Meeting Ashley from Atlanta GA

[GroobySteven]

Just a clarification on this forum rules.

It is quite alright and expected that members and surfers will ask for model contact details. Although we're not allowed to give specific details ourselves, if another member has that information and it's publicly available, then please give it! If it's personal information, then check with the model first before posting it OR have the model post here

Models and TS's can come on here and post their own contact information and photos also.

Remember, there is NO harm is asking for information. We're a community resource site for all things Black Transsexuals. Please keep the requests here and not on the comment pages.

Thanks
seanchai

[Ms Remy M]

I have to agree, you were a little harsh Roninva. Simply giving him various sites to investigate would have been better than knocking him in the manner in which you did.

I've never been to Brazil, and if I was to take a trip there I would probably hit the forum over in brazilian-transsexuals.com for advice before hitting the standard escort sites. Simply because if I can get a personal response from someone 'in the know' I would consider it of much higher value opposed to the escorts personal ad, which is going to be biased.

Sorry I couldn't help you more Rouge.

[TVSURFER]

I have to agree, you were a little harsh Roninva. Simply giving him various sites to investigate would have been better than knocking him in the manner in which you did.

I've never been to Brazil, and if I was to take a trip there I would probably hit the forum over in brazilian-transsexuals.com for advice before hitting the standard escort sites. Simply because if I can get a personal response from someone 'in the know' I would consider it of much higher value opposed to the escorts personal ad, which is going to be biased.

Sorry I couldn't help you more Rouge.

[TVSURFER]

Just a clarification on this forum rules.

It is quite alright and expected that members and surfers will ask for model contact details. Although we're not allowed to give specific details ourselves, if another member has that information and it's publicly available, then please give it! If it's personal information, then check with the model first before posting it OR have the model post here

Models and TS's can come on here and post their own contact information and photos also.

Remember, there is NO harm is asking for information. We're a community resource site for all things Black Transsexuals. Please keep the requests here and not on the comment pages.

Thanks
seanchai

[roninva]

First of all, go back and read his appeal; he was asking for help. Secondly, he did his homework; which is why he posted on a site that’s a credible source? He’s from someplace else! Isn’t that doing your homework?
I ascertained you were really admonishing the guy because he wasn’t thinking or he should have been thinking like YOU. That is evident, but there are blurred distinctions between advice and opinion. You didn’t give him credit for trying; getting this far? That’s why he took offense to your reply; that’s why I said WOW! Right is right dude. He was asking for help. What you were telling him is a subject for an interesting post. He wanted assistance, not opinion.

ok here is his plea for help

Please can anyone give me contact information for Ashley who is featured in the July 2008 shoot. Dirty South took her pics and she did videos on the 1july and 26th aug she is tall with short brown, bobbed hair style - absolute stunner and I am travelling to Atlanta soon and am desperate to meet this gorgeous t-girl. Any help here would be greatly greatly appreciated. Pls private mail me if you dont want to post here. Many thanks and I will reciprocate any favors if I can !!!

Now where in all of this do you see he said he did his homework...nada, no where, did he said he did anything to look for himself, I just told him to do some research nothing more, he didn't mention doing any research until his second post, didn't call him any names gave some alternative places to look etc, sorry he is so thin skin, I was trying to help him from having problems.

You guys better break him to the reality of dealing with some of these ladies, it's not all wine and roses, much better for him to be pissed at me then coming to the U.S. and getting into something he may not have bargain for.

[Ms Remy M]

ok here is his plea for help



Now where in all of this do you see he said he did his homework...nada, no where, did he said he did anything to look for himself, I just told him to do some research nothing more, he didn't mention doing any research until his second post, didn't call him any names gave some alternative places to look etc, sorry he is so thin skin, I was trying to help him from having problems.

You guys better break him to the reality of dealing with some of these ladies, it's not all wine and roses, much better for him to be pissed at me then coming to the U.S. and getting into something he may not have bargain for.

You're right I reckon, and I can't fault you from that POV. You didn't know it, but I had already spoken with Rouge prior to your post and he had tried various escort sites, and actually had caught on to how migratory (is that a word?) these escorts can be. Again, he was looking for real credible info, like "here's where you can find her contact info." more so than 'do your own homework'. Which to me, gave the impression that you didn't want to share the information that you worked to attain. No need to horde all the babes for yourself! j/k

[roninva]

ok here is his plea for help



Now where in all of this do you see he said he did his homework...nada, no where, did he said he did anything to look for himself, I just told him to do some research nothing more, he didn't mention doing any research until his second post, didn't call him any names gave some alternative places to look etc, sorry he is so thin skin, I was trying to help him from having problems.

You guys better break him to the reality of dealing with some of these ladies, it's not all wine and roses, much better for him to be pissed at me then coming to the U.S. and getting into something he may not have bargain for.

this is what I wrote in my first reply

Check the usual places if she's in the life you will find her there, you need to learn to do you own homework it's not hard at all, and remember she is not from Atlanta,

That's it basic escort 101 nothing more than a tip for happy hunting and it's taken as a insult,? if he would of stated what he did in the second email in his first posting I wouldn't of told him to do his homework.

And if I was going out the country I would do my own research first and then start asking for help, and I would of explained what I have done at the start to exhaust my search and I didn't know where to proceed from this point, this will keep me from getting repetitive info that I already know leads to nowhere.

[Ms Remy M]

this is what I wrote in my first reply


That's it basic escort 101 nothing more than a tip for happy hunting and it's taken as a insult,? if he would of stated what he did in the second email in his first posting I wouldn't of told him to do his homework.

And if I was going out the country I would do my own research first and then start asking for help, and I would of explained what I have done at the start to exhaust my search and I didn't know where to proceed from this point, this will keep me from getting repetitive info that I already know leads to nowhere.

*sigh* Granted, but look at it from the outsider's perspective new to the world of BTG's. A guy anixously excited to come to America a land ripe with BTG's. I imagine as it was one of his first post, he hasitly typed it out and sent the message. You are speaking from the perspective of a discerning individual who knows a good deal of the ins-and-outs of the escort game. Not everyone has that experince. Would you teach someone to swim by telling them simply to 'do their own homework' or being an experinced swimmer go ahead and do a couple laps so he can get the feel for it?

[roninva]

You're right I reckon, and I can't fault you from that POV. You didn't know it, but I had already spoken with Rouge prior to your post and he had tried various escort sites, and actually had caught on to how migratory (is that a word?) these escorts can be. Again, he was looking for real credible info, like "here's where you can find her contact info." more so than 'do your own homework'. Which to me, gave the impression that you didn't want to share the information that you worked to attain. No need to horde all the babes for yourself! j/k

If I knew if she had a website or fan club, I would of pointed him in the right direction, no problem, but you know as well as I that sometimes escorts can be a little aloof, better to find one that is advertising and has reviews than beat you head in trying to find one who's not trying to be visible.

[TVSURFER]

If I knew if she had a website or fan club, I would of pointed him in the right direction, no problem, but you know as well as I that sometimes escorts can be a little aloof, better to find one that is advertising and has reviews than beat you head in trying to find one who's not trying to be visible.

roninva, you just don't get it, do you?
This horse died a few miles back!