I need your advice seriously!!

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But I seriously need you guys opinion. Personally I enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" I mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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OK i was just making sure because i dont attend to ignore people but i feel if i dont have nothing good to say i wont say nothing at all and sometimes thats what i do i ignore it! But yes that is how they start the conversation 'give me that black cock" or come suck me off..when i say plz respect me i get o shut up cause your a hore..im like wow

I've seen things like that before. People get deluded about things because a person does porn. I don't quite understand it myself. Do they also expect MMA fighters and Boxers to beat the ever loving shit out of them? I can't say.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I don't think so personally. I mean you have a right to be addressed with a certain amount of respect. And as long as you let them know that without being disrespectful initially then you're not being a bitch. However if they begin to address you as such then frankly you have the freedom to act as one. Give the people what they expect.

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I have to disagree to a point. The respect she is asking for should be a GIVEN. All these guys grew up with family no matter how big or small, and we are all taught to respect a person until they give you a reason not to.

Now listen all these clowns need their asses kicked. People try to get away with saying anything they can because this is an electronic ago. There is no accountability for they way they talk. If its a matter of trying to get laid, even the drunkest asshole in a club comes across better than that. And if they cant do that maybe they need a wake up call as to who THEY are calling.

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic..

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I agree that dudes should show some respect. Calling someone names because you didn't get what you want is pathetic.

I'm sure some people don't see you as the real person you are, just the personality you portray in porn or uStream. People see you doing and talking about things they want to do and they want to be a part of that so badly they don't see that you have things in common with everyone else.

Not a whole lot you can do about that. Ask a celebrity.

Even if you make other types of videos, dudes are going to see what they want to see, act how they wanna act, and want what they're gonna want.

That ass.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

I've seen things like that before. People get deluded about things because a person does porn. I don't quite understand it myself. Do they also expect MMA fighters and Boxers to beat the ever loving shit out of them? I can't say.

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lmao my point exactly...That dont understand porn is acting..no one lives like that on a daily basis its kinda crazy to me Ill say..

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Originally Posted by BigJoeKrash

I have to disagree to a point. The respect she is asking for should be a GIVEN. All these guys grew up with family no matter how big or small, and we are all taught to respect a person until they give you a reason not to.

Now listen all these clowns need their asses kicked. People try to get away with saying anything they can because this is an electronic ago. There is no accountability for they way they talk. If its a matter of trying to get laid, even the drunkest asshole in a club comes across better than that. And if they cant do that maybe they need a wake up call as to who THEY are calling.

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yeah i think that was what he was saying lol but yeah i agree with you both its sad cause i get alot of people hitting me up on facebook and twitter but some people get out of line and when i say no to something i dont like my pet peeve word is "why" if i say no i should have a right to that why to them is a excuse to the reason i should say yes instead of no... people can be a ass sometimes and u suppose to feel like its just the net but when your phone and other information comes into the matter its no longer just the net! Its personally business is personal my opinion.:confused:

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Originally Posted by jayveach

I agree that dudes should show some respect. Calling someone names because you didn't get what you want is pathetic.

I'm sure some people don't see you as the real person you are, just the personality you portray in porn or uStream. People see you doing and talking about things they want to do and they want to be a part of that so badly they don't see that you have things in common with everyone else.

Not a whole lot you can do about that. Ask a celebrity.

Even if you make other types of videos, dudes are going to see what they want to see, act how they wanna act, and want what they're gonna want.

That ass.

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right like i do videos about topics dealing with the transgender community and people will say foul stuff like show ur ass let me se ur tits mad random totally off the topic i can pull up a video on it and it hurt that people can be cruel to only have one purpose towards you i am human.ya kno

apparent rejection is a bitch. Best to just ignore it. Some people just wont be able to deal.

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Originally Posted by Sasha

right like i do videos about topics dealing with the transgender community and people will say foul stuff like show ur ass let me se ur tits mad random totally off the topic i can pull up a video on it and it hurt that people can be cruel to only have one purpose towards you i am human.ya kno

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Think about this.

So you're hungry as hell at KFC and a cashier starts talking about the struggle a chicken goes through that is born and raised on a chicken farm, kept a 1 x 1 box in it's own shit, physically abused, scalded in hot water while still alive, and then slaughtered?

"Uhhhh.... Bitch, could ya shut up and give me a two piece with corn on the cob and a Sierre Mist."

I'm not comparing TGs to chickens, what I'm saying is that struggles in the TG community are about as foreign to 'a horny man with a dick in his hand' as the struggles of a chicken are to a hungry man.

Dude don't give a fuuuucccc.

This fool is not involved in the TG community, doesn't think about it, doesn't care about it. He just cares about the byproduct, shemale porn.

