Just Wondering

[chubbychaser]

I don't much care for this excuse, but to each their own. What you are saying would imply that every single long term relationship that you've been in thus far has netted you at least one child. That's rarely the case though I admit there are exceptions to the rule. Just because you are in a long term relationship doesn't mean you have to be plotting marriage, children, funeral. lol

By the way there are other options aside from adoption (I'm a huge believer in btw) like surrogate mothers, sometimes even from her family that way the bloodlines are "truly" maintained.

No it haven't netter me with atleast one child, but i was serious and wanted to have a family with that person "After we're married that is". I mean whats the point of a long term relationship IF YOU DON'T PLAN ON BUILDING ANYTHING. That so high school and child like.

[Darkness]

I've had two long term and one short one. The children issue doesn't bother me. I know what I prefer (I wish I had this mindset 20 yrs ago). The real issue is finding a lady who I'm "equally yoked" with. I don't mean religion. I mean the same morals and life goals...someone who wants a committed relationship. I'm patient though. No need to rush in with someone who isn't on the same page.

[Kazharlem]

I've had two long term and one short one. The children issue doesn't bother me. I know what I prefer (I wish I had this mindset 20 yrs ago). The real issue is finding a lady who I'm "equally yoked" with. I don't mean religion. I mean the same morals and life goals...someone who wants a committed relationship. I'm patient though. No need to rush in with someone who isn't on the same page.

Great Point!

[thepiedpiper]

Having a biological child is something that is important to me but it certainly would never be the basis for a relationship. I try not to prioritise whether I'd prefer to be with a trans girl or genetic girl in the long term as in my opinion there is the risk of fetishising if you do that, much like preferring a certain race, hair colour etc etc. When it comes down to it women are women, GG or not and whoever I find as long as I'm happy and we share the same values I'm happy with that.