Bait & Switch

For my dudes who see escorts from online, do you guys ever worry about getting taken by women who bait & switch dudes? Part of the reason I can't see myself doing the whole escort thing is I would be too afraid of a broad trying to do a sucka move on me.
Has this ever happened to you? You've seen a bad ass girl online, pics look top notch, you call to set up a meeting and when you finally get to the room/spot/house expecting Halle Berry & out jumps Fred ReRun Berry (r.I.p) in a wig. How did you deal with it? Took the loss, confronted her, or just walked away?

Lmao, Rerun in a wig! I can see where you're coming from though. I actually had that happen to me with the first TS I was with. Pics weren't her at all. But I stuck around. It wasn't that great of a time, but I wasn't paying so it was whatever. She did ask for money though. ( Spoiler alert; she didn't get it. )

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Originally Posted by raheme

For my dudes who see escorts from online, do you guys ever worry about getting taken by women who bait & switch dudes? Part of the reason I can't see myself doing the whole escort thing is I would be too afraid of a broad trying to do a sucka move on me.
Has this ever happened to you? You've seen a bad ass girl online, pics look top notch, you call to set up a meeting and when you finally get to the room/spot/house expecting Halle Berry & out jumps Fred ReRun Berry (r.I.p) in a wig. How did you deal with it? Took the loss, confronted her, or just walked away?

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I walk away....just did that this past friday...girl swore she was a dime piece....turned out to have a gut with razor shadow!

Yuk!!!

I had one broad not let me out of her gated garage...but eventually somebody was leaving and I got to leave.

I am not violent, but do not have a problem putting my fist into somebody's face to get out of a situation.

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Originally Posted by johnmagnum

I walk away....just did that this past friday...girl swore she was a dime piece....turned out to have a gut with razor shadow!

Yuk!!!

I had one broad not let me out of her gated garage...but eventually somebody was leaving and I got to leave.

I am not violent, but do not have a problem putting my fist into somebody's face to get out of a situation.

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She didn't let you leave, WTF? That sounds crazy.

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Originally Posted by johnmagnum

I walk away....just did that this past friday...girl swore she was a dime piece....turned out to have a gut with razor shadow!

Yuk!!!

I had one broad not let me out of her gated garage...but eventually somebody was leaving and I got to leave.

I am not violent, but do not have a problem putting my fist into somebody's face to get out of a situation.

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Was this in Chicago?

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Originally Posted by raheme

For my dudes who see escorts from online, do you guys ever worry about getting taken by women who bait & switch dudes? Part of the reason I can't see myself doing the whole escort thing is I would be too afraid of a broad trying to do a sucka move on me.
Has this ever happened to you? You've seen a bad ass girl online, pics look top notch, you call to set up a meeting and when you finally get to the room/spot/house expecting Halle Berry & out jumps Fred ReRun Berry (r.I.p) in a wig. How did you deal with it? Took the loss, confronted her, or just walked away?

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Trade secret ... walk in gangsta-talking loud into your cellular with some imaginary homie ... "yo, I'm in, a'ight my nigga circle the block some while I bust a nut, keep ya head down for the po po a'ight ... blah blah blah"

Of course, no use pulling this stunt if you look like what David Bowie fluffed out of his teeth last night.

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Originally Posted by blk_jnd

Trade secret ... walk in gangsta-talking loud into your cellular with some imaginary homie ... "yo, I'm in, a'ight my nigga circle the block some while I bust a nut, keep ya head down for the po po a'ight ... blah blah blah"

Of course, no use pulling this stunt if you look like what David Bowie fluffed out of his teeth last night.

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Ooh hell no! I refuse to see guys who are ghetto/ignorant.you wouldn't make it past the first phone call

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Ooh hell no! I refuse to see guys who are ghetto/ignorant.you wouldn't make it past the first phone call

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Amen, even if he made it through the interview if he came in with a attitude I'd promptly show him the door. That's how trouble starts when guy's come in with a attitude ,they usually start the ball rolling for bad service:( and you know what they say about once you get the ball rolling.

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Originally Posted by carmencream

Amen, even if he made it through the interview if he came in with a attitude I'd promptly show him the door. That's how trouble starts when guy's come in with a attitude ,they usually start the ball rolling for bad service:( and you know what they say about once you get the ball rolling.

