The elusive GFE

Guys who do P4P know that the GFE (girlfriend experience) is quite rare, though how rare depends on how good your game is. I've known 2 TGirls, each for ~5 years who've provided the elusive GFE. For this thread I'll call them Penny and Karen, though that's not their real name. They're not on this site and you shouldn't try to guess who they are.

When I first met Penny she was smoking hot and very popular. Nowadays she's still slender but her face has aged, she looks 35 (claims to be 25). In the beginning she didn't think much about me; I just saw her whenever I saw her, which was not very often. But in the past 1.5 years all our rendezvous are driven by her -- she calls me frequently, sometimes at weird hours, and much more often than I want to see her. She does not seem desperate or drugged-out and is always reasonable when I finally answer the phone, or when I see her. When we meet, she gets as excited as I do, and "gets her nut", but there is never any sentimentality or drama.

Karen is a very horny girl who meets me at the door naked or in slinky clothes and heats up like a microwave. When we embrace there is real passion and she always tries hard to please me. I like her probably too much for my own good and have helped her a few times when she needed it. Twice she left escorting for a LTR, and both times I felt very happy for her and frankly a little relieved that I was free from worrying about her. But sadly her LTRs never lasted very "L", and she called me back. A few times I tried to break free and stayed away for months at a time. For awhile she would send sentimental messages. Eventually I'd break down and come back.

Well, it will be interesting to see what happens in the long haul. And the long haul happens faster than we realize ...

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Originally Posted by MrF

Guys who do P4P know that the GFE (girlfriend experience) is quite rare, though how rare depends on how good your game is. I've known 2 TGirls, each for ~5 years who've provided the elusive GFE. For this thread I'll call them Penny and Karen, though that's not their real name. They're not on this site and you shouldn't try to guess who they are.

When I first met Penny she was smoking hot and very popular. Nowadays she's still slender but her face has aged, she looks 35 (claims to be 25). In the beginning she didn't think much about me; I just saw her whenever I saw her, which was not very often. But in the past 1.5 years all our rendezvous are driven by her -- she calls me frequently, sometimes at weird hours, and much more often than I want to see her. She does not seem desperate or drugged-out and is always reasonable when I finally answer the phone, or when I see her. When we meet, she gets as excited as I do, and "gets her nut", but there is never any sentimentality or drama.

Karen is a very horny girl who meets me at the door naked or in slinky clothes and heats up like a microwave. When we embrace there is real passion and she always tries hard to please me. I like her probably too much for my own good and have helped her a few times when she needed it. Twice she left escorting for a LTR, and both times I felt very happy for her and frankly a little relieved that I was free from worrying about her. But sadly her LTRs never lasted very "L", and she called me back. A few times I tried to break free and stayed away for months at a time. For awhile she would send sentimental messages. Eventually I'd break down and come back.

Well, it will be interesting to see what happens in the long haul. And the long haul happens faster than we realize ...

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I've never been one to P4P so I'm no specialist in this regard, but I always thought of GFE as something more than the standard hook up at residence/hotel for hot kinky fun. I took GFE to be more of a girl on your arm while out to dinner, movie, dancing scenario that later ends happily. Am I wrong in this assumption?

Remy, that might be a good definition of GFE in P4P. One of these girls I did take out a few times. I don't know what the "standard" definition is, but what I had in mind is warmth, friendliness, "get to know you" discussion, passionate sex, an attempt to be pleasing, etc. Others might just call that "good service" and the act of a talented hustler. Who knows ? But when it happens it's like that line on The Sopranos: "Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in !"

Hey, it's great you can avoid P4P. But not all of us can name our body parts with pride, LOL. :)

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As I was saying, about how I feel about these girls, the quote from The Sopranos by Silvio Dante (they guy in the middle) describes it well: "Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in !"

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Originally Posted by MrF

As I was saying, about how I feel about these girls, the quote from The Sopranos by Silvio Dante (they guy in the middle) describes it well: "Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in !"

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I thought it was Michael Corleone; Godfather III. Happy New Year, MrF!:D:)
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Originally Posted by TVSURFER

I thought it was Michael Corleone; Godfather III. Happy New Year, MrF!:D:)
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I think I remember now: it was a favorite impersonation of Corleone which Dante did to get laughs.

