Quote Originally Posted by Indy24 View Post
Well I most apologize since I wasn't aware that Bottom/top/verse were exclusive to the gay community but in my defense TS have been around just as long as they have considering that we can't have the Y before getting the X first. But for the sake of argument lets just call it "pegging" for now LOL!

The difference between you and the others I spoke of are that you, don't seem to carry the same bias.

You had a goal and you went through with it....no one was harmed during the process and you don't come off as better than anyone else.

That said even if someone wanted you to top before you fully transitioned I certain that you would've handled the situation respectfully.

On the same note I've never met a tgirl that has rejected oral sex. Sure not all of them indulge in topping. But things like that should disgussed well before any sexual encounters to begin with.

For the record this thread wasn't meant to attack anyone. And I'll be the first to admit that it isn't an exact science.

But it does explain a lot of the rash comments I get from people who should no better.

F.Y.I. A genetic woman's vaginal lips or Labia majora and minora are made from the same skin tissues as a tgirls scrotum. So what's wrong with indulging in either?
Yeah, the deal with the terms is that the trans and gay community often
borrow each others language. And nothing will get a stealth girl in trouble
quicker than knowing / using those terms.

I try, hope that I succeed in being respectful to all those that I come in
contact with. As Jesse Jackson said "Let's disagree, without being disagreable".

I also don't buy into a trans-hierarchy; non. pre, post. I don't feel that any
of those categories are better than, or worse than.

If someone had wanted me to insert my penis into them, I don't think that I
phsysiologically would have been able to rise to the occasion, especially after
HRT and the orchiechtomy.

Then too it seems like it was a different era that I transitioned in, an analog
versus a digital era. A time of cassettes, vinyl and DARPANet, not cd's, .mp3's
and the Internet.

Back then guys wanted to penetrate, more-so than be penetrated. It's
neither a ggod nor bad thing, but rather a trans-evolution, and I'm glad to
be around to see it evolve, as people became more comfortable and fluid with
their sexuality.