Black Transsexuals are Finally Breaking Through!!

[kittymatthews]

If you were truly willing to do that, you wouldn't be such a broke hypocrite now would you?

I don't think that anyone suggested that you make a career out of pornography, but you are in the adult industry and I believe that people should give 100% in all they endeavor upon. You are half assing it on web doing cam shows because you are some sort transsexual version of a true black woman. YOU WIN!

It's sort of a masculine characteristic to be so much about your business that you have your own website, do photo shoots around the country for multiple magazines, dance in tgirl strip clubs, travel the country escorting AND creep off to walk the hoe strolls on the low. Females in the industry that do all of that most of the time have a man guiding them through the process, most of the time...

You literally have a black woman's brain. That shit is fuckin up your money because you like many black women are on that get an education, get a good job, remain employed till retirement. Unlike black women you do not provide jobs with that double tax credit they receive for hiring a "double minority." You know, black and a woman. You are just black and a man, legally. No bueno for unskilled labor positions... How about you work towards positioning yourself to employ people? Perhaps that's the good you can do for the tgirl community, hire them.

Wow

And you wonder why i dont like niggers. This whole "black woman" mentality is bullshit. I keep it 100 percent. I am a black woman and the feelings i express are real. You seriously think that trans women have the same rights as men do? Are you serious.

You know nothing about the industry. How many male porn stars can you name right off the bat?

Part of being a WOMAN in the indsutry is maintaining a fan base.


Oneone, i am not playing victim here.

How about I personally come over to where you are and castrate you. That's what men like you want, right? I can start my own castration business. It'll be a huge hit. Castrate all the nigger fags that try to fuck transsexuals one day and the next day call them men. Pathetic, confused little fag.

Good luck with that.

[kittymatthews]

No, no, no Kitty don't lower yourself to pretending you are being victimized here, that's trite and overdone. Nobody ever told you to shut up and get naked so if you are perceiving that, then it's your issue and nobodies here. Nobody has also said anything about you not being able to work in porn AND be an advocate for girls, now you are just twisting the discussion into something that you feel more comfortable with and it's very unbecoming.


Welll I'm genuinely surprised and sorry to hear that as I see transgenders working in many places in the USA, so perhaps you may need to figure out why they aren't hiring you, or if it's just the economy and such.

No, thats exactally what just happened

I say "hey why cant we be recongized for somehting other than sex objects" and people essentially say "but you are a sex object"

People like me more when i just shut up and get naked. Men HATE it when women challenge their ideas

You're right it could have been a gaumut of other things. I think it just depressed me when the only things that i could get were porn. lead me to feel like there weren't many other options. Not that i have an issue with the industry, i'd just like other choices. Other choices that i feel wouldnt solidify an image that is only a small part of who i am.

[kittymatthews]

By the way oneone, you wonder why i have such a negative view of sissy pussy ass faggot bottoms. Well what you said is a perfect example. See because at the end of the day, you will always see transsexuals as men.. at the end of the day. You have some deep seeded homosexual tendecies and that's fine, just dont waste my time with it. I'm a woman By your own admission, i think like a woman. Well hun, its because i am. Obviously you seek the comfort of a man. albeit a weak man. why the fuck would i want to play into tha twisted bullshit?


Stop being ashamed of who you are. Let the fag flag fly.

[kittymatthews]

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/video...b913Lf4TpU4q5m

Here's your equality you backwards bastard.


Yeah you're right, i have a victim mentality for no reason.

[vidman]

That's great and I totally respect that, but none of those things are 'breaking through". Hearing about a tgirl who does hair isn't uncommon.

vidman: but see, it shouldn't have to be that way. I shouldn't have to feel like I have to show my ass or have sex to make money to pay for school or catapult me to sucess. We should be able to have the same oppurtunities that other people have when it comes to getting a decent job. I spent all summer looking for a job and the only people that wanted to hire me were grooby. It shouldn't be that way. As a trans attracted man its probably hard for you to totally understand this, but when you're told every day that all you're worth is some ass... come on. This may not be a duanting idea for you, but imagine if the only way you could make money was to constantly model for porn sites and turn tricks. Even in the small time i've worked on tgirlcams, i've realized that it takes a lot of work to model and it's sorta exhausting. lol.