...I'm not absolving myself, I don't know the struggles of TGs. Fortunately, I've met numerous transsexual men and women in non-sexual situations (even the ones that escort) over the past 15 years and have found them to be some of the coolest people I have ever met, so they have my utmost respect.

Without that experience, I might be the same way.

What you have to do is become knowledgeable enough about people's ignorance to learn how to recognize it. Some people truly don't know that they are stupid, especially when they have some financial success and think that makes them smart.

From there you can choose to educate the fool or ignore him. You'll find that some of the time, ignoring the fool is your best option.

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Originally Posted by bxboy1984

apparent rejection is a bitch. Best to just ignore it. Some people just wont be able to deal.

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That's right..

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Originally Posted by jayveach

Think about this.

So you're hungry as hell at KFC and a cashier starts talking about the struggle a chicken goes through that is born and raised on a chicken farm, kept a 1 x 1 box in it's own shit, physically abused, scalded in hot water while still alive, and then slaughtered?

"Uhhhh.... Bitch, could ya shut up and give me a two piece with corn on the cob and a Sierre Mist."

I'm not comparing TGs to chickens, what I'm saying is that struggles in the TG community are about as foreign to 'a horny man with a dick in his hand' as the struggles of a chicken are to a hungry man.

Dude don't give a fuuuucccc.

This fool is not involved in the TG community, doesn't think about it, doesn't care about it. He just cares about the byproduct, shemale porn.

...I'm not absolving myself, I don't know the struggles of TGs. Fortunately, I've met numerous transsexual men and women in non-sexual situations (even the ones that escort) over the past 15 years and have found them to be some of the coolest people I have ever met, so they have my utmost respect.

Without that experience, I might be the same way.

What you have to do is become knowledgeable enough about people's ignorance to learn how to recognize it. Some people truly don't know that they are stupid, especially when they have some financial success and think that makes them smart.

From there you can choose to educate the fool or ignore him. You'll find that some of the time, ignoring the fool is your best option.

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i feel you 100% but my videos are for the lgbt community in general but men so happen to search my name and they assume that im going to bring free porn to youtube and its not happening.. Also they believe if they subscribe to my page i have to do what they say and if I dont they want to write bad comments and dis like my videos when personally they were not for them... and dont talk about food u got me all hungry now lol

The long and short of it is, the internet is filled with stupid people. The only way to escape it is to stay off of the internet. The only thing you can really do is deal with the situations as they arise. The true fans will know what kind of person you are and they're the ones that will stick with you whether you give them blow jobs or not.

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

The long and short of it is, the internet is filled with stupid people. The only way to escape it is to stay off of the internet. The only thing you can really do is deal with the situations as they arise. The true fans will know what kind of person you are and they're the ones that will stick with you whether you give them blow jobs or not.

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lmaaaaaaaaaaao your fucking silly... even tho your right lol but i think its the other way around most of the time!

Sis most of the ones calling, commenting and stalking will not be members anyway... I have realized most of the men u show no attention to will be your highest paying members... The ones that live far away and dont want to know you just watch you are the ones who will sign up for a year membership and so forth... The ones calling and making u feel beautiful or even talking crazy are not members and are not looking to be unless ur memberships are 1.99 and thats a little to cheap for my taste anyway!! Take it from me.... Forget those lames and focus on your money the real money!!! All of the ones saying they love u this and that will be nowhere to be found when its time to pay you!! Dont get me wrong i love my fans i love fucking.... Im a damn nympho but over all i love money.. Thats why we a re doing this... I could care less about the comments... The $$$$$ is what keeps my bills paid!

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Originally Posted by sasha

hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But i seriously need you guys opinion. Personally i enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" i mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

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Put very nicely!! Kiss

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Originally Posted by cosmictraveler

the long and short of it is, the internet is filled with stupid people. The only way to escape it is to stay off of the internet. The only thing you can really do is deal with the situations as they arise. The true fans will know what kind of person you are and they're the ones that will stick with you whether you give them blow jobs or not.

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

Sis most of the ones calling, commenting and stalking will not be members anyway... I have realized most of the men u show no attention to will be your highest paying members... The ones that live far away and dont want to know you just watch you are the ones who will sign up for a year membership and so forth... The ones calling and making u feel beautiful or even talking crazy are not members and are not looking to be unless ur memberships are 1.99 and thats a little to cheap for my taste anyway!! Take it from me.... Forget those lames and focus on your money the real money!!! All of the ones saying they love u this and that will be nowhere to be found when its time to pay you!! Dont get me wrong i love my fans i love fucking.... Im a damn nympho but over all i love money.. Thats why we a re doing this... I could care less about the comments... The $$$$$ is what keeps my bills paid!

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That kind of honesty is exactly why I would give you my butt.

