unit. It is formally documented and he becomes the focus of the attention (which he will hate).
Bring all your supporting info, including a pic of the perp and find an officer that may work with Victims Advocates, Dating Violence or LGBT groups in the area.
or

2 Use your local LGBT community activist groups. Contact them for help and possible options.

or

3 You need to relocate to a more secure site. I would suggest you move to a place with security entrances, monitored entry, etc... Spend the coin if you can afford it. If you are going to entertain at your residence you have to provide yourself the best options to limit/control access.

As an aside, I think option 3 should be part of any future move... If you need some more precise info PM me.

WOW! Well, seeing as I grew up in Frank Millers inspiration for "Sin City" as did you I believe. I'm sure your aware how crazy things can get for you. I know some are saying don't try to find a happy medium, I respect that, and in a idyllic world that is the best advice. But, this deal is already sordid. Unless you plan on relocating, at which case nothing else in needed, you need to find a better way. From what you already wrote it's not like you and dude have not been intimate. You at least on some level tolerate a sexual relationship. If the only issue is his controlling ways, you need to address that specifically. He knows what you do for a living. If he wants a change the cost should come from him. If he is threatening to cut your client base, he needs to fill that financial need. Like you said, everybody can't be your boyfriend. The reasoning behind what I'm saying is frankly this, Yes everyone deserves justice and to be treated fairly under the law. But this isn't mom and pop trying to protect the corner market from Officer Dugans protection racket. This is more like "Clockers" when the cop was tipping dude off to raids. Your trying to protect your escort business that is illegal in the state your in. While two wrongs don't make a right, the second wrong can usually benefit from the first. No matter how right you are, your still consistently breaking the law witch makes this whole situation possible in the first place. You start playing hardball and I will tell you how he will see it. "This fucking prostitute who turns tricks right out of her house has the nerve to dictate shit to me! after all the times I could have busted her." That's when your clients start to get pulled over, you get set up, and arrested, and anything you say about him will be covered up as "part of the on-going investigation" You may put a wrinkle in his life, but he will put a big crease in yours. Now of course if your activities was legal! pay attention to nothing I just said. I'm not gonna say what you should do, but know all options before you move hun.

If it becomes too much you can always come to NY and stay wit me, I only have one rule. No more boyfriends!!!! :p;):D

I have taken all your guys advic into consideration and so far avoiding him has helped me the most! I am very touched and very apperciative on how guys took the time to write your adivce which wasnt two sentences you really gave my advice on this problem with links and similar issues im honor for that i have read them all and until this ends i will choose the ones i belivee may help this situation! Thank you so much really god bless and hope you have a had happy turkey day!

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he is going to rape your fagot ass

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anyway back 2 what matters! i can tell your account will be terminated soon lol

this is now getting outta hand for those who have bgc he has one of those to so he hits me up with this

Oh didn't know I was harrashing u damn ok well take care

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Previous message from: sasha_strokes -> alldatazz22
Sent @ 2010-11-28 06:55:59

stop harrasing me I told you I dont wanna chill wiht you or see you!

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Previous message from: alldatazz22 -> sasha_strokes
Sent @ 2010-11-28 06:54:48

Whts up when can we chill

than he sends me a yahoo msngr like this

luv_2sexu_69: Maybe u should chill somewhere else 2 day come back tomorrow



Can you will tell me what this is... because this was all said within the same 30 mins this morning.. this shit is totally getting outta hand!

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Originally Posted by Sasha

ok i normally dont post a thread but today i had to ..there is this officer around my way who tries to use me like to u know have casual encounters yet he knows i have ads and stuff but i guess because he po po im suppose to feel scared . Well i dont want to be apart of the charade anymore so I make him aware of this and he sends me a msg stating well dont have anymore clients around your house because your being watch and I wont keep them from comming to get you any longer! I think thats so messed up how they use there authority to get easy passes...its so crooked what should I do?:confused:

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fuck dat shit juss vid tape make copies let some one else hold it out side ur house. then let him know you'll not give to the police but to channel 5 news

