Now before I tart this, I mean no tea and no shade to any girls out there. This is simply my observations and questions so please dont take it as offensive...you too boys.


Now... As a trans woman, my personal goal is to pass, which I tend to do pretty well. Part of being passable, to me, is being "natural". Now granted some trans women dont end up having "natural" beauty and they change that so that they do look ore 'natural'. This isn't about those girls.

What I'd like to know is this:

Why do so many men on this forum seem to be extremely turned on by women, who in my opinion, surpass or exceed what is "natural" in appearance. Such as unnaturally pumped large asses, unnaturally placed breasts, unnaturally enchnaced thighs and legs and ect ect. When i see girls like that I see them as a sort of caricature of a woman. A sort of over exaggeration that makes them, in my opinion, more clownish than 'womanly'. I guess my approach to transition is different. The desire to blend and match with women, as apposed to trying to be the most sexualized woman in the room.

At times i ask myself, what job, aside from porn, could these women actually do? Would they be hired to flip burgers, clean floors or any other entry level or possiby unskilled jobs? I cant imagine so. I know of very few cis gendered women who have hypersexualized images who work and thrive in nonsexal environments. I personally do not want any major surgeries because i believe that I have natural beauty, whether you agree or not. I guess sometiems I feel BIT left out because of that. lol. Dont get me wrong, there's not an ounce of jealousy towards these women. It more makes me wonder why men seem to prefer, in my opinon, women who look hyperfeminine and hypersexual.

It's been a belief of mine that men are generally interested in trans women because they project a female image that is extreme. A female image that generally cannot be mirrored by cisgendered females. The constant pursuit of femininity and beauty is a turn on for men. Now, this has remained a hypothesis of mine so I guess now I'd like it either confirmed or denied.


I know not all trans attracted men are equal so I wont try to say they are. but Here are my questions

A. do you find transsexuals attractive partly because of their constant pursuit of femininity? A pursuit often forgotten or laid aside from cisgendered women?

B. Would you date a girl like the one I described? A girl who is more unnatural than natural?

C. Do the standards of beauty held to black transsexuals echo the same standard you have on cisgendered women, if you are interested in both?

D. Do you think the standards of beauty held to or pursuedblack transsexuals, echo the standards of beauty constructed by cases like the "hot en tot venus" and the overall stereotypical hypersexualization of the black female body?



Now, i know im getting a little cerebral on you guys, but I know there's some smart 'bruthas' on this forum so let me know what you think I am curious