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What's been going on? Somebody give me a run down?
Sasha now hates all things grooby?
Ambersky now hates all things black/dark men?
The great1 is now the resident bad boy?
Cosmic is a captain save a h..?
Ms. Remy is still #teamgroobyfuckyeah!
This sounds like a bizzaro young and the restless episode lol
Where's
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When you need him!
Your information is a bit off.
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Originally Posted by CosmicTraveler
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Should I be?
Instigating things much #NIGGASHIT
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Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
#shouldntsayniggashit
#jokes
Nice to se you're using this forum in the appropriate manner and not for some parochial numb dogshit...Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
blue eyed devil
you don't know what I like or what i'm about.that's always been your problem, thinking you know me based on what little shit you see on here.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
I'm a decedent of freed slaves and a African father,I will say nigga till my dick drops off
You know... Until you said that I somehow forgot you had a dick. = __=;;Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Awww...u mad? Show me where it hurts boobieQuote:
Originally Posted by SHAUN
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1. Ms Amber, it ain't even that seriousQuote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
2. Ms. Amber, I'm only stating what I've read on hear in the last day (shit u wrote, not me)
3. Child of a freed slave and an African father yet finds black men disgusting, all the while extolling the wonders of white and latino (white latino's) men.
4. You can say nigga till your teeth turn white, it doesn't take money out of my pocket. I think its whack of you to openly put down black men when in some point in your life (I assume) you had to either identify as one or learn valuable life lessons from one (your dad).
5. You still could get it...twice on sundays :)
#teamyeaididthat
Lol. Nah pimp. Such as in society today, people get mad when you dont tow the company line and speak your mind. That slave ass 'dont make massa mad' shit dont fly over here.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
I feel you dude. But at the end of the day I fall back because the reality is his (sean) house his (sean) rules.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
I don't have a dog in that race (the beef with him and sasha) so I could care less about it.
From an outside perspective, its bad form to openly bite the hand that fed you.
I see a lot of chicks do this with grooby after they've gotten a little fame or whatever.
If they have a beef with those dudes they should give them a call or shoot them an email first before going public. To me, that's not how you conduct yourself in business.
Having said that, I also think its in bad form to always (generalizing) take exception to any criticism from an outsider. No one is 100% right all the damn time (yes, even me). I think Remy should refrain from getting into squabbles like that because her objectivity is questionable, given her occupation and employer.
my point exactly you hit the nail on the headQuote:
Originally Posted by raheme
What squabble? I have no 'squabble' with Sasha (?) she contacted me after she saw what I wrote and things are peachy here. She's always going to be cool in my book, as we go way back, and I have always tried to be there for her when she needed me. I was simply providing the advice from someone in the Industry (same advice I'd give if I was working for SMC, or Shemale Strokers). The objectivity of people outside the industry that truly don't know how things work and are just speculating, is what is questionable. Ask these same questions on a SMC, EA, Strokers forum and see how the answer varies...Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
1.when you come on here making statements about me like you know than yea it becomes that serious.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
2.what i said was i have a thing for latinos and light skin men...didnt you say the same shit about chicks a few times >_>
3.where did i say i find black men disgusting lol.please find those quotes and validate your opinions.i love how you guys come on here making something out of nothing than crying about it.what is it with people putting half ass formed opinions out and passing them off as facts.
ive never dated or been with white guys dude (outside of the industry,on my own time),really please stop pulling shit out you ass.im sure some white guy is now going to talk shit about me smdh.
4.again where have i ever openly put down black men.so saying i have a preference for something is putting everything else down?? you have stated your preference for light skin girls,so does that mean your putting down all the darker skinned ones?
im sorry sweetie i never had to identify as a man really.boy maybe,man never (young transitioner).
