Frustrated

So I'm beginning to hate that I ever started liking TS girls. I consider myself a str8 man, because all my life I've only dated women and many years ago I was attracted to a big titty blonde white girl who use to always buy weed from me. But every time I went to her house to make a delivery, she was always dressed in a bra n panties set. I had no idea she was a TS til I tried to fuck her and she was upfront with me b4 she agreed to get down. Since then if I happened to try and talk to what I thought was a female and turned out to be a TS, I was down. Over time all I've done is run into games with TS girls yet I still try?
WHY?
WHY?
WHY?
I dont have probs with real women, but why do I have them with TS women? And it seems like the more I have probs, the more it frustrates me, but yet I still try. I wish I could snap out of this fetish but I just cant.
WHY?
WHY?
WHY?

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bro what type of games are they playing' what type of girls are you fucking with

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Originally Posted by carmencream

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ok....and that means what?

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Originally Posted by BlackBeard757

ok....and that means what?

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Simply to look at yourself and see what type of energy your putting out that makes you attract girls who are basically no good for you. before you question others,goodluck.

Whenever a man uses the word fetish I know what it is

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Whenever a man uses the word fetish I know what it is

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Ta daaaaa!!!!!!! bells and whistles !!!!!! I was trying to keep it cute lol.

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Originally Posted by james7

bro what type of games are they playing' what type of girls are you fucking with

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1. Always asking for money but yet they claim they not tricks. I dont pay to play.
2. Get you over just to smoke yo weed then always got something to do when it's gone
3. Invite you over, then next thing u know, it's a house full of other ppl there too, bu they claimed they wanted to spend time with you
4. Get mad if they see you logged into a chat site, but yet they up there too
5. Get mad if you don't say "how high" when they say "jump"
6. They escort but get mad if you dont want to commit only to them? If you do decide to commit to them, then they dont want to have fun with you at night bc they been out fucking and sucking all day.
7. Call you a tranny chaser if you give up on them bc u tired of their bullshit so u decide to move on. What am I suppose to not move forward with anyone else?
8. Get mad if I dont wanna go to gay clubs or balls with them. Why should I go...i'm not into the gay scene
9. I am a top, why get mad if I dont wanna bottom for you?
10. Lie to their friends and say we smashed and we really didn't. Dont say that shit to taint me or make it hard for another girl to want me bc they think I had something with them.

Need I say more?

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Originally Posted by carmencream

Simply to look at yourself and see what type of energy your putting out that makes you attract girls who are basically no good for you. before you question others,goodluck.

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No need to look at myself. I treat Ts girls just like I would a real woman. I see them as one so I treat them as one. You dont know me to tell me to look at myself. I can see if I came at you sideways b4, then you would have the right to make that type of judgmental comment. I give any a chance 1st until they reveal who they really are.

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Whenever a man uses the word fetish I know what it is

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Maybe 'fetish' was the wrong choice of words. But that's not what I am all about. I try to get to know someone and let them get to know me. I dont try to jump they bones off jump. I can hang and have fun without all that. I can be kool with you and respect you.

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Originally Posted by BlackBeard757

No need to look at myself. I treat Ts girls just like I would a real woman. I see them as one so I treat them as one. You dont know me to tell me to look at myself. I can see if I came at you sideways b4, then you would have the right to make that type of judgmental comment. I give any a chance 1st until they reveal who they really are.

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First of all we all must look to ourselves when we question things that happen in our lives or the ppl we pursue. From the things you listed try talking to ppl who don't do drugs or live in the gay lifestyle, or girls that escort since you have issues with that. I don't feel I was being judgemental but hey if you took it that way so be it.So before you get all defensive look and think about the things you yourself said when describing the girls you deal with.

