Quote Originally Posted by vidman View Post
Brooklyn, I understand what you're saying, but let me just say that the good guys (like me), you girls don't seem to be interested in. I'm a good dude. No wife, no kids, got a good job, my own place, two vehicles, college graduate, very attractive, hit the gym everyday so I'm fit as well.....Would love the opportunity to get to know a nice girl but I've had very bad luck in obtaining a true relationship. Oh yeah, sex is not hard to achieve at all. At times it seems that transsexuals are more horny than I am. But when I proceed with talks of committment, it all goes south. So just know, Brooklyn, that there are good guys out here. I think it's just a matter of two people meeting, figuring out what it is they want from each other, being GENUINE about it and going for it. It always seems to be games involved when I try to turn a friendship into something serious. It's almost like the girls get scared.
I understand that. Most likely reason girls get scared is bc of how most guys are towards them. Most guys who are even attracted to ts women/friends with ts women arent actually friends. Friends doesnt consist of sex in my world. && most guys see things like this. If im seen with a ts then ppl will think im gay/fucking a nigga. so i wont be seen with her. i will either chill at her spot or she can come to mine late at night when i think ppl are sleep. Thats most guys. the other .02% are the guys like you.

i was never a promiscuous girl. still i am not. i would rather be friends with a guy 10yrs before i even told him i liked him, that is more then enough time for him to gage me for everything i am & for me to do the same with him. ( first 6months -2yrs ppl do not let u see the real them) so that is enough time to see if they are somebody u should settle down with, PPl move to fast now. its str8 to sex.

GUY: "hi im adam."
GIRL: "hi im april"
GUY: "u a freak?"
GIRL: "errrrrrrrrrrrr?"