The ones they have had here in Chicago that post on CL are just as somebody said, white men in drag. I saw a post about a party where girls like me were NOT welcome. Then again, its gotta be a thing about who knows who. My girlfriend had private hotel partys and it did work, but it was a rare thing.
I go to Sunny's and Allanahs partys, sometimes as a featured dancer, sometimes as a guest peeking in. And I must say, RARELY do I see YOUNG, sexy brotha's and latino's at these events.
I have a guy friend pitchin me an idea, and i may give it a try here in Chi, I'll keep you guys posted.
The thing is, good looing guys into us, are creepers,