1. Don't assume dude don't lurk/post here. Chances are if he on bgc and fux with btg's then he know about this ste.
2. Don't listen 2 these fools tellin u to record your convos with him. In md its a serious felony. U will lose, see: linda tripp.
3. Dude is a paper tiger. Hoez (not u...street walkers) get harrassed/threatened by these fake ass cops (not all) daily. Sex me 4 free or I will jail u is usually the offer. Most times these bammas aint bout it once u let it be known u will talk.
4. I will say what needs 2 be said. I knew u on some other, 9 to 5 career girl type shyt. The minute u decided to get into this game (adult porn biz) is the minute u said bye bye 2 a 'normal' life. This shyt brings all the crazies/stalkers out. Don't add fuel 2 the fire by blurring the lines between bizness and pleasure.

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

1. Don't assume dude don't lurk/post here. Chances are if he on bgc and fux with btg's then he know about this ste.
2. Don't listen 2 these fools tellin u to record your convos with him. In md its a serious felony. U will lose, see: linda tripp.
3. Dude is a paper tiger. Hoez (not u...street walkers) get harrassed/threatened by these fake ass cops (not all) daily. Sex me 4 free or I will jail u is usually the offer. Most times these bammas aint bout it once u let it be known u will talk.
4. I will say what needs 2 be said. I knew u on some other, 9 to 5 career girl type shyt. The minute u decided to get into this game (adult porn biz) is the minute u said bye bye 2 a 'normal' life. This shyt brings all the crazies/stalkers out. Don't add fuel 2 the fire by blurring the lines between bizness and pleasure.

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fuck goin to the pigs they goin to protect themselfs go to the news outlets the embressment or threat of embressment will put a end 2 the herassment
he's DL right? he has people in his life he dont want to know he go hard like this.

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Originally Posted by MrKnockOut

1. Don't assume dude don't lurk/post here. Chances are if he on bgc and fux with btg's then he know about this ste.
2. Don't listen 2 these fools tellin u to record your convos with him. In md its a serious felony. U will lose, see: linda tripp.
3. Dude is a paper tiger. Hoez (not u...street walkers) get harrassed/threatened by these fake ass cops (not all) daily. Sex me 4 free or I will jail u is usually the offer. Most times these bammas aint bout it once u let it be known u will talk.
4. I will say what needs 2 be said. I knew u on some other, 9 to 5 career girl type shyt. The minute u decided to get into this game (adult porn biz) is the minute u said bye bye 2 a 'normal' life. This shyt brings all the crazies/stalkers out. Don't add fuel 2 the fire by blurring the lines between bizness and pleasure.

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Im going back to the 9 to 5 its way more simple it wa sto help progress my transition but this is not worth it...Im better off just being who i am..This world is filled with dangerous and crazy people..Tha people online to see and i wont be a victim of there games anymore ..

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Im going back to the 9 to 5 its way more simple it wa sto help progress my transition but this is not worth it...Im better off just being who i am..This world is filled with dangerous and crazy people..Tha people online to see and i wont be a victim of there games anymore ..

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Sounds like the best available option. And with the least hassle to it. Maybe you're too nice for this kind of thing anyway y'know?

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

Sounds like the best available option. And with the least hassle to it. Maybe you're too nice for this kind of thing anyway y'know?

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Im not saying this to shit on the girls who have 2 do this stuff or choose 2 do this stuff for a living but shorty is one of the realest most genuine and intelligent chicks I have come across, regardless of gender. I don't know if 'too nice' is the right saying, I think its more 'too talented' to get caught up in this ultimately very messy game. Sasha has the potential to go far and do great things outside of porn and escorting. Coming from me, that's saying a lot cuz I don't really fuck with a lot of these chicks from a quality of life standpoint. Maybe she needed 2 walk down this path in order 4 her to see its not the path for her.

I'll second that. Sometimes you gotta go the wrong way to find the right one. Something one often does on the streets of New York...

Hello! prostitution is illegal, Lets keep it real. School safety is hiring go downtown and take the test.

We covered that. Thanks though.