Quote Originally Posted by vidman View Post
Agreed! That's all I was trying to say in my post when I said, "we are obligated......" The only thing I can do is tell someone to be careful. If one of my boys came to me and said that he met such & such last night and they were supposed to hook up tonight, the ONLY thing I will tell him is to protect himself. I would never say that such & such has xyz. Not my place. I would emphasize that he needs to protect himself. That's all I was saying.
Condoms break with more than insignificant frequency. Given that fact, would you keep this from your friend if he then said, "any reason why you specifically said that to me on this occasion?"