Happy New Year, all. :):D;):cool:

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FWIW (not much ?), here's the clip of Dante ("Just when I thought I was out ...")

[ame]http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ACIS1inmjFc[/ame]

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

I've never been one to P4P so I'm no specialist in this regard, but I always thought of GFE as something more than the standard hook up at residence/hotel for hot kinky fun. I took GFE to be more of a girl on your arm while out to dinner, movie, dancing scenario that later ends happily. Am I wrong in this assumption?

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No, I don't think you are wrong in your assumption of GFE, because the acronym is derived from the familiarity one would have had with a (gg) girllfriend. The term got its start from guys seeing female prostitutes who wanted more than... "come on, pay me so we can get this over with!" They wanted hugging, kissing etc.; which is truly lost nowadays when dealing with a t-girl who is escorting. So now its part of the erotic ad lexicon. The same goes for a term like 'not a clockwatcher'.
GFE can also be construed as, just as you described it Remy, to take to dinner, to a movie, etc., just like one would do with a female. However, P4P is the norm in the game and there aren't very many girls that give-up the GFE without their palms being greased! Anyone else feel me on this?
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TVSURFER, I would not expect kissing in P4P, it violates the exchange-of-fluids rule.

When I first met Penny she was irresistible, yet she quoted a ridiculous price of $20 (but gradually she did increase this). She said she was "just a freak" and "liked to have fun". It was like "who is paying whom here ?". She's always been under the radar and hardly ever advertises, she just phones up her legions of admirers. Ok, well, maybe not a GFE, more like a "nympho experience". :D

Karen was never cheap and not quite as freaky, and she has more emotional feeling and sentimentality, closer to a GF. As far as I can tell, it's part of the hustle, but it's actually a little hard to tell sometimes with her (I guess I don't know her that well, after all).

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Originally Posted by MrF

Guys who do P4P know that the GFE (girlfriend experience) is quite rare, though how rare depends on how good your game is. I've known 2 TGirls, each for ~5 years who've provided the elusive GFE. For this thread I'll call them Penny and Karen, though that's not their real name. They're not on this site and you shouldn't try to guess who they are.

When I first met Penny she was smoking hot and very popular. Nowadays she's still slender but her face has aged, she looks 35 (claims to be 25). In the beginning she didn't think much about me; I just saw her whenever I saw her, which was not very often. But in the past 1.5 years all our rendezvous are driven by her -- she calls me frequently, sometimes at weird hours, and much more often than I want to see her. She does not seem desperate or drugged-out and is always reasonable when I finally answer the phone, or when I see her. When we meet, she gets as excited as I do, and "gets her nut", but there is never any sentimentality or drama.

Karen is a very horny girl who meets me at the door naked or in slinky clothes and heats up like a microwave. When we embrace there is real passion and she always tries hard to please me. I like her probably too much for my own good and have helped her a few times when she needed it. Twice she left escorting for a LTR, and both times I felt very happy for her and frankly a little relieved that I was free from worrying about her. But sadly her LTRs never lasted very "L", and she called me back. A few times I tried to break free and stayed away for months at a time. For awhile she would send sentimental messages. Eventually I'd break down and come back.

Well, it will be interesting to see what happens in the long haul. And the long haul happens faster than we realize ...

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That cycle is bound to happen dealing with an escort. I dont think its so bad. Sounds like yall respect each other's lives. Cant ask for anything better.

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Originally Posted by DirtySouth

That cycle is bound to happen dealing with an escort. I dont think its so bad. Sounds like yall respect each other's lives. Cant ask for anything better.

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I've been wanting something like that for awhile now. But it is difficult in dealing with the P4P. Eros is just ridiculous, sometimes i won't even dare think about calling some of them ads. Especially those requiring no talk of the activities you are thinking about paying for :eek: WTF. That just sounds like a scam. Maybe i'm wrong! But i'm usually not. Craigslist is a little more forgiving in that area. But i can't seem to find me any steady action, although i still get that love from my "first". She has texted me a few times and I suppose i dropped the ball there from dis-belief, but on a whole I would think what could be better than Knowing a couple of beautiful TS's that you could just kick it with like ex-girlfriends.:cool: