Escort Question??

[tsamberskyi]

Im not sayin you shouldnt get your money. If they wanna pay, you might as well take it....im not even telling you to stop telling them 'its not trickin if you got it'...if thats all it takes to make them break bread, do you by all means...tell a trick what they want to hear sweetheart...thats the game

well when i said the whole it 'aint tricking..' thing i was being facetious.while escorting is a hustle i try to be as genuine as possible.the really good providers dont make you feel like your a client at all and the best clients dont make you feel like a whore.

[Kazharlem]

well when i said the whole it 'aint tricking..' thing i was being facetious.while escorting is a hustle i try to be as genuine as possible.the really good providers dont make you feel like your a client at all and the best clients dont make you feel like a whore.

I like how you worded that.

[Black Magick]

The problem is, a lot of guys who actually consider the long term get swept up in that category. And before long they start becoming rather cynical about ever finding a TS who isn't into just money. Black Magick is a good example ( No offense. ) And honestly there are times where I'm almost in the same boat as he is. Next thing you know everyone is bitter and no body gets all the hugs and kisses they want.

None taken.

I actually speak the way I do to show these trans exactly what happens when a person is fed up with all the bullshit they do. I know that 99.9% of the guys on here are blind and love to act like the TS are incapable of doing any wrong. But that's nonsense. I've given up my search for a TS, long-term at least, because I can't be with anyone whose ever prostituted (I guess escorting it the politically correct word). Even once is too many times. Unfortunately, many of them will say they've never done it, but after doing some digging around, I always find out that they're lying. I don't buy that whole "it was the only way I can make a living" bullshit either. If a black man can't use that excuse when he's in a courtroom for dealing drugs, then a TS doesn't get to use that excuse either. They just want easy money. I've met quite a few TS that work average, everyday jobs and lead productive lives. But guess what else? They also don't indulge in the bullshit that their counterparts usually do. They can actually get jobs because they have good attitudes, they're not dramatic, they're not trashy-looking, they don't try to bring attention to themselves, etc.

[tsamberskyi]

The problem is, a lot of guys who actually consider the long term get swept up in that category. And before long they start becoming rather cynical about ever finding a TS who isn't into just money. Black Magick is a good example ( No offense. ) And honestly there are times where I'm almost in the same boat as he is. Next thing you know everyone is bitter and no body gets all the hugs and kisses they want.

and you think it isnt any different with gg's? i hear the same compliant from men when whining about females..."bitches only care about money,looks, dick, this and that."
and the same thing can be said about dudes...how many decent everyday girls get pushed aside for shorty with the prettiest face,fattest ass or nicest titties???
my first boyfriend was unemployed (never will do that again).the two after that have been decent blue collar,hard working types but in no means rich or well off.none of them have been the flyest,cutest,big dicked or thuggish guys out there.however they were decent men (well not the first one,he was a dog) with whom i vibed with.

[tsamberskyi]

None taken.

I actually speak the way I do to show these trans exactly what happens when a person is fed up with all the bullshit they do. I know that 99.9% of the guys on here are blind and love to act like the TS are incapable of doing any wrong. But that's nonsense. I've given up my search for a TS, long-term at least, because I can't be with anyone whose ever prostituted (I guess escorting it the politically correct word). Even once is too many times. Unfortunately, many of them will say they've never done it, but after doing some digging around, I always find out that they're lying. I don't buy that whole "it was the only way I can make a living" bullshit either. If a black man can't use that excuse when he's in a courtroom for dealing drugs, then a TS doesn't get to use that excuse either. They just want easy money. I've met quite a few TS that work average, everyday jobs and lead productive lives. But guess what else? They also don't indulge in the bullshit that their counterparts usually do. They can actually get jobs because they have good attitudes, they're not dramatic, they're not trashy-looking, they don't try to bring attention to themselves, etc.

so than why not entertaining something real with the above ts you described since those are qualities you obviously find enduring

[Black Magick]

so than why not entertaining something real with the above ts you described since those are qualities you obviously find enduring

Two reasons:

1. We're sexually incompatible
2. I gave my word that I'll never date a TS and I'm sticking to it.

[tsamberskyi]

Two reasons:

1. We're sexually incompatible
2. I gave my word that I'll never date a TS and I'm sticking to it.

after you opened your mouth i am completely sure that the reason trans women payed you no mind is your horrible views of them.
HEAR THIS NOW GENTLEMAN...YOU WILL NEVER FIND A TS NO MATTER HOW COOL OR DOWN TO EARTH THAT IS GOING TO BE OKAY WITH BEING CALLED HE OR HIM (CROSSDRESSERD DONT COUNT!).

[CosmicTraveler]

and you think it isnt any different with gg's? i hear the same compliant from men when whining about females..."bitches only care about money,looks, dick, this and that."
and the same thing can be said about dudes...how many decent everyday girls get pushed aside for shorty with the prettiest face,fattest ass or nicest titties???
my first boyfriend was unemployed (never will do that again).the two after that have been decent blue collar,hard working types but in no means rich or well off.none of them have been the flyest,cutest,big dicked or thuggish guys out there.however they were decent men (well not the first one,he was a dog) with whom i vibed with.

GG's may have similar complaints, but in my experience it was always by a much smaller margin that I've seen it with them. What I'm talking about is much more common with ts girls. When you consider I'd been talking to gg's a good 7 years before I'd even realized I was in to ts girls, that accounts for quite a lot of them.

[andwar]

well when i said the whole it 'aint tricking..' thing i was being facetious.while escorting is a hustle i try to be as genuine as possible.the really good providers dont make you feel like your a client at all and the best clients dont make you feel like a whore.

I Agree 110 percent,but unfortunately there are definetley not enough BTG escorts that conduct there business that way.But I hear Men say they wont pay for sex.one way or the other your paying for it.wether its dinner,a movie ect.....or just taken the direct quicker and for some,cheaper route to having the sex you wanted all along.

[thegreat1]

I Agree 110 percent,but unfortunately there are definetley not enough BTG escorts that conduct there business that way.But I hear Men say they wont pay for sex.one way or the other your paying for it.wether its dinner,a movie ect.....or just taken the direct quicker and for some,cheaper route to having the sex you wanted all along.

NOT THE SAME. I have taken a female to dinner, a movie and out for drinks with no expectation of sex. Hell, ive had sex with ts and gg's who wanted nothing but to have sex with me Would you in turn go see an escort and give her money and accept not getting any? No, you wouldnt.

I wish dudes would stop coming up with shit to psychologically make them feel better about shit they do.

Ps. I have nothing against escorts or the men who use them. Just do what you do and stop making up shit to make yourself feel better about it