I joined this forum for the humor. But I never really had anything to talk about or wanted to reply to anyone 's post bc I only know 2 ppl up here. but after a long talk with Remy today, she advised me that maybe I should post on how I feel or past experiences and see what others have to say bc she know others feel the same way. I had no idea I would get teased about it. I should've just kept my mouth shut

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Originally Posted by carmencream

First of all we all must look to ourselves when we question things that happen in our lives or the ppl we pursue. From the things you listed try talking to ppl who don't do drugs or live in the gay lifestyle, or girls that escort since you have issues with that. I don't feel I was being judgemental but hey if you took it that way so be it.So before you get all defensive look and think about the things you yourself said when describing the girls you deal with.

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If you knew me personally, you would know I'm a good due. I'm not out in the gay scene so I dont know if a Ts girl that I meet at that time is into that or into drugs until they reveal that to me. I dont have anything against girls that escort. They gotta do what they gotta do to survive. I have even dated one bc I knew that it was only business for her and didnt judge her bc of that. I had a problem when they claim they dont escort but then use that as an excuse for hooking up with another man is bc it was a quick trick while im being real and up front with u. All i'm am really saying is that it is frustrating when u meet a Ts girl and they put up a false front and you dont find out til its too late. But yet, they always complain about men only want sex from them but when a good dude comes along that respect you, that's the one they decide to shit on

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Whenever a man uses the word fetish I know what it is

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p.s. I even made a comment back when u mention that U dont like guys that only see you for your dick and how that's not how to make u feel like a lady. If this was just a fetish for me, I would not have left a respectable reply to you like I did. I see nothing but all women in you like I said b4. I would try to holla at you even if you were a real woman. You are a beautiful woman regardless of your true gender. Your dick just adds the "Wow, Really?" factor to you. All it is a big clit to me.

I do want to say that it can be good to compromise with regards to the 'gay scene', to go out with your girl there if that's her idea of fun. Balls can be fun, and given the competitive aspects involved, along with drinks and party atmosphere, you really can have a good time.

Carmen also has a good point in that there are girls down here that work regular 9-5 jobs and live their lives as 'traditional' women. Perhaps that is the type of girl you should approach instead of the 'around the way' girl. I didn't see her post about "looking into yourself..." as being judgmental. That's actually common advice a therapist would give for a wide variety of issues.

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Originally Posted by BlackBeard757

If you knew me personally, you would know I'm a good due. I'm not out in the gay scene so I dont know if a Ts girl that I meet at that time is into that or into drugs until they reveal that to me. I dont have anything against girls that escort. They gotta do what they gotta do to survive. I have even dated one bc I knew that it was only business for her and didnt judge her bc of that. I had a problem when they claim they dont escort but then use that as an excuse for hooking up with another man is bc it was a quick trick while im being real and up front with u. All i'm am really saying is that it is frustrating when u meet a Ts girl and they put up a false front and you dont find out til its too late. But yet, they always complain about men only want sex from them but when a good dude comes along that respect you, that's the one they decide to shit on

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I don't know you personally but if you would have worded your post as you just did maybe you would have got another answer,but I still stand by my first post from the things you said before. I simply answered a question that you put out there.

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

I do want to say that it can be good to compromise with regards to the 'gay scene', to go out with your girl there if that's her idea of fun. Balls can be fun, and given the competitive aspects involved, along with drinks and party atmosphere, you really can have a good time.

Carmen also has a good point in that there are girls down here that work regular 9-5 jobs and live their lives as 'traditional' women. Perhaps that is the type of girl you should approach instead of the 'around the way' girl. I didn't see her post about "looking into yourself..." as being judgmental. That's actually common advice a therapist would give for a wide variety of issues.

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Thanks for the (logical )mind it's gladly appreciated!!!!

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Originally Posted by carmencream

First of all we all must look to ourselves when we question things that happen in our lives or the ppl we pursue. From the things you listed try talking to ppl who don't do drugs or live in the gay lifestyle, or girls that escort since you have issues with that. I don't feel I was being judgemental but hey if you took it that way so be it.So before you get all defensive look and think about the things you yourself said when describing the girls you deal with.