Transsesexual breaking through SHOULD be them breaking through in a significant way and gaining notoriety without having to sell their ass.


I dont want to hijack your thread, i just can't help but feel a little sad that this is the best that transsexual woman can do.That this is breaking out into the industry. That being a porn star somehow makes you something.

Kitty, I understand your point and I agree partially, but as Remy said, what may be lemons to you might be lemonade for someone else. I never said that a transsexual HAD to use porn as a catapult. Nor did I say that it was mandated that my friend use the porn industry. This is something she chose to do because the money was very quick for her. Name one legit job where the money is quick and substantial for anyone; male or female. Exactly! So having said that, she chose to use the porn/sex industry to make big, quick, tax free money to afford her BS degree and eventually her Masters. Kitty, I know at least 10 girls that work for AT&T in one of their many call centers across the country. I know girls who are office managers. I even know girls who work fast food chains, grocery stores and drug stores as pharmacy technicians. These girls aren't on BTG because they CHOSE not to participate in the sex/porn industry. The sex industry is a choice for most girls. There are lots of other professions that girls have to choose from. I hate that your view on this industry is so skewed. You're damn good at it but if you feel that this is so degrading and lack-luster, maybe you should reconsider what you do currently and look into something else. No disrespect intended.

By the way, Kitty you can hi-jack my thread any day. I got mad love and respect for you.

Oh yeah Kitty. What kind of education do you have? Do you have a degree of some sort? Understand that the economy, as it is currently, is making it very tough for everyone regardless of race and gender. Not saying that education is the ultimate weapon because there are other factors that play into it, but it definitely gives you a nice leg up. More and more people are getting into hustle games now because the legit job is getting scarce. I saw a special on the news the other night about the murders of prostitutes going on in Northeast America as of late. One of the girls was asked in an interview, "if you know it's dangerous and a serial killer may be at large, why do you continue to do this?" The prostitute said because prostitution is a great money making profession especially in times like these when the economy is seriously compromised and jobs are in the tank. She also said that more women, including housewives and mothers are getting into it. So, Kitty, its not just you or transsexuals that is feeling the heat. Everyone is.

[kittymatthews]

Kitty, I understand your point and I agree partially, but as Remy said, what may be lemons to you might be lemonade for someone else. I never said that a transsexual HAD to use porn as a catapult. Nor did I say that it was mandated that my friend use the porn industry. This is something she chose to do because the money was very quick for her. Name one legit job where the money is quick and substantial for anyone; male or female. Exactly! So having said that, she chose to use the porn/sex industry to make big, quick, tax free money to afford her BS degree and eventually her Masters. Kitty, I know at least 10 girls that work for AT&T in one of their many call centers across the country. I know girls who are office managers. I even know girls who work fast food chains, grocery stores and drug stores as pharmacy technicians. These girls aren't on BTG because they CHOSE not to participate in the sex/porn industry. The sex industry is a choice for most girls. There are lots of other professions that girls have to chose from. I hate that your view on this industry is so skewed. You're damn good at it but if you feel that this is so degrading and lack-luster, maybe you should reconsider what you do currently and look into something else. No disrespect intended.

By the way, Kitty you can hi-jack my thread any day. I got mad love and respect for you.

Well I have and i probably always will, have a very confusing approach to this industry. On one hand, I see myself falling into it very easily and probably doing pretty well. On the other hand, I dont like the idea of becomming a person who will always be branded by sex. I eventually want to get married and live a pretty normal life. Not any time soon, but somewhere down the line. And i wouldn't want porn to get in the way of that or what i've been working so hard at (school).

I'm a pretty desensitized person as well so to me, doing webcam shows isn't a big deal. I've been doing them for so long for free that i figured why not jump at hte oppurtunity to make money with it? I mean i dont view it as degrading, but I don't want to be a girl who's life is all based off of sex. Maybe it's the fact that i live in LA, but I feel like it's a small circle. I've had people recognize me who i've never met before and as far as amature porn goes, I haven't done much or put much effort into getting my stuff out there. Yes somehow, i can't join a tgirl social network without getting an email from some guy who saw my videos.

It's strange because when I'm actually performing, i dont feel anything. It's fun and I make money. it's only when i get recongized off screen that sorta makes me uncomfortable

My first year at school, a guy who went to school with me straight up walked up to me and said "how does it feel to know that i know what you look like naked". No joke. That scared the shit out of me an I deleted everything for a while.

