Maybe its a cultural thing that I just don't get. I won't name names but I took the plunge this weekend and finally went to one of the more popular ts parties in nyc this weekend.
I was in nyc for business and decided to check one of these things out seeing as we don't have that kind of thing in the dc area.
First of all, I wouldn't call a bunch of old lame weird lookin dudes holding up a wall drinkin heinekens a party. Im gonna be real, the shit was more like a whorehouse than a party, at least as what I consider partying (40/40 club, club love in dc, etc). Girls charging dudes to dance (what they call a lapdance...no nudity, just a shortie grind dancin on ya lap), music was whack, just not a good look at all. Now, to be honest there was a about 10 dimes up in there but overall their attitudes were more 'get money' like than 'im here to party'.
Is this typical for ts party or did I just go to the wrong spot? That's a hell of a first impression...im normally the type to buy the bar out every now and then, dance, strike up some good convo and possbly meet a chick or two in a regular (gg) club...but this set up wasn't condusive to that kind of thing.