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I do have good stories as well, but they are so far and few. I'm just expressing the probs I have run into lately. And those probs are the ones that got me feeling this way. not all girls are like this. Just my recent run-ins. And it seems like that's all I have been coming across. I got to the point where I said I wasnt gonna deal with any other TS girls at all, but I couldnt hold my bad times against news ones that may not be that way. Maybe I enjoy the experience too much to give it up completely. I always say someone will come along that I can kool with and will love me as much as I love them. But after biting so many bad apples, who wants to keep trying to find a good apple to eat?

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

I do want to say that it can be good to compromise with regards to the 'gay scene', to go out with your girl there if that's her idea of fun. Balls can be fun, and given the competitive aspects involved, along with drinks and party atmosphere, you really can have a good time.

Carmen also has a good point in that there are girls down here that work regular 9-5 jobs and live their lives as 'traditional' women. Perhaps that is the type of girl you should approach instead of the 'around the way' girl. I didn't see her post about "looking into yourself..." as being judgmental. That's actually common advice a therapist would give for a wide variety of issues.

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I have gone to balls or a gay club in the past with a TS girl. It just wasn't for me. I did not like the fact that other men there tried to hit on me. I am not into men. But when u tell them that, they question as to why you are there or get labeled as gay bc you are there. So to eliminate that issue, I just chose not to go.

As a friend insistently pointed out to me today, a female can have just as many problems as ts. You have to treat each person as an individual and not necessarily shun the group as a whole. Perhaps it is time to look beyond the typical social networks you use (bgc) to find potential love interest...

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

As a friend insistently pointed out to me today, a female can have just as many problems as ts. You have to treat each person as an individual and not necessarily shun the group as a whole. Perhaps it is time to look beyond the typical social networks you use (bgc) to find potential love interest...

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I shut bgc down back when I told you I wanted to show someone that I really had interest in them and no one else. I have not created a new page since then nor do I plan on doing so. That shit is for the birds. She was the only one fro this area that caught my attention. Even-though we never got to know each other, I still have no interest for it. I've seen most of the profile there for this area and they all suck. On top of that, I got tired of the men hitting me up when my page clearly stated I was only into Tgirls.So I'm just gonna keep myslef outta that loop from any unwanted attention. So without bgc or going to the balls/clubs, I've come to grips that my whole TS era/days have come to and end unless I just happen to meet one in public one day.

You are right bout probs with females as well as Ts girls. But probs with Tgirls are on a whole nother planet that has not been found by astronomers yet. I just cant see what it is no matter how big of a telescope I use.

Here is my $.02..........

I have a fetish for TS women....as of lately I have slowed down, and thats mainly due to the lacking availability of different pretty girls in the area.

Plus I am pro 420.

Mix that with some 420 that increases your sex drive and you have a sexy tgirl with you, something freaky is bound to happen.

I been fucking t-girls for over 15 years.......busted alot of nuts over the years fuckin around...........used hundreds of magnums too.......I honestly think I am obsessed with pretty and sexy and will fuck just about anything that fits the profile and is a women....and I see a ts as that.......

I remember my first time....was on the north side smoking weed with a friend who just moved there from the southside, and we were near boys town off the lakefront. So its about 1 a.m. on the weekend and he is like there are these transexuals around the corner that look just like women....he was all into it and very desrciptive..........so I eventually left, and was hungry, grabbed a bite to eat and was driving around, saw this bad ass broad on what then was the tranny stroll, and the rest is history. 100% top.

If you wanna get out, see a doctor and sit on the couch....visit a psychiatriast (sp?)

I may do the same

Good luck!

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Originally Posted by johnmagnum

Here is my $.02..........

I have a fetish for TS women....as of lately I have slowed down, and thats mainly due to the lacking availability of different pretty girls in the area.

Plus I am pro 420.

Mix that with some 420 that increases your sex drive and you have a sexy tgirl with you, something freaky is bound to happen.