But alas, i am an exhibitionist. My transition is expensive and seeing as I have such a hard time getting a job with my current schedule and transportation situation, this works for now. I dont mind being a webcam model, but I would have ot make some serious decisions in my life if i went any further than that.

I dont judge girls who do porn. How can I? Ive been making my own videos since i was 16. I guess I just wish it were easier for me to get a job at McDonalds than it is to get a job at grooby. That's all. I obviously dont mind working in the industry in the way I am currently, but i really dont want that to be my life. It is a reality that had it not been for porn or tricks, i wouldn't be able to buy school books and hormones. All I wanted last summer was a decent honest job. And it seemed like the only way i could earn money was to pull tricks. And to me, that was a lot more degrading and dangerous that sitting on a camera being sexy and jerking off.

Edit:

and you're right. Times are hard. I go to a really good school and i've yet to graduate. Im sure there are tons of reasons i dont get hired. It's easy to blame my transition i guess. But at the same time, i cant ignore the uncomfortable faces when someone reads my male name on an application.

[peggygee]

and you're right. Times are hard. I go to a really good school and i've yet to graduate. Im sure there are tons of reasons i dont get hired. It's easy to blame my transition i guess. But at the same time, i cant ignore the uncomfortable faces when someone reads my male name on an application.

As regards employment, this may be helpful:



Transfriendly Job Listings

http://theipowa.org/?q=content/employment

On the issue of having your name be congruent with your gender, here is information on having your name changed in the state of California:

Effective May 11, 2009, the California Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) changed the process for changing your name and gender marker on your California Driver's License. There is no longer a single form that you can use to simultaneously change both your name and your gender. From now on, you must submit a form DL 329 to change you gender, and a form DL 44 to change your name.

To change your gender on your California driver's license:

* 1. Obtain the DMV Medical Certification and Authorization (Gender Change) Form DL 329 available at http://www.dmv.ca.gov/forms/dl/dl329.pdf
* 2. The DL 329 must be completed by a licensed U.S. physician or psychologist.
* 3. The physician or psychologist must designate whether your “gender identification” and “demeanor” are male or female.
* 4. The physician or psychologist must also designate whether your gender identification is “complete” or “transitional.” However, only a licensed U.S. physician (and not a psychologist) can certify that your gender identification is “complete.”
* 5. If your physician or psychologist indicates on the DL 329 that your gender identification is “transitional,” you must submit a new form DL 329 every 5 years. If a new form DL 329 is not submitted, your original gender marker will be restored.
* 6. If your physician or psychologist indicates on the DL 329 that
your gender identification is “complete,” you will not be required to submit new information about your gender to obtain a new or renewed license.

** Please note that you still do not need to have SRS to change your gender marker on your driver's license!

To change your name on your California driver's license:

1. Obtain and complete the Driver License or Identification Card Application form DL 44. The Form DL 44 is available only at your local DMV office. Note that you may need to provide additional documentation to ensure that the name provided on the application is your true full name.

2. The most common and acceptable form of additional documentation is a court-ordered name change.

3. Other types of acceptable additional documentation include a birth certificate, passport, military ID card, U.S. naturalization certificate, American Indian card, or U.S. citizenship card. Birth and identity documents from other countries may also qualify. HOWEVER, this additional form of identification must state your current true name as you want it to appear on your driver's license. It cannot be your birth or other former name.

4. Other types of acceptable information include official judicial decrees such as: an adoption decree; a marriage certificate; a dissolution of marriage certificate; a domestic partnership registration certificate or declaration; or a dissolution of domestic partnership certificate of judgment. Again, this additional form of identification must state your current true name as you want it to appear on your driver's license. It cannot be your birth or other former name.

To change both your name and your gender on your California driver's license:

1. Complete both form DL 329 and form DL 44 as well as attach additional proof of identity to form DL 44 such as a court-ordered name change.

[kittymatthews]

thanks tons!!

[peggygee]

thanks tons!!

You're most welcome.

Trust and believe that you and any other transwoman can be and do any
thing that they set their hearts and minds to.

[kittymatthews]

Thank you.

My goal is to have this all settled by the time i turn 21. In otherwords, by September.