fellaz, lets take a backseat on this one and let the ladies (those of u who post as well as those that lurk) describe or explain to us what they, as individuals, feel is their ideal guy. its no right or wrong answer, and u can feel free to post pics if u want. i would just personaly like to know where some of u women are coming from when u say there are no good men around. give us all a reference of a 'good man' in your opinion so we wont have to assume its not always about the looks or the money (if its not)...this post will probably drop like bricks in water but i just figured id put the opportunity out there to discuss something beyond sex and what not...