5.as long as you have my money than yea you can get it every time that wallet comes out
#ITHINKYOURTEAMRODETHESHORTBUS
people from the outside looking in...always thinking they know something about nothingQuote:
Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
I dont have a dog in the race either. And yeah me and sasha are cool, but the points i made were things that came to my mind before that whole beef even started. And i guess i dont have such an inflated ego to think MY opinion is the one or im gonna be disrespectful and start calling people 'poopie faces' like a 5 year old lol. Especially when they only THINK you dont know some of the same things you know. But hey, im done with the whole thing. And the next time i feel like not conforming, ima speak my mind again. If what i say doesnt physically harm you, your family or block your money, then who cares.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
Most of us are all anonymous key strokes in a sea of make believe/fantasy...don't assume I'm just some outsider who knows nothing about "the industry".Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
Is it reasonable to assume that one person knows everything about every situation that goes on within their industry?
That's not being very objective dear.
I don't frequent other boards and quite frankly my life doesn't revolve around all things porn so I will defer to you with regard to your last statement.
Amber you're free to date/fuck whomever you choose. I don't give hardly a fuck. I mean for chris hemsworth's sake, you are super pressed over a dude...never mind, not gonna go there.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Do I like pretty high yellow broads? Yup
Do I like pretty brown skin broads? Yup
Do I like pretty broads in general? Yup
One of my beef(s) with black transsexual porn in general has always been that lighter complexted black trans would almost always be knockout dimes who (for the most part) were bottoms whereas the the more darker the chick was the more manlier (for the most part) and top dominant she was portrayed to be. The old wild black mandingo man way of thinking.
Just be pretty and reasonably intelligent...I'm educated enough to know that no man, woman, or child alive today had the power to choose what race/color they are.
And trust me babe, raheme don't cry over a cow I never got milk from. You are wayyyyy to impressed by yourself. One of the reasons I used to find you so attractive was that you just seemed like a cool ass chick, like a chick I would call up to kick back a few drinks with and watch the walking dead marathons with. Your looks were always secondary to your overall "really cool chick" vibe. Needless to say I knew it wouldn't be long before the industry jaded you to how shit works in real life.
We could never be anything more than internet acquaintences because 1) I'm a brown skinned black man, 2) I don't trick and I'm not a tranny chaser, 3) I would challenge you to do better with your life and use the brain that your creator gave you; help lift you up like a real man should.
I would much rather ride the "short bus" than to be led like a sheep...
You "know" nothing. You were entirely incorrect and not man enough to admit it or apologize (again) but continue with your tantrums and mantras that you somehow think you're not conforming and that you're some sort of rebel or free speaker because of that? You're not - you're just someone talking SHIT.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
This is a pretty free forum where people are pretty much allowed to discourse at will but when you start insulting me or my company with lies, then it's time to leave.
I've asked you once, there's the door, take it and cool off - come back when you have better manners or lose the chip on your shoulder.
Dude, do you know me personally? If not, you dont know who or what i know. And did you happen to read where i said, 'im NOT trying to place blame on seanchai'. Bet you didnt. My thoughts were on the list put out by Urban X, the company that you ARENT affiliated with. So quote my WHOLE post and show me where i insulted you. OR just admit you still in your feelings about our last run-in, which i have completely let go. And lets not speak about 'manners' dude.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
And with regards to being 'man' enough to admit i was wrong, i remember Remy posted in a thread about the difference between a CD, a TV and a TS. You decided to 'correct' her but turns out YOU were wrong. Where was your admission of being wrong? Riiiiggghhhttt.
As far as me having a chip on my shoulder? Not at all, BUT im not gonna back down because you wanna pull the 'its my board, you shut up when i tell you too' routine. Im a grown ass man. NOBODY can tell me when to be quiet. Now, since im sure you'll ban me for NOT shutting up like you TOLD me to do, just first, quote my original post and show exactly where i insulted or attacked you personally OR your company. Im sure you'll say, 'its my board i dont have to', which is exactly right. Hell, i have directed QUITE a few girls TO your company and you didnt even know it.
lol I didn't call you 'poopie face', I said you were being 'bullheaded' which is a euphemism for stubborn.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
No one is saying that only 1 opinion matters, just that knowing the whole story holds more credit, than that of one biased to one side of said story. I still don't see how this was ever an argument at all, I said that if you are a performer and want to be considered for Urban X submit your own nomination, as Madison did, not rely on somebody you've openly refused to work with to nominate you. Go to Urban X site and see what the policy is for being nominated, that's the only opinion that truly matters.