I been fucking t-girls for over 15 years.......busted alot of nuts over the years fuckin around...........used hundreds of magnums too.......I honestly think I am obsessed with pretty and sexy and will fuck just about anything that fits the profile and is a women....and I see a ts as that.......

I remember my first time....was on the north side smoking weed with a friend who just moved there from the southside, and we were near boys town off the lakefront. So its about 1 a.m. on the weekend and he is like there are these transexuals around the corner that look just like women....he was all into it and very desrciptive..........so I eventually left, and was hungry, grabbed a bite to eat and was driving around, saw this bad ass broad on what then was the tranny stroll, and the rest is history. 100% top.

If you wanna get out, see a doctor and sit on the couch....visit a psychiatriast (sp?)

I may do the same

Good luck!

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Finally a response that's not bashing me. I started my Tgirl era about 15 yrs ago too. I have never been into the stroll girls tho bc I refuse to pay for sex from any type of woman. not that I knock they hustle but I want a girl to like me for me, not bc I paid them to like me.

I have had plenty that I was just smoke buddies with as well. I am very particular about the type of tgirl i hope up with. Just bc I like Tgirls, doesnt mean i'm gonna fuck you if you offering it. Just like you, i'll take quality over quantity anyday. I like the tgirl that acts like, looks, like, and carries herself as a real woman and not the one you can tell what she is even from a mile away. I wanna forget about what she has down there until I see it and be like..."oh damn, that's right. I almost forgot you a tranny" Lmao

But I dont need a therapist...lol. I just wanted to open up in the forum. I thought this was a place where I could express myself and not be judged, but I was mistaken from a few replies.

p.s. your $.02 was more like a dollar

you probably miss out on alot quality girls because of your high passabilty standards.one of the reasons I love my boyfriend is because he doesn't care who knows or doesn't know (including family)..there's nothing like being completely comfortable and accepted by someone you love

I'm gonna say what hasn't been said...

For every 1 ugly ass non passable ts there are 5 mofos trying to fuck

For every 1 bad ass passable ts there are 25 mofos trying to fuck

Most ts are single because its a numbers game. Why settle for 1 dick when they can try them all.

I don't give a fuck what anyone says, if you're girl is tricking to pay bills your relationship is dead. If she's getting high with random dudes, she's fucking some of them. Period.

You want a serious relationship, you gotta find a chick that hasn't been jaded by the game. A chick that don't have all the bad perceptions and bad habits that the sex game comes with. Good luck finding her. Odds are stacked bro.

WOW!

I gotta say, BlackBeard::::you listed about every LINE I ever heard come out of a TS who scams for a living and way of life. And believe me, we have all heard them.
Please don't get me wrong, there are a lot of girls who are real people. They aren't into the games and want a real relationship too. Just like GG's you sometimes have to meet many to find the right one. Keep in mind, a lot of girls from both sides are screwed up. Same with guys. It's a numbers game. You have to play the Lottery in order to get the benefits.
By now you should be able to pick up on a good vibe right from the get go.

There was nothing wrong with your post. Sounds like you are actually way past any fetish stage. You want a TS girl in your life for a number of reasons.
If you still want it, keep going for it. You can find a good girl.
I have!

Good luck!

This isnt a TS issue. Sound like youve just been hurt and looking for answers. #1 You cant make any woman (TS or GG) move faster than what theyre ready for. The world you wanna create with that person may seem perfect, but sometimes people just dont want to or theyre scared to make the commitment even when it feels right. Some people are just so used to the life they live that theyre afraid of change. They dont like feeling vulnerable.

On another note, fact is theres gonna be women that use you. Theres women i know that will go out on a date just to get a free meal with no intention of carrying things further. But honestly bruh, you cant let one woman ruin what you may have in store for the future. My past 3 girls did me dirty, but i cant take it out on the next.

They say if she comes back then its meant to be. I say if she comes back it just means your in the same spot you were sitting last time and what reason does she have to stop? Wise up, move on. Maybe things will change for the better then.