And also, thank you for your compliment. n_n

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

Sis most of the ones calling, commenting and stalking will not be members anyway... I have realized most of the men u show no attention to will be your highest paying members... The ones that live far away and dont want to know you just watch you are the ones who will sign up for a year membership and so forth... The ones calling and making u feel beautiful or even talking crazy are not members and are not looking to be unless ur memberships are 1.99 and thats a little to cheap for my taste anyway!! Take it from me.... Forget those lames and focus on your money the real money!!! All of the ones saying they love u this and that will be nowhere to be found when its time to pay you!! Dont get me wrong i love my fans i love fucking.... Im a damn nympho but over all i love money.. Thats why we a re doing this... I could care less about the comments... The $$$$$ is what keeps my bills paid!

Luxury d signing out

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I feel you sis... I just hate when there is tension all the time when i enter a website ya know.. But i agree half and half i guess cause i have wonderful people in my life that say wonderful things and look out for me on a personal leve..well maybe because its off the net... lol i dunno its all confusing i feel.. Im just trying to get everyones point of view on so when i show my action people are not shaking their head saying there goes another stuck up bitch ya feel me??

Well, I have to agree with Jay for the most part...when you are a pornstar/escort and every vid/pic ppl see you in you're engaged in some kinda wild sex act, well, that's how ppl are gonna perceive you...its not always right, but hey, most guys/girls come to these sites to fill their own sexual urges. I guess that's the downside of doing porn/being an escort/stripper etc. It's not always right but you can't really get upset if they come at you like that.

It no different than being a gangsta rapper...most of these guys talk about killing ppl, being big time 'Drug Lords' and shooting Rap vids with a bunch of money, girls and cars that usually don't even beling to them. But the average Rap fan don't know that, so they just buy into the illusions and think 'X' rapper is really balling like that.

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Originally Posted by qcutta

Well, I have to agree with Jay for the most part...when you are a pornstar/escort and every vid/pic ppl see you in you're engaged in some kinda wild sex act, well, that's how ppl are gonna perceive you...its not always right, but hey, most guys/girls come to these sites to fill their own sexual urges. I guess that's the downside of doing porn/being an escort/stripper etc. It's not always right but you can't really get upset if they come at you like that.

It no different than being a gangsta rapper...most of these guys talk about killing ppl, being big time 'Drug Lords' and shooting Rap vids with a bunch of money, girls and cars that usually don't even beling to them. But the average Rap fan don't know that, so they just buy into the illusions and think 'X' rapper is really balling like that.

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what most guys fail to realize is THIS IS A FANTASY.what we do on this website and when/if we escort is to fulfill a fantasy for you guys and in return we are compensated.the things we do in the sex industry isnt indicative of our actual lives.i can promise you that on my spare time im not running around sucking as many dicks as possible lol.i have a boyfriend,family,friends,hobbies,goals,and etc...basically a life.its is never appropriate for a guy to approach me outside of this world (like on the street or at a store) and say something like "i really liked your last video" or "i heard you suck good dick".i would never approach a client like that.you guys want some kind of discretion and respect for your personal life right? how about showing us the same measure of respect...

While I get all the other stuff and what you're saying. You really wouldn't want a guy to praise your work on a casual basis?

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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler

While I get all the other stuff and what you're saying. You really wouldn't want a guy to praise your work on a casual basis?

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no,i dont appreciate guys approaching on the street in regards to porn or escorting

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But I seriously need you guys opinion. Personally I enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" I mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

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............................................All I do is chase.

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............................................All I do is chase.

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Sometimes I feel like you might be taking the right course of action...

LOL @ "i heard you suck good dick"

Many-a-girl has heard that one whether she does porn or not.

If you dont already maybe yoy should get a seperate buisness/personal phone and email.
And dont feel bad all pornstars go through this weather u ts or gg. I remember pinky talking about this before. Imagine beyonce gave out her number, same thing would happen. u just gotta seperate buisness and personal. Honestly it seems to me more ts performers (not u specifically) than gg treat fans like friends instead of keeping it buisness.

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

what most guys fail to realize is THIS IS A FANTASY.what we do on this website and when/if we escort is to fulfill a fantasy for you guys and in return we are compensated.the things we do in the sex industry isnt indicative of our actual lives.i can promise you that on my spare time im not running around sucking as many dicks as possible lol.i have a boyfriend,family,friends,hobbies,goals,and etc...basically a life.its is never appropriate for a guy to approach me outside of this world (like on the street or at a store) and say something like "i really liked your last video" or "i heard you suck good dick".i would never approach a client like that.you guys want some kind of discretion and respect for your personal life right? how about showing us the same measure of respect...

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Like I've said before, that's just the downside of working in the sex biz...I outta know b/c I used to date a few Strippers (GG) when I was Djing a lot..and believe me, there's nothing worse than having random guys running up to the chick you're seeing talking about how they got down with them at the club the other night or talking about planning to see them later on or planning private parties with them...

