I remember one day last fall, I was sitting at a T bar in San Francisco, when a very effeminate behaving guy with a full beard and expensive-looking hair, sat next to me. He offerred to buy me a drink, but I declined with serious doubts and suspicions.
After only a couple of beers, he leaned over and told me that he'd just love to "suck my cock". This really infuriated me! The very idea, that some dudish-looking dude, acting effeminately feels confident enough to say something so crude and blatant, just felt insulting.
I then began to think about the Tgirls and how each of them have journeyed from a very similiar place as this guy and how I would have felt quite differently had it come from one of them instead.

For some reason, I just love tgirls, but I can just barely tolerate a sissie...