Why do guys ALWAYS RUN??? please tell me...

so as usual i was minding my own business at the gas station jumping out to go in and pay the pump. I noticed like four or five older guys mixed race huddled chit chatting about who knows from ass to football... well i went in and once i cam out one guy yelled at me. Ay! i ignored ofcourse im a lady and we dont respond to that.

So continuing to pump my gas... AY LIL LADY he yells then a friend jumps in yo MS... and i turned and said yes. WATS YO NAME he asked... i paused not sure if i want to continue conversation or wat im TS so it a big deal for ME ya know...

again another yelled WATS YO NAME LIL MAMA... i turned and said softly and sexy T R A N S S E X U A L................... they all turned and fleeded like roaches i saw the back of reebox, screetching tires and everything but nothing at the same time... so i ask you why RUN???

Bcuz speaking on the real, a nigga don't want to be outted in his crew as the "gay" nigga. Trust me I'd NEVER tell my dudes I like t-girls waaaaaaaaay more then genetic women. I'd never admit that. they'd clown me so hard. I can relate shit I'd prolly not say anything up front but on the low when nobody around I'd try to get at you.

the ultimate ts heart breaker... and u wonder why we stand there with our HAND OUT!! lol thanks for the reply boo everyone else was scared to! ;)

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Originally Posted by tyrone70

Bcuz speaking on the real, a nigga don't want to be outted in his crew as the "gay" nigga. Trust me I'd NEVER tell my dudes I like t-girls waaaaaaaaay more then genetic women. I'd never admit that. they'd clown me so hard. I can relate shit I'd prolly not say anything up front but on the low when nobody around I'd try to get at you.

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Originally Posted by tyrone70

Bcuz speaking on the real, a nigga don't want to be outted in his crew as the "gay" nigga. Trust me I'd NEVER tell my dudes I like t-girls waaaaaaaaay more then genetic women. I'd never admit that. they'd clown me so hard. I can relate shit I'd prolly not say anything up front but on the low when nobody around I'd try to get at you.

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this.

Plus of all the things to say. You probably said the last thing on their minds lol....

what part of town were you in? The hood? Burbs? city?

i was in the city.. lol yea. i should have said MEHGEA LONKA









































(( ME GOT LONG COCK)) HAHA!

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

i was in the city.. lol yea. i should have said MEHGEA LONKA











































(( ME GOT LONG COCK)) HAHA!

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LMAO!

First of all, they were classless for yelling at you from across the parking lot. so why would you even respond to them?

Since you always look real good, I'm amazed they didn't have the balls to yell back that you were HOT and keep it moving. :cool:

Some guy's can't accept people for who they are. They just showed to the world that they are not man enough to be taken seriously in ones life.

This doesnt sound like dudes responding negatively to protect their 'down low' status it sounds more like you attracting the wrong type of guy. I mean firstly you probably don't need a guy who chooses to approach you by shouting 'Ay lil mama' from across a gas station. Dudes with this attitude are likely to have little respect for women and likely a narrow mind so I'd expect them to react the way they did due to the way the behave.

I'm sure you'll find plenty of guys who will approach you with much more respect and not be concerned in the slightest about you being transgendered :cool:

lol i agree... and how have u been my DYNACORD?

yes u are so right! it was funny to me though no offense taken i just wanted to share with my btg family i didnt know what to do experiencing that all by myself.. lol

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

lol i agree... and how have u been my DYNACORD?

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I've been excellent. Busy with my work.
I was hoping you would pass thru the Motor City on your travels.
Better call when you do to. LOL!

How's life treating you Miss?

knowing what we kno wabout the Luxry, i thought this thread was going into another arena.

that said, its the sheep factor as pointed out. If itd been on guy, he'd at least have conversated (not conversed. they didnt sound bright enough to converse) with you. group setting, black guys especially once they know a peni is involved, get really macho about their own masculinity.
honestly surprised they even knew what transsexual was....but thats me being an asshole.

Maybe they're just not into ts women. Think outside the forum box. I mean, that COULD be a possibility. Not all men are attracted to transexuals.

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Originally Posted by thepiedpiper

This doesnt sound like dudes responding negatively to protect their 'down low' status it sounds more like you attracting the wrong type of guy. I mean firstly you probably don't need a guy who chooses to approach you by shouting 'Ay lil mama' from across a gas station. Dudes with this attitude are likely to have little respect for women and likely a narrow mind so I'd expect them to react the way they did due to the way the behave.

I'm sure you'll find plenty of guys who will approach you with much more respect and not be concerned in the slightest about you being transgendered :cool:

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Well said! A real man would never approach any woman like that!

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Originally Posted by bxboy1984

knowing what we kno wabout the Luxry, i thought this thread was going into another arena.

that said, its the sheep factor as pointed out. If itd been on guy, he'd at least have conversated (not conversed. they didnt sound bright enough to converse) with you. group setting, black guys especially once they know a peni is involved, get really macho about their own masculinity.
honestly surprised they even knew what transsexual was....but thats me being an asshole.

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.........lol!

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Originally Posted by bxboy1984

honestly surprised they even knew what transsexual was....but thats me being an asshole.

