Quote Originally Posted by Juan View Post
Opinions vary and, mine differs tremendously. Possibly it is due to dating girls that stem from all parts of the world from a wide variety of races/ethnicities.

For example,

If one's experience dating outside their race/ethnicity is minimum to non existent, then you will have difficulty seeing beyond the persons race/ethnicity. If you have a lot of experience dating outside your race/ethnicity, you will look at the person as an individual and not as a group in which society tries to project.

If a boy takes it upon himself to undergo hormonal treatment in order to become a girl, I am going to acknowledge the boy as a girl. There is no ifs, ands or buts about it. She will be treated just like a girl in every aspect. I generally make myself very clear if I stumble upon a boy that transitioned (or transitioning) to girl that I find attractive within our first engagement. For if she is not up for that, it does not make logical sense to get to know each other better.

I can only guess those that choose to cross dress for years without making some type of permanent hormonal transition, wants the best of both worlds. Possibly they are uncertain on where all this cross dressing will lead to in the long run. It appears some guys don't care where, others do. So it is up to the guy to talk to the person on where they stand beforehand.

I would not class girls who fall in the category of a tsamberskyi, in the same group a those who follows a Kim Carta's concept. Both are individuals in their own right. Both will have their own thoughts on the matter and, should not be labeled as one.
I like what you say Juan and think it is true. I'm less concerned with trying to place TSAmber or Kim Carta in a "category." I certainly do not want to offend either. I find both women very attractive. peace.