Yes im that deep LOL

Im in a relationship with Amber and she is currently escorting.we have plans and goals for our future, this is just a temporary stop in life and she is going to stop pretty soon. its not easy, no relationship is but love keeps us together.
we're so comfortable together that she doesn't mined having her natural hair out,no make up, and lounging around naked ;).i get the real every day woman that she is,not the fantasy. i even introduced her to my family and spent the holidays with them. i was honest with my family letting them know she is trans and does sex work. They arent thrilled with the escorting aspect but they understand. Amber and my mother bonded because of their mutual love for me.
Also if you are not comfortable with your sexuality and see trans women as a fetish then a relationship will probably not work. I was married at one time to a another trans women for a couple of years it didnt work out, but i'm planning on trying again...hint hint ;)

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Originally Posted by METALFACE

Im in a relationship with Amber and she is currently escorting.we have plans and goals for our future, this is just a temporary stop in life and she is going to stop pretty soon. its not easy, no relationship is but love keeps us together.
we're so comfortable together that she doesn't mined having her natural hair out,no make up, and lounging around naked ;).i get the real every day woman that she is,not the fantasy. i even introduced her to my family and spent the holidays with them. i was honest with my family letting them know she is trans and does sex work.they arent thrilled with the escorting aspect but they understand. Amber and my mother bonded because of their mutual love for me.
Also if you are not comfortable with your sexuality and see trans women as a fetish then a relationship will probably not work. I was married at one time to a another trans women for a couple of years it didnt work out, but i'm planning on trying again...hint hint ;)

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Props to you my man. I'm not even a hater. You seem like a good dude. Amber is lucky. I admit, I don't even think I'm that kind of man. I can introduce a trans woman but I doubt I would tell the fam about the sex work. Good luck on yalls marriage pimp.

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Originally Posted by METALFACE

Im in a relationship with Amber and she is currently escorting.we have plans and goals for our future, this is just a temporary stop in life and she is going to stop pretty soon. its not easy, no relationship is but love keeps us together.
we're so comfortable together that she doesn't mined having her natural hair out,no make up, and lounging around naked ;).i get the real every day woman that she is,not the fantasy. i even introduced her to my family and spent the holidays with them. i was honest with my family letting them know she is trans and does sex work.they arent thrilled with the escorting aspect but they understand. Amber and my mother bonded because of their mutual love for me.
Also if you are not comfortable with your sexuality and see trans women as a fetish then a relationship will probably not work. I was married at one time to a another trans women for a couple of years it didnt work out, but i'm planning on trying again...hint hint ;)

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Very COOL!

I like love stories. Nothing better than LOVE. Keep paying attention to each other. That's one of the hardest things to do in a relationship. I've been accused of not in my present relationship and she blames it on my age. LMAO! True I guess. Whatever!!!:cool:

BlackBeard, you are a "trans-attracted man". Keep that in mind next time someone calls you a "chaser". :)

Yeah, it can be frustrating with TG. First of all, TG are rare. Second, finding true love is rare. To combine the two is extremely rare. All the more reason to appreciate it and hang on to it if and when it happens.

The TG you tend to find easiest are the ones who advertise for the male public. To find others who are less visible, I think the only chance is to network with friends and hope you get lucky.

And I like love stories, too. We need more of them here !

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Originally Posted by MrF

BlackBeard, you are a "trans-attracted man". Keep that in mind next time someone calls you a "chaser". :)

Yeah, it can be frustrating with TG. First of all, TG are rare. Second, finding true love is rare. To combine the two is extremely rare. All the more reason to appreciate it and hang on to it if and when it happens.

The TG you tend to find easiest are the ones who advertise for the male public. To find others who are less visible, I think the only chance is to network with friends and hope you get lucky.

And I like love stories, too. We need more of them here !

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I wanted to write about are love a while back but thought it would get more of a backlash, u know dude you are with an escort its not going to work thing, but Love with a TG is really beautiful especially when the bond is so strong that nothing can break it...Matching tats, love makes you do crazy things LOL, sorry had to block out Ambers real name...a few pics from are personal life :)

I'm late to the party ... just figured out Metalface is Amber's BF.
Great photos.