But I couldn't do anything about it for the most part...why? Because that's how they make their $$$$$$$!!! And its probably should be the same for you b/c that guy who walked up to you in the streetz will probably spend $$$ on you or your website later on...if you're rude and ignorant to your so called clients and fans, then they won't go to your site/see you anymore.

I believe that was Sasha's primary concern. Trying to find a way to deal with these types of people without losing customers.

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Originally Posted by qcutta

Like I've said before, that's just the downside of working in the sex biz...I outta know b/c I used to date a few Strippers (GG) when I was Djing a lot..and believe me, there's nothing worse than having random guys running up to the chick you're seeing talking about how they got down with them at the club the other night or talking about planning to see them later on or planning private parties with them...

But I couldn't do anything about it for the most part...why? Because that's how they make their $$$$$$$!!! And its probably should be the same for you b/c that guy who walked up to you in the streetz will probably spend $$$ on you or your website later on...if you're rude and ignorant to your so called clients and fans, then they won't go to your site/see you anymore.

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the few people who know me off this forum knows that im never rude or ignorant.the type of (regular) clients i have understand and respect my need for privacy because i respect theirs.
the more i grow in this industry (and as a person) the more professional i try to conduct myself.im still the cool ass girl from around the way whos always down to have a few drinks and chill (for those who know me as that) but at the same time im not the same girl who use to hang out all night on the stroll lol.my life no longer just consists of escorting and dick.i guess what im trying to say is all this is just a means to an end for me,not a life style.im working on establishing a life and identity outside of the "industry".its hard to do that if i always have guys encroaching on that life.

You got the attitude of a typical black tranny the way you lashed out at me for no reason.

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Originally Posted by DarylWashington

You got the attitude of a typical black tranny the way you lashed out at me for no reason.

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first of all dont confuse lashing out with being opinionated.im a very opinionated girl,everyone knows that.
secondly dont address me as if you know me.
lastly i "lashed out" at you because of your racist views about black transsexual women.why dont you share some of your views about the black transsexual like you did on hangangels and see how many people will lash out at you too!

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

first of all dont confuse lashing out with being opinionated.im a very opinionated girl,everyone knows that.
secondly dont address me as if you know me.
lastly i "lashed out" at you because of your racist views about black transsexual women.why dont you share some of your views about the black transsexual like you did on hangangels and see how many people will lash out at you too!

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You know how if you give a homeless person change once, they'll keep asking? That's how he is with responses.

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first of all dont confuse lashing out with being opinionated.im a very opinionated girl,everyone knows that.
secondly dont address me as if you know me.
lastly i "lashed out" at you because of your racist views about black transsexual women.why dont you share some of your views about the black transsexual like you did on hangangels and see how many people will lash out at you too!

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Lol talking to the author!!!!

Being in the adult biz is very hard Sasha....i have a few friends in the game and the stuff that i hear, and see that dudes be saying is fuuuuuuuuucked up. i have one friend that retired from the game....doin her thing, workin for the airlines, traveling alot, enjoying her life after porn. well it took a drunk mothafukah on the plane to make her lose her job, that she was so happy with. she told the dude, she's working and that she will talk with him when they get off the plane.....but nah this dude wanted to talk now...he starts shouting about her porn career, calling her all types of names.....it got back to the boss(porn name and all)...he googled her.....and her boss let her go.SMH

its fucked up...but you gotta be careful out here. i know stars wanna blend in with regular folks, but you got too many azzholes out here, that will try to fucc ya whole shyt up!

Keep it movin how you movin tho Sasha!

but what im really sayin is uuuuhhhh....you got 5 dollas i can borrow???lmaooo

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Originally Posted by Sasha

Hello everyone im not really the topic starter on this site i kinda just find my way on a hot topic.. But I seriously need you guys opinion. Personally I enjoy being a pornstar well known and i understand people will behave a certain way at times.. But i believe time and place for everything i have a personal phone and email for all people who admire my work but the way people talk to me and speak to me can be out of line... Than when i dont respond the way they want to im ugly im not all that im just another "black tranny" I mean who do i suppose to respond i cant always have an answer to will u cum in my ass raw or can i have a orgy with you a 3 other of your girlfriends..but that is not even the half..when i say im into that verbal or even if there serious just not me period "why is it that they come at me in a rude disrespectful manner am i being a bitch for not want to respond to this behavior? I just want to know because im going to have my hardcore site soona dont want to lose members because im not hearing them out..plz help guys and gals thank you!

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You need better armor.....

If said fan jerked off to any of your past work, then you don't owe him shit.

Being bothered by disrespect tends to be costly since it's you that's "paying" attention to begin with.