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Didn't you hear!? A transsexual is some one who is sexually attracted to a cars transmission.. it's a big fetish on the internet, I hear there are videos on youporn and shit dudes stick theirs dicks in various engine parts. Some times loads of dudes cum over a transmission, I think they call it a transsexual bukkake - crazy motherfuckers.

again another yelled WATS YO NAME LIL MAMA... i turned and said softly and sexy T R A N S S E X U A L................... they all turned and fleeded like roaches i saw the back of reebox, screetching tires and everything but nothing at the same time... so i ask you why RUN???
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LMAO!!! Now thats funny

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

so as usual i was minding my own business at the gas station jumping out to go in and pay the pump. I noticed like four or five older guys mixed race huddled chit chatting about who knows from ass to football... well i went in and once i cam out one guy yelled at me. Ay! i ignored ofcourse im a lady and we dont respond to that.

So continuing to pump my gas... AY LIL LADY he yells then a friend jumps in yo MS... and i turned and said yes. WATS YO NAME he asked... i paused not sure if i want to continue conversation or wat im TS so it a big deal for ME ya know...

again another yelled WATS YO NAME LIL MAMA... i turned and said softly and sexy T R A N S S E X U A L................... they all turned and fleeded like roaches i saw the back of reebox, screetching tires and everything but nothing at the same time... so i ask you why RUN???

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A couple of them ran just to go with the flow. Trust me, a few of them would wax your ass and then some!

For me it would've been a good opportunity because for one you're highly attractive, you use your dick and I'm a "chaser".

Plus my friends and I don't hang around gas stations....fuck where they doing? Washing windows...offering to pump your gas for change?

Question shouldn't be "why they ran, it should be why they had the nerve to speak to begin with.

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

so as usual i was minding my own business at the gas station jumping out to go in and pay the pump. I noticed like four or five older guys mixed race huddled chit chatting about who knows from ass to football... well i went in and once i cam out one guy yelled at me. Ay! i ignored ofcourse im a lady and we dont respond to that.

So continuing to pump my gas... AY LIL LADY he yells then a friend jumps in yo MS... and i turned and said yes. WATS YO NAME he asked... i paused not sure if i want to continue conversation or wat im TS so it a big deal for ME ya know...

again another yelled WATS YO NAME LIL MAMA... i turned and said softly and sexy T R A N S S E X U A L................... they all turned and fleeded like roaches i saw the back of reebox, screetching tires and everything but nothing at the same time... so i ask you why RUN???

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In my experience men like the ones you described would have run from Genetic women as well. They don't really expect a response ~ if the are ignored the women is a dyke, if they are cursed out the woman is ghetto trash, so forth and so on. Men who are comfortable in their own skin (myself included) will respectfully approach any attractive woman GG or TG and start a real conversation. I do it all the time, for me though, Trans gender women are more shocked and surprised by this. I guess because they get approached by more assholes than by honest sincere men. But then this is only one opinion

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Originally Posted by Kazharlem

In my experience men like the ones you described would have run from Genetic women as well. They don't really expect a response ~ if the are ignored the women is a dyke, if they are cursed out the woman is ghetto trash, so forth and so on. Men who are comfortable in their own skin (myself included) will respectfully approach any attractive woman GG or TG and start a real conversation. I do it all the time, for me though, Trans gender women are more shocked and surprised by this. I guess because they get approached by more assholes than by honest sincere men. But then this is only one opinion

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I totally agree with you fan, my problem has been living in North Carolina so many gg and TG.Iwomen are jaded and disrespected so much that, when a brother who has his head on straight and doing good in life approach them they either run for the. saggy pants living with mom thug or the sneaking around dl brother. if I was there I would have stepped to you and asked you out to dinner. Either a restaurant or homecooked(yes a brother can burnvsome pos in the kitchen)

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Originally Posted by mrrpm

I totally agree with you fan, my problem has been living in North Carolina so many gg and TG.Iwomen are jaded and disrespected so much that, when a brother who has his head on straight and doing good in life approach them they either run for the. saggy pants living with mom thug or the sneaking around dl brother. if I was there I would have stepped to you and asked you out to dinner. Either a restaurant or homecooked(yes a brother can burnvsome pos in the kitchen)

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lol That's good to hear. I've seen too many dudes that are all to happy the girl hasn't asked them to be taken out to dinner or cook for them, they just want to come over and eat the food you worked hard to afford and cook for yourself. smh

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Originally Posted by mrrpm

I totally agree with you fan, my problem has been living in North Carolina so many gg and TG.Iwomen are jaded and disrespected so much that, when a brother who has his head on straight and doing good in life approach them they either run for the. saggy pants living with mom thug or the sneaking around dl brother. if I was there I would have stepped to you and asked you out to dinner. Either a restaurant or homecooked(yes a brother can burnvsome pos in the kitchen)

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I see the same reaction with the young girls. They have actually replied to me:::you are asking me out on a date. Well DUH!
My reply is:::don't other guys do the same. NO is their reply. That's cause the younger generation of boys don't know how to show respect to women or anyone else it seems. Why is that?

Now the older girls already have already gone thru all that bull shit and seem to know what you are about when someone of substance approaches them.
That part I like. Makes for a normal and comfortable interaction.

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Originally Posted by DYNACORD

I see the same reaction with the young girls. They have actually replied to me:::you are asking me out on a date. Well DUH!
My reply is:::don't other guys do the same. NO is their reply. That's cause the younger generation of boys don't know how to show respect to women or anyone else it seems. Why is that?

Now the older girls already have already gone thru all that bull shit and seem to know what you are about when someone of substance approaches them.
That part I like. Makes for a normal and comfortable interaction.

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Could not agree with you more. So many young guys just have no knowledge about how to treat a woman.