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Originally Posted by METALFACE

I wanted to write about are love a while back but thought it would get more of a backlash, u know dude you are with an escort its not going to work thing, but Love with a TG is really beautiful especially when the bond is so strong that nothing can break it...Matching tats, love makes you do crazy things LOL, sorry had to block out Ambers real name...a few pics from are personal life :)

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Yeeaa great look.

ABSOLUTELY VERY, VERY COOL WITH THE PICS!:cool:

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Originally Posted by METALFACE

I wanted to write about are love a while back but thought it would get more of a backlash, u know dude you are with an escort its not going to work thing, but Love with a TG is really beautiful especially when the bond is so strong that nothing can break it...Matching tats, love makes you do crazy things LOL, sorry had to block out Ambers real name...a few pics from are personal life :)

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Hey MetalFace, just had a question. Maybe for you or Amber. For the guys who wish to date her, doesn't this kinda ruin the whole girl friend experience for them? I assume it's like the whole celebrity (don't let the public know you have a wife/hubby thing). Maybe it doesn't. Just asking.

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Originally Posted by raheme

Hey MetalFace, just had a question. Maybe for you or Amber. For the guys who wish to date her, doesn't this kinda ruin the whole girl friend experience for them? I assume it's like the whole celebrity (don't let the public know you have a wife/hubby thing). Maybe it doesn't. Just asking.

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Not really.just like most of ny clients have private home/family lives so do i.at the end of the day its a fantasy and that's it.I actually don't want guys to ever loss sight of that because when they do its hella creepy

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Originally Posted by raheme

Hey MetalFace, just had a question. Maybe for you or Amber. For the guys who wish to date her, doesn't this kinda ruin the whole girl friend experience for them? I assume it's like the whole celebrity (don't let the public know you have a wife/hubby thing). Maybe it doesn't. Just asking.

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To be honest bro I could careless what they think, I'm not sitting around wondering what they think, my life is with Amber

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Originally Posted by BlackBeard757

So I'm beginning to hate that I ever started liking TS girls. I consider myself a str8 man, because all my life I've only dated women and many years ago I was attracted to a big titty blonde white girl who use to always buy weed from me. But every time I went to her house to make a delivery, she was always dressed in a bra n panties set. I had no idea she was a TS til I tried to fuck her and she was upfront with me b4 she agreed to get down. Since then if I happened to try and talk to what I thought was a female and turned out to be a TS, I was down. Over time all I've done is run into games with TS girls yet I still try?
WHY?
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I dont have probs with real women, but why do I have them with TS women? And it seems like the more I have probs, the more it frustrates me, but yet I still try. I wish I could snap out of this fetish but I just cant.
WHY?
WHY?
WHY?

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i'm a little late responding to the original post but, in my opinion, you just need to take the approach that i do...'it's their loss, not mine'...i KNOW without a shadow of doubt that i am a GREAT catch, so if they can't see it, fuck em...let them continue to wallow in the cesspool of dudes that have nothing of real value to offer besides giving them a wet asshole (ts & gg alike)...one day, they'll roll over and realize, probably after the bazillionth 'walk of shame' that they fucked up...and when they try to come back, smile in their face and walk the fuck off...

too many chicks are high on their horses these days because a 'fat ass and cute face' are all they think they need (which is caused by 'reality' television and music), but some day, the light will come on (probably too late for them to change) and boy, i LOVE seeing that light...it illuminates my whole day lol

as for the ones in this thread 'bashing' you...if they're not paying your bills, affecting your health or anything major, let 'em say what they want...

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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

Not really.just like most of ny clients have private home/family lives so do i.at the end of the day its a fantasy and that's it.I actually don't want guys to ever loss sight of that because when they do its hella creepy

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I feel you. That's what would creep me out as your guy, knowing some dudes don't know when the fantasy is over.