Your quotes all as inference that I pushed Amber and dropped Sasha, as you were supporting Sasha's pov:Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
"...if grooby wants to push you as one of their crowned jewels, my most heart felt congratulations and more power to you..."
"we ALL know Seanchai's word as an insider, as well as a producer of content, would carry much more weight than a friend's nomination...even in his post he said he influenced them to change their final list of nominees...that goes to show that does have some influence"
"will your recognition fade because you don't have a big production studio backing you..."
"I was simply giving an observation, which IS a valid one. "
This all posted on a thread (nice to see Stefon hasn't returned since he decided to post 3 threads with my personal info. on it and looking to troll) originally posted with "seanchai/myreal name VS Sasha Strokes".
So here's the point, you were wrong on your points. Look at the other response I just posted on the original thread, I didn't even mention Amber.
Once again, you've just picked up the wrong end of the stick and that's why you stink.
If you weren't some 'outsider' there would be no need for anonymity, we are not all just a sea of key strokes. If you were to say you were related to Queen Elizabeth don't think for a second I'm going to believe you just because you said it. You have openly stated you haven't met 'in person' any transsexuals, so how much can you know about the behind the scenes day to day transsexual porn industry? No one person knows everything about anything, but we can be realistic. Trust, my life doesn't revolve around porn, this is a job, not my life. The really sad part about this whole issue concerning Urban X, is that all this info is available through googling Urban X, visiting the site, and asking them what to do. I'm not trying to 'assume' you personally dont know anything about this particular issue, just going by your past statements over the last year about your experiences thus far.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
Ahhh there's the problem. You ASSUMED i was throwing shots at you. Again, did you NOT see where i put 'im not trying to place blame on seanchai'. You STILL havent acknowledged that statement, have you? And you should know from our prior exchange, when i want to go at you, i got AT you. I dont sneak diss. Not my style.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
First, i wasnt trying to infer that you dropped sasha. I know sasha has spoken against grooby and refuses to work with you all. Would i blame you didnt nominate her because of that? NO. I dont fuck with people that dont fuck with me, so i couldnt say you'd be wrong for doing. So no, thats NOT what i meant. Nor was i trying to instigate any type of beef between the two. what i said to amber were honest to goodness words of encouragement. If you can have someone put their resources behind you and its what you really want to do, go for it. And go hard as hell.
Second, you yourself said that you spoke with the people and they revised their list. Had i emailed them, its a good chance it wouldnt make a lick of difference, am i right? So by that definition, your WORD does carry more weight than the average person, correct?
The third item was a question. Notice the tone of it, as well as, the use of the word 'will' in the background.
Lastly, my observation about the list being skewed towards bottoms IS a valid observation. It speaks for itself. Simply because you dont agree doesnt mean i have to go back and say, 'you're right seanchai'. Your opinion is yours, mine is mine. You seem to feel like YOUR opinion is the only one that ever matters.
And i notice you didnt acknowledge where i pointed out that Remy was right instead of you and you didnt be a 'man' and admit that you were wrong. Thats a good lawyering trick, 'dont acknowledge when opposing counsel points out a flaw in your case, just divert the attention elsewhere'.
All in all dude, understand this. When thegreat1 has a problem with you, i will address YOU. If i dont, dont take it personally because its not a shot at you. I dont waste shells on warning shots lol.
I still believe the points and comments you made as illustrated above, were quite well aimed but if you genuinely weren't aiming them at me, then I apologize for thinking they were, especially in the tone of the OP.Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
However, for calling you out on wanting to be some sort of maverick/rogue/speaking out, I stand by. You try to hard.
By the way, addressing yourself in first person, really is a show of egotism.
Seanchai has spoken.