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LOL i think that was his point. If she bait and switched he'd play out that role LMAO

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Originally Posted by werwt22

LOL i think that was his point. If she bait and switched he'd play out that role LMAO

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Even if that was his point some guys try this method, and you know as well as everyone else,some of these girls are some straight up thugs and don't scare easily.I say if you don't like what you see when she opens the door leave simple as that,and avoid someone getting hurt.:cool:

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Ooh hell no! I refuse to see guys who are ghetto/ignorant.you wouldn't make it past the first phone call

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Originally Posted by carmencream

Amen, even if he made it through the interview if he came in with a attitude I'd promptly show him the door. That's how trouble starts when guy's come in with a attitude ,they usually start the ball rolling for bad service:( and you know what they say about once you get the ball rolling.

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Originally Posted by carmencream

Even if that was his point some guys try this method, and you know as well as everyone else,some of these girls are some straight up thugs and don't scare easily.I say if you don't like what you see when she opens the door leave simple as that,and avoid someone getting hurt.:cool:

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I see were the ladies are coming from on this. But neither one of them have to pull a bait and switch.

But never worry about the loud ones. Its the quiet ones you have to worry about...lol

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

Was this in Chicago?

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Yes.

Sent you a message too

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Originally Posted by FlacoPro

She didn't let you leave, WTF? That sounds crazy.

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She did not. This was last year...girl swapped pictures on me. When I got into the gated area the gate closed by then. When I got out of my car and saw her I was like woah "im not gonna be able to do it" totally not my type! some drunk in a wig.

I walked back to my car while she cursed me out. I just sat in the car and waited because I knew eventually somebody would leave.

Best thing to do if you get in a bait and switch situation is to remain calm, focus on the inaccurate picture and leave asap. Dont F'n stay around for convo!

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Originally Posted by werwt22

LOL i think that was his point. If she bait and switched he'd play out that role LMAO

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Amen. In some b&sw situations I've heard you would not even be allowed to leave without "dropping some compensation" as she has just "refused several other bookings" just to see you.

What happened to me was not the classic b&sw but this nice enough looking mami took my money then fumbled around looking for condoms. Couldn't find them so would I settle for a wank. Hell no, I came to dip in some warm moist hole, and I cudda done the same with my own calloused hands? "And no refunds ya know", said with some confidence because we could both hear some rustling in the next room.

I pulled my stunt and it seems whatever gorilla in the other room got wiser and settled down. I got my coins back ponto.

Not for everyone I know.

Damn man. After reading several responses y'all validated why I don't get down with the whole escort thing. Not on some moral high and mighty shit, I just know the kind of dude I am. I don't go for the sucka shit. I'm a nice guy but I do have a short fuse. Don't try to play me like that. And since I know most of the chicks that do the whole b&sw move are borderline dudes, I know id probably have to fuck somebody up for trying to take my bread or con me.

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Originally Posted by raheme

Damn man. After reading several responses y'all validated why I don't get down with the whole escort thing. Not on some moral high and mighty shit, I just know the kind of dude I am. I don't go for the sucka shit. I'm a nice guy but I do have a short fuse. Don't try to play me like that. And since I know most of the chicks that do the whole b&sw move are borderline dudes, I know id probably have to fuck somebody up for trying to take my bread or con me.

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Whachoo gonna talk about in that old people's home then? The rest of us will receive personal baths from the nurses each day just to hear our stories:D.

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Originally Posted by raheme

Damn man. After reading several responses y'all validated why I don't get down with the whole escort thing. Not on some moral high and mighty shit, I just know the kind of dude I am. I don't go for the sucka shit. I'm a nice guy but I do have a short fuse. Don't try to play me like that. And since I know most of the chicks that do the whole b&sw move are borderline dudes, I know id probably have to fuck somebody up for trying to take my bread or con me.

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Aw dude, stop livin in fear. Most girls aint scammin.

Not sure where you see these ads where such a high percentage is bait and switch, in all my years of screwing around my pecentage of shenanigans is well below 20% and most of them are avoided by the advice you were given: if door opens and it looks wrong turn on your heels without explanation and walk.

The other simple piece of advice to avoid BS: don't go into private apartments or houses in ghetto neighborhoods. They think they got you on their turf.

A girl at a reputable hotel, especially if she's from out of town, has more to lose then you. So you stand at the door size her up if you don't like it, if your spidey sense kicks in just walk.

A lot of good responses here. But I'll add this. If the trannie pulling the bait and switch is a crackhead, you might have to fight your way out. They wont let you just walk away without giving them something and if you refuse, be ready to throw blows. I dealt with that once before and have heard several stories like that from others. I was basically assulted so I had to defend myself. After that, I started making them come to me. On my turf. My rules. If they show up and its not who I thought I spoke to, I aint gotta let them in. But since I've been doing it that way, every girl thats come to my place was legit. I really dont think they try the b&s on outcalls. If thats what they were really up to, they wouldnt bother showing up. They would wait until they get someone to come see them.

the morale of the story is bring protection....... cus you never know