just a monday morning dont think too hard topic. if you are a ts that bottoms, which matters more to you sexually and why: his length, his girth, or his stamina? assuming you had to choose just one, which would you pick and why?
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just a monday morning dont think too hard topic. if you are a ts that bottoms, which matters more to you sexually and why: his length, his girth, or his stamina? assuming you had to choose just one, which would you pick and why?
Very good question Knockout. As a male who is very dominant sexually and like strictly bottom transsexuals when it comes to sex I always wondered what is the turn on for the ladies in a guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Personally I work on stamina because I want to be in full sweat by time we're finished. The sweatier the better. I get pretty aggressive during sex, dirty talk, grunting, but its all about pleasure and passion.
The thing I like in tgirls when it comes to sex is a nice round butt, very smooth skin from head to toe. A real softness about them, the hair, the nails, the lips, the more feminine the better.
So ladies do give some ideas as to what Knockout asked about guys.
as far as things that attract me to ts, i think we share some similarities. i love femininity. i adore a lady who pays attention to the little things like feet, perfume, and tone (voice). as far as in the bed, if she is my girl, i really have no limits. if she wants to try something i will. i am about as aggressive and masculine a black man as their is, muscular compact build, punchers hands, and legs the size of tree trunks but i am secure enough with my masculinity to 'let her do her' so long as it doesn't involve anything dangerous...a bit of a tangent, my apologiesQuote:
Originally Posted by BlkMuscleTop
True dat, that's what I'm saying :) I mean we tend to hear the attraction to femininity all the time so it becomes pretty standard, but to me its something that can't be explained by words alone. I'm just attracted to femininity in transsexual women, because of the combination that their physical and mental makeup combines to make them unique.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I mean something for example like a transsexual woman in a thong, the curves, the hips, the walk, the talk it just draws this brotha in. :)
Good question, however, we have only three active t-girls who contribute to the site. I would really like to hear what they have to say, first, before the thread falls off point. Be fair and honest to the guys, girls; stay on question because my fellow tops, we know what we like and what we'll do, in particular.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I want to hear the [3] girls POV before this thread shoots to the next planet (at warp speed, no doubt!:rolleyes:) ;)This could get interesting!
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hmmm... it's an interesting question and the 'choose just one' has me in a quandry as obviously, a nice combination of all three is ideal :)Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
but... if I can add another assumption that the guy in question is of average length / girth, then I would definitely choose stamina. If I'm with someone that I like, then obviously I want to spend some time with him and let's face it, for most guys, once they pop, they pretty much tend to disappear. That being said... if I'm escorting, I'd just assume get in, get off, get out.
For such a simple question, there are a lot of complex answers. But, I am thinking stamina is the most important thing give I like the guy and he's of average size.
As a ts, I do like to bottom, but none of what you mention matters if my needs can't be met too. I like a guy who goes down town. He can have a tiny pencil dick and last 2 minutes, but if he takes my needs into consideration, he's the man for me. If I have to be strickly bottom, then you have to be paying. Thats work to me. Mutual pleasure is fun. Total top= paying trick. Thats just MY point of view. And thats why I deal with REAL men who know that sex is not just about pleasing yourself but your partner too
My #1 is stamina... I've been with guys who were less than impressive as far as size but had a bad ass stroke that had me speechless
#2 is girth. I love a thick piece that can fill me up as opposed to a long skinny that doesn't do anything but put pressure in my stomach
But if I were to recommend anything... that thing when y'all pull out and go back in repeatedly... maybe its just me but I HATE that! When u get in, stay in!
LOL... sex is SO subjective... I LOVE IT when a guy does that! Different strokes for different folks I guess :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Skye
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Originally Posted by Skye
Maybe those dudes aren't stroking it right, there is an art to this shit, can't just stick it in and start pumping away. My tactic is to get my dick massaging that prostate over and over with short, deep strokes. Never coming all the way out but just repeatedly rubbing the prostate back and forth with my dick along with putting pressure on the perenium, where the prostate can be massaged externally. That is why a dude should always angle his strokes towards the front of shorty's body, whether she is ass up or face down, that way you will be hitting that prostate repeatedly with max pressure and pleasure. Gotta get all up in there.
The combination of internal and external pressure on the prostate and perineum will send a shorty buck wild. Once I wrap my arms around her and have her moaning and squirming its over, hands free cum for her, the key is having the stamina to get to that point.
If most dudes just want to get their nut on and don't take the time to realize how to give pleasure then it will be whack of course. But I've never been a selfish dude, I give to get. :)
thanks for the insight. can u clarify what u mean by go downtown? your point of view is very interesting, given previous views u shared with us. seems like we aren't as far apart philosophically as i once thought.Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
i have heard a number of genetic women prefers girth because they say it stimulates the clit more. given that ts dont have clits, what specifically does the girth do for u?Quote:
Originally Posted by Skye
i think that the word average with regard to dick size is open for interpretation. i see a lot of men and women throwing around measurements like 12, 11, and 10 inches. if you look at a straight edge ruler and actually realize how big 12 inches are , many people would be shocked!Quote:
Originally Posted by GroobyKrissy
I was thinking the same thing when I saw her response.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I read somewhere that the average length is like 6 to 6.5 inches so anything beyond that is extra credit!Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Yeah it always is irratating when girls state ridicules sizes but they do so bcause that's what guys want to here and see. I'd much rather them talk about how pretty their face is and how great a personality they have and then prove that!
Very true Remy, you know how people love to exaggerate. I doubt there are many 10,11,12 inch dicks out there, shit we're humans not horses or elephants.Quote:
Originally Posted by Remy757Photog
I'm talking clinical definition of average... 5" - 6"...Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Why does that bother you though?Quote:
But if I were to recommend anything... that thing when y'all pull out and go back in repeatedly... maybe its just me but I HATE that! When u get in, stay in!
A dollar bill is only 6 inches long. So I love when I guy tells me 12 and only has 6 or 7. I ask where is the rest? I have a tape measure!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I always get a kick out watching the models try and position the ruler the way I DIDN'T tell them, to make themselves look closer to 8 inches and what not.
I tell you what, being 'hung' is not all that it's cracked up to be...ok it is... but seriously, getting 'wood' is impossible to hide, especially if you're like me and don't do too much of the baggy loose fitting jeans and totally abhor wearing skivvies.
I can't really put it into words.... sorry boo.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Um, i think we are ALL still waiting on that answer.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Lick my pussy stick before you nail my ass to the bed!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Is that an order Mistress? lol j/kQuote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
Really you say! Okay if I must. "LOL"Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
Makes sense to me. If your in a relationship with someone and your the only one who has an orgasim how good is the relationship, really.Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
True, oh so true! That's why you're my guy!Quote:
Originally Posted by nycguy
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Thank you for the refreshing honesty in this thread...
As a post op clitoral stimulation is important to me, whether it's done orally,Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
or via a penis.
Size isn't critical to me, average length and girth are fine, but I do need a
man with stamina, no two minute brothers.
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Originally Posted by peggygee
Just want know to how long is considered to be good stamina? :o
Sometimes a quickie is cool, in the morning when we're both in a hurry to getQuote:
Originally Posted by thookie
to work.
But other than that, the man who comes too quick, and then falls asleep, will
get kicked to the curb.
Usually 30-60 minutes on average, hits the spot. :cool:
And just for the record, I prefer girth more than anything. The thicker the meat, the harder I cum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!