If you felt like i was taking shots at you directly, then i apologize as well. My words were directed at an industry in which some people have been black-balled because they wouldnt conform and that displays favoritism. I know quite a few porn stars and they have all acknowledged that fact. Not saying everyone does it, or it happens all the time, but it has happened.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
Either way, im done with this whole episode. And understand this last thing, im a sarcastic ass, so the whole rebel thing was a joke. I do however speak my mind. Buf i dont go out of my way just to be contrarian.
I know you are speaking with Seanchai regarding this, but I still find it conflicting. How do you know the word of the viewers of porn aren't meaningful to the Urban X people? Unless, you tried to get someone nominated and failed isn't it just speculation? Again, I point to Wendy Williams and Madison as independent performers who ARE nominated. If it worked for them, why to could it not have worked for Sasha had she submitted herself? Blaming the industry and the major players seems incorrect. As you yourself stated, why aren't Mia Isabella and Natalia Coxx on the list, they are backed by a major studio right? Perhaps it's cause they didn't submit themselves to be nominated? I'm not certain, but I do recall Mia being on the list last year...Quote:
Originally Posted by thegreat1
I agree, I'd say if the fans emailed them then they would make a change. I do no work with Urban X (although I may look into it). It is a fan based award and has fan voting.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
I'm not too far away from va (I'm in the dc area) should you, ms. Amber, or any other member care to meet up for drinks. The ts porn industry is a sub genre of the porn industry which is a sub genre of the entertainment industry. I could get into my resume and education but nobody gives a flying wendy williams about that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
At the end of the day I really don't care for honorary awards based on heavy analysis of very subjective material. Too much room for error or dissappointment in my opinion.
But this is to be expected of an industry and profession that is totally dependent on the "hey look at me, I'm important" types. With that being said, I can see why a sasha or madison or any woman who takes their acting career very serious would feel dissappointed by not being recognized by her peers.
instead of everyone continuing to yap about problems and personal opinions, why don't you all (those with a vested interest in the ts porn industry) come up with some solutions so situations like this won't happen? If black transsexuals/gay guys can band together and throw elaborate balls/parties/shindigs, why can't they band together and throw an award ceremony? If btg is the biggest player in the ts porn industry, would it kill them to host an award ceremony/party in say...atlanta or dc to recognize top performers or girls who have made positive contributions to the lbgt community? Not saying that something like that doesn't happen now, hell, I have no idea what goes on behind the scenes. But if not, I see it as an incredible opportunity promote the brand to aspiring models, reward the community it heavily relies on for talent, and promote the brand and genre in a positive light (hell maybe even donate a portion of said party procedes to charity).
Ok, enough of my tangent. Obviously, this boy is cut from a different kind of stone. I tend to see situations differently.
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Originally Posted by raheme
Do you mean like, say, http://www.trannyawards.com ???
Ain't that about a nicky minaj! LolQuote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
So what the fuck is everybody fussing about? I don't get it.
Is it that the black/latina chicks feel like they don't get that much recognition compared to others?
Good shit grooby, I had no idea!
Only negative I could see by glancing over it is that you have it in cali but I get why that is on your end.
I agree, hence my earlier statement, about not paying too much attention to Urban X, AVN. ;) I too, have been very vocal in the past on this forum, about how I used to work in the Music Industry for many years. I left that industry after growing weary of all the egos, assholes, and elbows one has to rub and kiss up to. You come down this way, give me a shout I tend to hang with more females than trans women, but my friends and I are always up for a local bar or club.Quote:
Originally Posted by raheme
What he (Seanchai) said lol :pQuote:
Originally Posted by raheme
Has anyone got a goblet, or something.... My heart's bleeding hereQuote:
Originally Posted by raheme
sniffsniff
blue eyed devil
i dont even care to respond anymore....its a beautiful day in the neighborhood and im getting right...happy weekend to everyone..over and out
I have no dog in this fight, but I just wanted to clarify: I thought your name was something you made public. Your company name, blog, etc? What was this cat posting about you? :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by seanchai
Do you see my full name being used on this forum? My photo?Quote:
Originally Posted by bigdicki
He posted three x posts with the subject that and links to my personal (non-biz) pages clearly to troll.